Text Game Help

As far as I can tell this chick just thinks you're a friend.  Has there been any physical interest?  Did you establish a sexual frame?  You went to pet animals but this chick just wanted to pet your snake.  Sometimes if you don't act immediately chicks will lose interest because too many guys do that and never man up.  I'd chalk this one up to a learning experience but keep texting just in case.

She is really reserved (physically), quiet and soft when it comes to guys. I know she hasn't dated or been with anyone and has turned down a few of my friends in the past. Don't get me wrong though, she loves to have fun and I know is wild when she's out with her friends just not slutty. Maybe there just hasn't been a guy that could open her up. So, no there wasn't really any physical interest or a sexual frame but I figured it was ok because she was really into the conversations we were having and her body language was on point. 

How would I establish physicality with a girl like this? 

Also, if I'm gonna go through with this, how should I text her up again. I've been good about keeping distance though. It's been a week since the last rejection and since then I've cut all contact so she knows I'm not interested in friendship.

Thanks

Ok let's get one thing straight..all girls are sluts at heart.  They all want a good dicking.  The problem is most guys act like there isnt an elephant in the room when they date women.  Btw the elephant is sex and you shouldn't be shy with regards to it around women you're interested in.  The best way to address sex is by using banter/jokes.  Sexual innuendo is great or making overtly sexual comments but in an over the top manner so she knows it's a joke.  That'll at least breach the topic..eventually you can outright just talk sexually to her.  The key is you have to be comfortable doing it otherwise it'll just be awkward.  Whatever you feel she will feel.

You say "shy" but I think failure to lead.  What's funny is it's usually the shy ones that are freaks.  The ones that talk about sex all the time are the prudes..keep that in mind.

The other element is "kino escalation".  Touching her is an obvious and you need to learn how to progress that appropriately as well.  

A lightbulb just went off in my head. I completely get what you're saying. I need to man up and get the things I want solely because I want them. 

Final question:

How should I go about getting her out again? I wanna do it not because I'm attatched but because I want to prove it to myself and further the learning process.

You've been a big help.

It's not "solely because" you want something..the girl wants this as well.  It's you and her against social acceptance it's not you against her.  Before any date you ever have from this point forward you need to realize that the girl only agreed to the date because she wants you sexually.  I mean if she's willing to go on a date with you she is willing to kiss you at the very least.  You need to take that mentality with you on every date because it is reality.

At this point with this girl it is an uphill battle.  You've already not demonstrated your sexual interest and this late in the game it would be awkward to introduce it since it would not be congruent.  The reason some of your texts aren't hitting is because some of them don't give value..and this is going to open up another can of worms.  One tip on the meetup text is to introduce specifics rather than talking in generality.

"Hey let's get ice cream on Friday" vs "Meet me at pinkberry on Friday at 6:30"

You can always text something immediately after that to add value as well.  Aka double text "Your Grandma's welcome to come along as well..Grandmas love me :)"

It all makes sense. That's why she went in the first place. Here is the convo I had to get her to come with me:

Me: Is girls lacrossee over?

Me: Shoot did I spell lax right?

Her: Haha close! One less e! Um we aren't sure yet...(some random banter)

Me: Sorry we didn't get your senior night? :(

Her: It's totally fine don't worry about it! We have pictures haha

Me: Haha did your family really bring your dog?

Her: yeah he walked on the field with me an deverything hahaha

Me: Hahaha you and your family would do that

Her: I told my mom I didn't want to be escorted unless she brought the dog lol

Me: Respect

Me: Man I wish I had a dog

Her: Hey I've got two so you can borrow one haha

Me: Lol well that's one way. My mom is afraid of them so...

Her: Aw just get a little one haha

Me: Nope she's afraid of those too :(

Her: That's a bummer :/ guess you'll have to stick to borrowing for a while haha

Me: How about we robt petsmart? I still got that ski mask for ya if your up for it (sunglass emoji) (The robbing thing is an inside joke I established previously)

Her: Hahaha alright sounds like a plan

Me: I'm not sure if you can handle it. The life of a criminal is pretty tough haha.

Her: Hey if school has taught me anything its how to survive on the streets

Me: Oh you're definitely ready. Only the finest of society come out of (insert school name here)

(Some more random chatter)

Me: Haha I kinda wanna go to puppy love now. Wherever I can buy a dog and then realize Ican't after looking at em all.

Her: hahaha wouldn't that make you more sad?!

Me: oh shoot you're right. Haha come with a bring tissues :(

Me: Preferably 4 ply

Her: Hahaha ok I'll skip practice and steal puppies.

