Text game pre-mature ejaculation

I get so excited and I'm like dayyum I need to get her number NOW before I lose. I think the text I sent did not have the right vibe, it was too long and qualified too much.

The thanks for ignoring me is a Bateman line, surprisingly it works like every damn time along with an apology 

Don't you think that's too much for tinder though? I feel like when I try to establish the "us" vibe before the number it's creepy.I could be completely wrong.

The thanks for ignoring me is a Bateman line, surprisingly it works like every damn time along with an apology 

Don't you think that's too much for tinder though? I feel like when I try to establish the "us" vibe before the number it's creepy.I could be completely wrong.

If anything you're going too slow. With online I usually don't even go for the number until after I've already pitched the date. The reason being a lot of guys are bullshitters who become texting buddies with the girl and never ask her out. So pitching the meetup first (right after they pass your qualifier) eliminates you from that category(also screens out the time wasting girls) and gives you a good reason to exchange numbers. The number is mostly a logistical tool.

You don't lose points for going for the meetup too early as long as you've established some kind of value. Sometimes it'll provoke a shit test which just strengthens your game.

I don't agree bro

I completely agree with mpgamer. The goal is to get her out, not get her number to text. You seed the idea about what your going to do together, then you casually get her number so you 'don't have to keep checking this app' or something like that and so you guys can set up the details of your date.

I find she'll sometimes even give you her number if you try and just set up the date through tinder without you asking. 

@Meow.... Well thanks for that insightful argument.

I totally think it's is possible either way, the Tinder LR on the front page of the forum seeds the meet up first.

I've just seen and heard Manwhore and Bateman get the number first when doing online game. I think that tinder actually sucks, it barely works on my phone, and that it would mean more to seed the meet up over text.

Like to hear Manwhore's opinion on this. I will start trying the meet up first cuz I trust you guys <3

Of course it's possible either way. That'd be ignorant to say otherwise. I've done it both ways. I prefer pitching the meetup first because I've gotten more consisent results in the long run with it. It also switches your focus away from the number and on to what is important - the actual meetup. Which is exactly where you said you were fumbling.

Just use the time you'd normally use to overqualify and pitch the meetup instead. Same amount of time spent before Tinder crashes on you.

Yeah you can do either. The issue here isn't whether you go for the number before or after, just the fact you did it in a pretty fucking awful fashion. 

Also agree that ofcourse you can do both and I have done both. I think one thing that mpgamer brought up is important, is that pitching the meetup first sort of shows her what this interaction is about and your not just going to be texting buddies.

Here's an example of pitching before though from earlier...Not sure its pristine game but gets the job done

Me: There she is. What's up maria

Her: Lol! Hi (my name)

Me: Hispanic or greek?

Me: Pollo or gyro

Her: Umm neither actually

Her: Italian lol

Me: Haha dammit guess I lose

Her: Little bit lol but I won't hold it against you

Me: Do you prefer noodles or canolis

Her: Hahah I guess cannoli's

Me: Ooo 2 n's in cannoli, but you missed the innuendo so I win that one miss marinara ;-)

Me: I'm about to walk my dog in this ice age outside (because he's too lazy to walk himself)

(just tossed that in there b/c her bio said if you have dogs its a bonus - thanks bateman)

Her: Miss Marinara?! (crying laughing emoji)

Her: It is freezing outside! You must really like your dog lol

Me: (15 min later): You're gonna have to warm me up with some of that italian cooking

Her: (4 min later): Hahah maybe one day :)

Me: If things go well during cocoa, I might bring the vino...

Me: Do you like hot cocoa little one

Her: (4 min later): I'm never opposed to chocolate but I prefer tequilla if I'm honest

Her: (crying laughing emoji)

Me: Back to the hispanic stuff, i knew you we're fishy maria

Me: We'll bring someting to spike it with and well tear down a shopping center (with a starbucks)

Me: Sounds like an awesome adventure (crying laughing emoji) When are you free?

Her: Haha I can't help but like it (mokey covering eyes emoji)

Her: I'm actually away this weekend but I'm free after

Me: Cool here's my number (xxx-xxx-xxxx) send me a text with your name

Me: Or send me yours and we'll sort out these dam details

Her: Ok sounds good!

4 min later I get her text...

Her: Hi! It's Miss HispanicMarinara :)

Okay, I totally can see how that works. Nice n smooth, thank you.

Her: Really

Me: yup we could totally go kayaking on the icy cold waters and drink hot chocolate

Her: thatd be so fun

Me: I know right

Me: im not down there a lot but gimme your number and ill let yah know when im in town

Her: [number]

Okay, I think this was a lot better 

I actually think that was ight, but I think this chick is like 15 LOL 

Oh no all her friends have braces :P :P

cat fishing motherfuckers!!!!