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So this girl I have on facebook, never met her before, but we got matched on tinder a few times. I decided i would message her on facebook, we message for a bit then I get her number.

me: Yo Klaudia, it's Patrick! I hope you don't work too late because I expect to be wined and dined. I'm a classy bitch 

her: Tongiht? Hahaha sorry already have plans today lol

me: Lol no I have poker tn! And I'm just teasing, I'm not that classy

her: haha whew good. Not into classy broads

me: Yah fuck um, I'd rather drink wine from the bottle and watch tv in bed.

her: (Heart eyes) 

me: haha you like that too?

her: yess and netflix

me: Netflix is the shit! I'm rewatching suits, sooo good

(next day)

me: Thanks for ignoring me

her: Thanks for being interesting

me: Lol what did you not take your ADD medicine? Everything has to be interesting with you (shaping a girls behaviour with qualification - accusatory statements) 

her: aww sorry non

(several hours later) 

me: No you forgot your medicine or no it doesn't all have to be interesting

her: Doesn't always have to be interesting

me: Good. How's the night treating you

her: not bad just came back from a swim

me: A late night swim huh! Why does that sound so much cooler than it should

her: It was weird just me and the lifeguard

me: Where

her: my condo's pool lol

me: Look at you! Who you live with, rents

her: yup

me: I'm finishing up this ROM event. What comes after your swim

her: Oh haha I'm in bed

her: What rom event

me: Friday night at the rom, it's the shit!! Early on a friday, what gives

her: idk I'm lame. Tomorrow I'm waking up early and going for a hike

me: ahaha yah actually?

her: Like walking across Toronto

me: I used to hike a lot when I was living in LA. DIdn't know it was a thing here

her: I just walk

me: Doing the solo walk

her: No with a friend

(next day)

me: Gawdd I just got out of bed now, 3 pm is a new personal low

her: Woah haha long night? 

me: I eneded up getting home same time as my brother and sister lol so we just chilled for a bit. What are you up to tn?

her: Going out wth the girls 

her: Survived a 6 hour walk Jeez

me: No friggin way did you walk for 6 hours. 

her: I swear I did 

her: Sort of sun burnt

me: Lol you are special

me: How are you even going to stand to go out after that, pun intended ahha

her: Man i Don't know

me: You'll be sitting alone in the corner sipping on a cranberry vodka 

her: feet up not giving a fuck

me: not caring is caring

her: touche 

me: haha you're too easy, I just made that up

her: But it's true

me: It really is. Indifference is the key, I try and live by it

her: yolo

me: Can we really be sure though?

(next day) 

me: Tuesday ngiht drinks

her: where to

me: I have a couple spots in mind. Where do you live

her: etobs

me: Hemingways or qual

her: Where's quail never been

me: It's in the basement of this old deserted doll factory. I promise it's safe

her: I laughed

me: yonge and rosedale actualy tho. They have a pool table which is why I love it

her: OH good thing i'm horrid at pool

me: well thanksfully I"m a world calss teacher

me: one of my many gifts

her: oh great

me: besides if you really suck I can always play it off like I don't know you

her: I passed calculus i should be able to figure it out. Angels right

me: Yes but it's more a question of how good you are with a stick and some balls

her: I'm sure I'd do fine

(definitely should have done some sex qualification here but I didn't fuck)

me: well then, its' a date! Pick em up at eight, don'e be late

(no response)

me: Gawd the triple rhyme and you left me hanging. You're deat to me

her: maybe were not meant to be 

me: it's highly possible! I'm pretty sure I'm not meant to be with anyone

her: hm not a fun outlook

me: lol it's not always rainbows and daisy's Klaudia

her: I think i'd match a lot of people cause I'm pretty easy going idk (her qualifiying herself to me

me: Yah so you're okay if I turn the AC down to 68 and leave the cupboards open and the toilet seat up

her: I leave the cupboards open

her: And you need to put it up so I can put it down whatever #teamwork

me: yeah and you okay if you freeze your little butt off in bed if it makes me happy

(no response 

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me: don't just ignore me

me: don't just ignore me loser, say something (I actually really like this text message, sounds about as high value as you can when a girl doesn't respond, another girl used a slight variation of this on me and I was mirin hard) 

her: I'm sorry haha 

her: yeah I love being cold in bed so we're in the clear there 

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Your texting seems really

Your texting seems really good, did you lock down that date?

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not yet! me: Gawdd why did

not yet! 

me: Gawdd why did we not try and hangout sooner

her: cause you're so buff and pretty it's intimidating

me: Ahahah I don't buy that for a second

me: but if it helps

me: I'm only 3 feet tall so I"m not that intimidating

her: oh really......

she gave me a pretty weak response. May let it marinate for a bit and come back with

me: yes..... You'll have to cook for me and help lift me onto my bed at night. I think you can handle that 

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Damn you handsome bastard,

Damn you handsome bastard, why not just get a fuckin rickshaw to pull around shirtless with a sign that says "Patrick's dick and rick-shaw rides for chicks" fuck the texting lol

The dinklage text is funny, be sure you're not over-gaming though. This girl seems ready to meet IMO 

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Yes. If we do a 6hour walk

Yes. If we do a 6hour walk together you might have to carry me in a baby carrier backpack

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Jack.Ruby wrote: Damn you

Jack.Ruby wrote:
Damn you handsome bastard, why not just get a fuckin rickshaw to pull around shirtless with a sign that says "Patrick's dick and rick-shaw rides for chicks" fuck the texting lol

The dinklage text is funny, be sure you're not over-gaming though. This girl seems ready to meet IMO 

Yes. I'm overgaming. You're right. I need to be more laconic and tone down the exuberance. MW and I are working on this, but sometimes i forget. It's getting better tho

I said

me: Yes... you'll have to cook for me and help lift me onto my bed at night. I think you can handle that

her: like that's not even funny!