(Some more random chatter)

Me: Hahaha! Well we gotta go to petsmart then if I'm gonna have to suffer through lax (we made another deal where I would come ot her game if she came with me to pet animals)

Her: I wouldn't call it sufferring haha but that sounds like a deal to me! I'm up for anything if there puppies involved

(The rest is history)

I wish I didn't get caught up in the interaction after our date. I think that really messed me up.

just a note:

Doesn't mean you have to pay money.  Lots of people enjoy helping, as one of the best ways to learn is by teaching.  Just don't come in, take what you need and leave.  Add some value in return.

kimnasty: Thanks for that link helped out a lot!

For some value to all of you guys that helped out:  kinobody.com

Greg at the site helps guys get hollywood physiques. You can't go wrong following his stuff. He gives out tons of free info! 

Here's how the rest of the convo went - I wish i looked at that article sooner haha but yeah I think I'm scaring her off by playing the icecream thing too seriously. Oh well this is the 3rd time getting let down politely so I better call it quits

Her: How am I a criminal?!

Me: Save it. When I pikc you up next week the first thing im gonna do is kneel you over and cuff you.

Her: I have a right to know what my crime is!

Me: You'll find out when you get back but lemme just say..its dirty (devil face)

Me: BTW when is that?

Her: late on saturday!

Me: Lets get icecream this week then. Whats your schedule like?

Her: Super busy :/ I work all during the week and then have to petsit over the weekend

Me: What about your grandma? Is she free?

Her: haha I dont know! I'd have to ask her!

Me: get to it I'm a bussy man

Me: If it syour grandpa thats in the way I should be able to take him out. I'd just need your help keeping him in the tarp nice and quiet.

I knew it was over so I decided to leave on a funny note. I definitely pushed too hard now that I look back on it. Thank you guys!

*facepalm*

Its not my info I know but i mean if it would help anyone out who didn't know to get in great shape...

I'll just stop lol

LMFAO

MW which do you prefer - the frequency and standard of lays, or the way you brilliantly change so many people's lives for the better...

I guess it's a bit like asking me (music pro hopeful. maybe 12-18mnths. can't be long now) whether I prefer DJing or producing, but I'd say DJing if there was a chamber to my ear.

Dude your texting fucking sucks

^ LOL!!! 

Yo you got everybody on this thread. Rogan, Jabronavich, even that piece of shit kimnasty

This Far guy is a piece of work. If i were him I would've banged this petco loving catholic slut in one of the dog pens. Call it doggystyle. 

Reading this because of the title I also am working on texting but would say you have some work to do.

Lmao the last couple of posts were too histerical laughing on the train like a whacko

From reading the above, Rogan is pretty spot on. Dont just think because a girl is reserved that she doesn’t want a guy to be physical. Sex is sex. Everyone wants it. The fact your friends havent hooked up with her isn’t because she is reserved its because they are making the same idiotic mistake as you. And you were never in her bed room so there most certainly is a guy who handled that already. Think about it this way, “what human being would like to be reserved”

Anyway, some other stuff above you mentioned in one post that you werent needy but your texts are otherwise and girls see through that shit very easily. Know that if you feel needy, that is going to come out in your communication.

Rogan noted some great stuff about the time and place. Some other things I see are the following.

Your dates choices are mediocre and the ice cream thing was the same shit as the snow cone. Think from her perspective. Wtf is the difference? Its cold icy shit. The two dates were too similar and you most probably didnt escalate enough on the first one to make the second one worthwhile.

There was too much trying to get her out after the first one. Too much texting about stuff rather than moving foward

also I dunno if its just me there was waaaay too much talk about the dog. It looks as though you are using that as a crutch to talk to her. Talking about an animal you or her love is like good for one 10 minute conversation. 

I think this one might be hard to salvage but your needyness also came off in the post by asking MW to save you from this. Its fine dont fret just realize you are doing that and work on it. You have to be willing to let every interaction go at some point.

If you go to school with her i’de leave it alone and try to become a bit popular with her friends or just popular in general. Thats a great way to get her to invest back but Im not skilled enough in text game to know how to respond to her at this point. 

Rogan.. my bestest and favoritest wing ever, and a solid friend. :\ 

Yeah FAR518 certainly annoyed me a bit with his "candor" in this thread lol. This particular convo is from a few years back, I could be way more helpful than I was in this particular one, that's why the forum grew obviously.. but yeah if I got annoyed I wouldn't quite be so forthcoming with help. Lol 

I don't mind helping the guys craft convos, I just need certain pieces of information and a worthy enough effort on the user's part to start off. Once the MW Text Displayer app ver 2.0 comes out I'll write out a User FAQ for it to make sure guys fulfill the prequisites of getting text game help