Texting Girl From The Bar (Manwhore get in here)
Alright guys, so I've been posting on the forum for a while now but have yet to take advantage of its awesome benefits. Which are obviously refining my text game and increasing meet ups. Anyway, met this girl at the bar last night. She was ordering shots and said something to me. I showed her my screensaver on my phone which is a nude girl covered up by an American flag. I commented on how perfect and "American" her ass was. She laughed and stuck out her ass and asked me if hers was good enough. Can't remember what I said at this point but she let me try her drink and then I number closed her before went back to both our groups of friends.
This part is important: Before she left we got on the topic of her knowing a little Spanish. I told her to save her number as something memorable. She saves it as "hb 8 dame lo que quiero". LOL. In Spanish this translates to "hb8 give me what I want". Here's the text convo:
Me: What are you doing after the bar hb 8 dame lo que quiero? (1:50 am)
Her: I am going to sleep soon tengo sueno (2:27 am)
Me: buenas noches hb 8. Make it home safe girl
Her: yeah sorry I put dame lo que quiero in your phone. Idk why but its my favorite thing to say in Spanish. (10:32 am)
I could take this several ways but I wanna know what you advanced guys would do (MW, Buddha, Meow, etc.)
Still haven't texted her. This is kind of a throwaway number so any responses would be great.
keep on gaming dude. Your reading into her last response way too much. Your real problem is that you number closed, went back to your group, and then texted her to hangout. Why didn't you just try and pull her from the actual club? Maybe I don't know the circumstances, anyways she texted you back in the morning there is no reason why you can't get her to meetup for a date.
That "get home safe girl' is the gayest line in textdom. It's pretty simple I would come up with your own " favorite thing to say in spanish" and send it to her. Make it good
Word Manwhore. I'll keep that make it home safe out of my repertoire.
Meow, I know I could've kept gaming on my own and see where it goes but I just wanted to see what y'all would do in the situation.
Anyway, texted her back. I'll post up the responses later when there's some new threads and see where we go from there.
appreciate the feedback.
Alright guys so I started texting her again, here's the transcript:
me: no deberias dar tu número a extranjeros (you shouldn't give your number to strangers) (6:20 pm)
Her: haha!! I know I know I couldn't help it though (6:53 pm)
Her: Your name was G-Money right?
Me: Yeah
Me: and it's hard to say no when anyone shows you this picture: (picture of girls ass who's my screensaver)
Her: Ahhaha! I forgot about that! So funny
Me: Do you still think your ass rivals it? You were very adamant about that last night lol
Her: Hahaha not even close. I'm sure after drinking I thought so but that is a tough comparison.
Me: Dont be coy. I thought your ass looked great and you know it did too (7:32 pm)
Her: Hahaa well thank you :)
Me: lets grab drinks this week. What's your schedule look like? 7:50 pm)
Her: I work full time so any evening as long as I get home before my bedtime hahhahahah
Me: K lets do drinks on Wednesday night. I'll make sure you get tucked in on time haha
Her: that sounds good! Let me know where.
Thats it. Any critiques or advice is welcome. Pretty standard conversation though, she seemed very receptive.
Kewwl. See if it works out. Hindsight is 20/20. The ass comments are pushing it but you could be good
First text was on point :)
just get the meetup, don't bother with anymore banter
So we were supposed to meet up today. We made plans to see This is the End. Here's the transcript:
Me: this is the end at 7:50? (1:04 pm)
Her: I may have to get back. To you. I went home sick from work and I'm about to go to the doctor.
Her: if I'm no contagious I still would love to go but if I'm contagious I can't get you sick!
Me: No worries, just focus on feeling better (1:19pm)
Me: (picture of netflix dinner place setting)
Me: I'll have a romantic evening with Netflix
Her: Hahaha that sounds like my day so far. Naps and netflix :) (2:41 pm)
Her: Good new is I didn't get a shot :) Bad news is that I'm contagious as long as I still have a fever :(
Any suggestions on where to go from here? I feel like I've maintained my value thus far and have no reason not to trust this girl. What would y'all do?
Yeah she's probably contagious and you don't want to go over there lol. I'd just tell her to feel better, and to take her vitamins so it doesn't turn into full-blown aids virus or something like that lol
Me: gotcha feel better. Take your vitamins so it doesn't turn into some full blown virus.
her: I'm sorry I ha to cancel tonight. I hope we can try again
what are y'all's opinion on trying shit like "we can try again but you owe me." Etc.
Do you think this is kind of tacky or comes off as value seeking? I'm not gonna respond for a while, just wanna see what people think about that.
You sterilized my text with how you worded it. It was a tease you made it a care bear text.
Damn it I forgot to include aids. I did add the lol at the end. Just didn't include it in the transcript.
hahahaha I just lost it. That text sounded so fucked and outta place. Not too sure if the lol would help much.
It really wasn't bad. She was very receptive. She's wants to meet up tomorrow. I'll post the transcript later.
Couldnt close on the chick I met up with tonight. She had an early meeting and nature was calling. She wants to meet up next week. This forum is definitely helping out my game as far as practical advice goes and guys who actually know whats up are on here. Thanks manwhore
Fuck. So little turn of events here:
Me: Still on for tonight?
Her: Yep!
Me: Perfect. Pick me up at 7:20. My car is totaled right now
Her: I was hoping to meet closer :/ I don't live near denton anymore
Me: Where do you live now?
Her: Plano now so it's like a 35 min drive for me
Any suggestions? Time is of the essence here if I wanna get the meet up tonight. This girl works full time so she has to wake up early.
I can always just say we can meet up another night when she's in town but I want you guys to weigh in...
What are you asking us, I'm confused as to what the issue is here you didn't explain it at all.
My bad bru bruh.
i don't have a car and she didn't wanna drive 35 minutes to meet up. So it's pretty fucked logistics wise.
I told her to hmu next time she was in my town. She invited me out to Dallas tonight but again no ride.