I guess I'll have to go sardonic

me: I know, i'm a horrible person  

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Ya, then meetup right?

Ya, then meetup right?

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Well i mentioned tuesday

Well i mentioned tuesday night drinks yesterday. She didn't agree but she didn't say no.

Although by experience, I know that it's best not to bring it up again. Then I start getting to be too much in the chasing role and it fucks up with attraction. 

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Know that your value here

Know that your value here isn't a problem. RSD Alex once used the analogy of "giving away a Ferrari". He says the problem a lot of guys have with over gaming is that they're selling it too much when they already have the value. He says imagine someone's trying to give you a Ferrari, imagine how reluctant you'd be if they're really trying to sell you on the idea of taking this car for free. It's more about just making her comfortable and at ease with the idea. You seem like you're already on the right track and I'm not suggesting you have a problem here, the analogy just came to mind and I thought I'd share it

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Jack.Ruby wrote: Know that

Jack.Ruby wrote:
Know that your value here isn't a problem. RSD Alex once used the analogy of "giving away a Ferrari". He says the problem a lot of guys have with over gaming is that they're selling it too much when they already have the value. He says imagine someone's trying to give you a Ferrari, imagine how reluctant you'd be if they're really trying to sell you on the idea of taking this car for free. It's more about just making her comfortable and at ease with the idea. You seem like you're already on the right track and I'm not suggesting you have a problem here, the analogy just came to mind and I thought I'd share it

I like that analogy a lot! Very good point, I think you're right. I just need to make her comfortable and at ease with the idea.  

her: Like that's not even funny

me: I know I'm a horrible person

(no response)

me: But gimme a break, I'm a child of divorce (american psycho quote lol) 

her: ...sigh

her: Sorry to hear

then i could go

me: You can make it up to me by getting the first round of drinks 

me: and not sucking in pool

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Actually mgiht be better to

Actually mgiht be better to just leave the second part out (and not sucking in pool) 

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Ya I think the meetup segue

Ya I think the meetup segue is exactly the right idea. Maybe hit her up for her availability first this time.. 

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patrick.bateman

patrick.bateman wrote:
Actually mgiht be better to just leave the second part out (and not sucking in pool) 

i didn't mind it, mainly just because it relieves the pressure a bit. You could change it up if you don't like that one specifically:

and not wearing heels

and not secretly being a shark at pool

And maybe making me a sandwich, we can discuss it

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so for exampleme: You can

so for example

me: You can make it up to me by getting the first round of drinks and not sucking at pool ;)

me: Whats your schedule like this week?

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I think that's fine. Maybe

I think that's fine. Maybe break it into three texts?

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me: You can make it up to me

me: You can make it up to me by getting the first round of drinks

me: And not sucking at pool ;)

her: where do you live

me: Yonge and egg ish 

me: What's your scheduel like this week

her: Free tues and thurs evening

Done! She's sold

I could be like 

me: Drinks tomorrow is probablly best 

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patrick.bateman wrote: her:

patrick.bateman wrote:

her: Like that's not even funny

me: I know I'm a horrible person

(no response)

me: But gimme a break, I'm a child of divorce (american psycho quote lol) 

her: ...sigh

her: Sorry to hear

then i could go

me: You can make it up to me by getting the first round of drinks 

me: and not sucking in pool

Yeah I made them divorce when they were late with my cheerios one morning 

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Her: where do you live me:

Her: where do you live

me: Yonge and egg ish

me: What's your schedule like this week?

her: Free tues and thurs evening

me: Tuesday is good. Maybe around 8 or 9

Fuck, should have been like. "tuesday is perfect! Let's do 8." Whatever

Oh and MW that is fucking awesome. Need that bad ass humor/vibe more

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By emotionally baiting her

By emotionally baiting her like that, especially when going from "pity me" to "I just swatted your bottom", you're projecting lots of high value, continuing to invest her to the point where she can't let go (this is the same reason why women hang on in relationships with assholes lol), and you're also keeping her in almost a state of "flux" to where she's slightly always on edge with you, never bored, and can never possibly know what you're going to do next, and so also can never possibly disqualify you by seeing you as approval-seeking (which is a female's main screening mechanism in mating). Unpredictability isn't necessarily seductive, but it's certainl alluring as fuck and more importantly, confusing as fuck. I've even used this to bait hookers to meet up and sleep with me for free lol. "Curiousity killed the cat" is one of the oldest expressions known to man. And it's no coincidence the synonym for cat is pussy. 

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I'm naming my dick,

I'm naming my dick, "the Curiosity". 

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me: Tuesday is good. Maybe

me: Tuesday is good. Maybe around 8 or 9

next day

her: !!! I got my shift extended they need me at work today.. rain check???

maybe something like 

me: strippers never can catch a breah eh

me: ps. tell your boss i'm gonna feed him sucka trash if he fucks your schedule one more time 

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Yeah accusing her of riding a

Yeah accusing her of riding a pole at work would be a great direction to take this that'd be putting her in a box she'd NOT be able to stand lol 

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