Text game - Making her comfortable meeting you
Hey guys
I have lots of girls that I'm texting with. Some I have met, while others I haven't.
I'm wondering what the best way is to make them want to acually see you.
When I text I'm always escalating, but even tho they love chatting with me, it takes so much time to actually meet someone.
Any advice for making a girl comfortable meeting you?
Mowlar has some good posts regarding this. My experience is, your in-person game will usually decide it. Ideally she should be like, "Oh shit! He texted me!"
Fredrik the weird thing about text game is that it's its own beast. It's a completely other level to "the game". Meaning just because you beat level 1 in Super Mario Bros. doesn't mean you automatically capture the princess and get to have your way with her. You got to get proficient at the other levels between.
I see game as existing in three stages: 1) Approach to some form of "logistical close", e.g. phone number or "pull" to another location. 2) "Follow-up Game" this includes text game, calling her, voice mails, dealing with flakes, getting proficient at making meetups happen over the phone. 3) Meetup to lay e.g. "how to get laid on dates". This includes physical and sexual escalation, isolating the girl and handling logistics. Now as you get more proficient in person you can actually skip from 1 to 3, but many times it's just not possible, and so a phone number has to do.
But just because you killed it in person, doesn't mean she's automatically going to meet up. Yes it helps, but if you're awkward or inexperienced over the phone, you will probably lose it.
So basically what I'm saying is you've got to learn to be smooth over text and make it happen.
Start here:
1 and 3 no problemo but 2 is driving me mad!
Yes it is one of the last beasts to be slain
Thanks so much guys! When meeting someone in person it's really never a problem to get her to my place.
I'm in Asia right now, and girls here are more shy than in western countries. Even if you hug them, they'll sometimes freak out a little, because it can be looked upon as sexual. And if you get to the point of texting them about sex, they'll often just dissappear, even if you know they really enjoy it.
But it's just a challenge really, it's fun ;)
What Asian country?
Bangkok in Thailand, too cold in northern Europe right now.
They aren't very difficult, and all girls will stare at you just because you are a foreigner.
Bro your game must be absolutely terrible if you're not slaying a girl every single day of the week.
Not to put a trip on you, it's only to make you step up your game. Be more aggressive
Haha, man you are spot on! They are pretty easy if you meet them in person first, but harder if you want someone to meet up from online dating. Sex on first date almost always happens.
On the topic of being shy. I had sex with a girl, later she gave me a blowjob and I came all over her chest and in her hair. I asked if she wanted to shower, but she didn't. When she got home I asked if she had showered yet, but she told met that she still smelled like dick. Aparently she enjoyet it, but still very shy about giving me a hug in public when she had to leave.
But you are right, they are not difficult.
So you're worried about texting in a foreign country with a language barrier when you can just go out during the day and meet wiminz?