Textgame - Ironically, it's me who needs a compass...
All texting is done quite fast on a Saturday night.
We have a bit of generic warm up to this on Tinder, nothing special really, she tells me her uni and that she's lost.
then she blocked me.
I most likely fucked up before lol but the 'guys part' is where I think it's the most interesting. I definitely don't want to discourage slutty behavior on a Saturday night. OTOH, I don't want her to talk bout other guys. It's like borderline trolling when I read it.
didn't want to be too eager but also wanted to progress a bit without pressure. Thoughts?
Ha!
Everything after "gawd and I promised my mom I would be good..." was a complete slaughter
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Thanks, yeah I kinda figured, she subtly let me that it sucked haha
Actually, she sent the ironic part pretty much the same time as my message about the lost girl. So most likely that one line was already enough.
I guess I put too much pressure on her and not taking charge?
Should've just asked what she's doing and suggested a meetup right there?
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Really dude? Didn't you bang like 16 girls in the last 4 months? How are you so blind to what happened here. She just told you the fucking goods and you ignored it
Her: Meet different guys
Her: Spend the night with some of them
You: 
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
yeah, still somewhat clueless :/
In the other thread we discussed how fucked up it is that I let the chick talk about her other guys, I guess that's what confused me. Like I thought it's a trap or sth, and I should not get eager.
Im not as skilled as either of you so could someone explain where he went wrong and what he should have done or you would have said when she mentioned other guys? That threw me off too.
Im not as skilled as either of you so could someone explain where he went wrong and what he should have done or you would have said when she mentioned other guys? That threw me off too.
Im not as skilled as either of you so could someone explain where he went wrong and what he should have done or you would have said when she mentioned other guys? That threw me off too.
She matter o' factly brought up hooking up with other dudes as part of her daily routine. Almost like brushing her teeth with crescent extreme whitening toothpaste. There isn't much else to do other than to insert yourself into the frame/narrative she's trying to create. Throw in some humor there and you're good. I.e. i promised my mom i'd be good - After that I'm sure Bon was trying to play it cool and NOT play into the narrative cause he didn't want to talk about other dudes she's banged before. Not where that convo was going at all.
If you need clarification lmk
Hey man. Again thanks for all the replies im getting from you as of late. Its greatly appreciated!
I do need some clarification. One of my biggest problems ive noticed is not being able to consistently reading the frame/narrative she is trying to create. When she said "meeting different guys time by time and spend some nights with" I dont know what frame/narrative she is creating here.
You said "i promised my mom id be good..." wasnt a bad response and is what he needed to do but bonobo seems to believe based her replying with "such an ironic!!" as he sent "gawd and i promised my mom i would be good..." it was already done after saying that. So what do you think was the problem?
I dont get where this went wrong or what an appropriate response to her "meeting different guys time by time and spend some nights with" would be based on you saying what he said was good but him not thinking so.
Thanks for the help!