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Text game - How to continue, when they don't reply?

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Hi guys,

I'm really starting out with game. I have two cases that I need your help with ;)

1: I number closed a really hot girl after an instant date on Saturday at a mall.

Well yesterday evening I texted her:

Me:"There is nothing better than a hot shower after jogging in the rain.smiley

I made a random statement about what I did on that day  ( maybe a bit too crazy? )

She hasn't responded to this text yet.

When should I contact her if she doesn't respond? Should I make another random statement?

2. I sent the same text to a girl I've met up with two times.

Me: "There is nothing better  than a hot shower after jogging in the rain smiley",

She: "I believe you. You are crazy smileyyes I didn't dare to leave the house today"

Me:"I'm getting aware of the fact that I do something rad, when no one else around me does it. Hey you didn't leave the house today: We should do something on Wednesday"smiley

This girl canceled some dates on the very day and she hasn't replied to it yet.

How should I continue if I don't get a positive reply?

Thank you for your help guys ;)

Cheers Thomas

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how old are you

how old are you

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I'm 22 years old. But I don't

I'm 22 years old. But I don't know what this has to do with my thread...

But anyway I was actually trying to use brad bransons method on setting up dates: http://www.bradbranson.com/an-easy-text-message-method-for-setting-up-th...

I had a closer look at manwhores text game and it is way more "playful" and I need to send out more than one text before I ask for a meet-up.

Manwhores 19 rules of great textgame seem to make more sense than brad bransons "method".

http://manwhore.org/how-to-text-a-girl-you-like/

How should I keep on going from now on? The girls haven't responded yet?

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it has everything to do with

it has everything to do with this thread.

ok, the reason why second girl replied was because she was invested - you should throw up the text convo leading to the meetup with 2nd girl so you remember what you did right.

the first girl does not need to reply to a text like that. why would she? give her something juicier to bite on - maybe use this classic "let's rob the mall tonight. get some rope and catwoman outfit"

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If they don't reply leave a

If they don't reply leave a voicemail. Be passionate about whatever you're talking about and be RELAXED. 30 seconds is cool but I like to ramble on and on.  

Follow Manwhore's stuff. That article he just wrote is actually really really good.

Brad's stuff/overly simplistic text game works for guys who come across in the initial interaction with MASSIVE value.

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Gogo wrote:ok, the reason why

Gogo wrote:
ok, the reason why second girl replied was because she was invested - you should throw up the text convo leading to the meetup with 2nd girl so you remember what you did right.

the first girl does not need to reply to a text like that. why would she? give her something juicier to bite on - maybe use this classic "let's rob the mall tonight. get some rope and catwoman outfit"

Actually the first girl has replied now (today Tuesday afternoon) Saying

Her: "Hey you are right about the shower. smiley Hey today we finally got some sunshine smiley again"

Me:"At a weather like this you are probably riding your horse in the middle of the Bavarian Prairie.  wink

(We talked about it when I was on the instant date that horse riding is her favorite hobby.)

I don't really like to talk about the weather with her... I think I also could have changed the topic completely right?

Thanks Gogo for the text:

I love the "Let's rob the mall tonight..." text;)

My text convo leading to the meetup with the 2nd girl: I was mainly telling her that I'd go to Stockholm and wanted to see her before. I knew that she loves adventurous guys and she is quite into travelling herself.

Well unfortunately I fired the text too early about the meetup. She said during the week it doesn't work out for her as she has shifting working hours at the moment.

My plan with the second girl is to simply do a bit of comfort and then after 4 texts ask her out for Sunday.

What do you think about it

@Katalyst

Thank you for the reply I think you are completely right about Brad's overly simplistic text game. It works for him but not for me as a beginner ;)

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I thought your bavarian

I thought your bavarian prairie text was kinda funny actually. She texted back? You're on the right track. I would try and get her responding a bit faster, get her more invested. These long waits are fukt. Ask her a thought provoking question with a weird twist on it. 

With second girl you should ask her when she can hang out this week otherwise you're just going to assume she's gay

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Manwhore wrote:I thought your

Manwhore wrote:
I thought your bavarian prairie text was kinda funny actually. She texted back? You're on the right track. I would try and get her responding a bit faster, get her more invested. These long waits are fukt. Ask her a thought provoking question with a weird twist on it. 

Thanks manwhore I really appreciate your feedback ;) Unfortunately Girl 1 hasn't texted back. Thus I decided to send her the one from your funny text messages database: smiley

ME: "Ur riding a horse full speed, a giraffe beside you, an elephant in front.. a snarling lion right behind you. What do u do?."

This was 10 hours ago. She hasn't guessed yet. ^^ So I probably shouldn't send her the answer right away without her trying to answer it at first.

If she doesn't reply to it within 24 hours should I ignore it and send her another statement or call her and leave a message on her voicemail?

Manwhore wrote:

With second girl you should ask her when she can hang out this week otherwise you're just going to assume she's gay

The second girl texted me that she just wants to be friends with me. I know that I made the mistake of not being physical on the second date at all. I have to learn that and I'll apply your tips http://manwhore.org/physical-escalation-tips-part-1/

By the way the two dates with this girl were the first ever dates of my life so I'm happy that I learned that physical game is one of my weak spots. ;)

I dare to make mistakes ;) to grow in this area of my life ;)

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shaun_deeb wrote: Girl 1

shaun_deeb wrote:
Girl 1 hasn't texted back. Thus I decided to send her the one from your funny text messages database: smiley

ME: "Ur riding a horse full speed, a giraffe beside you, an elephant in front.. a snarling lion right behind you. What do u do?."

This was 10 hours ago. She hasn't guessed yet. ^^ So I probably shouldn't send her the answer right away without her trying to answer it at first.

If she doesn't reply to it within 24 hours should I ignore it and send her another statement or call her and leave a message on her voicemail?

Girl 1

I send her the same text message with the giraffe and this time with the answer ;) like 10 hours later. And asked her whether she burned down the club last weekend.

SHE: "Hey, yeah this is funny. The club night was fine. we went home at 3am. What have you planned for the weekend?"

ME: Hey, a few of my friends are having a home party tonight. What have you planned for the weekend?

My plan: In case she replies with I do this here and this there.... I know when she has free time on the  weekend so I can ask her out...

In case she doesn't reply to the text should I just suggest a meetup e. g. on Sunday?

Thank you very much for all your help here on the forum smiley

crush the clubs tonight ^^

Cheers Thomas

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Are you translating from

Are you translating from another language? 

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Yes I'm translating from

Yes I'm translating from German to English. I'd use your application and directly upload the text messages into the forum if I was in an English speaking country.

My next posts will be in perfect English I promise ;)

By the way do you use WhatsApp Messenger if the girls have it or do you send them text messages?

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If they're from another

If they're from another country yes I use WhatsApp, but generally no. I'm not sure how things get translated to and from German, there's a lot of social intracacies to text game that probably get lost in translation. 

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i use WhatsApp all the time.

i use WhatsApp all the time. i don't know why you would stick with standard SMS over it.