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Texting girls who are interested/seeing someone else?

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What do you guys do in this situation when the girl is interested in someone else? Ignore it or give up? A chick I'm hitting up has currently brought to my attention she's interested in someone and hoping it works out, which makes me think I'm just there for text validation....

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This is that same girl

This is that same girl right. 

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No I met some girl at a

No I met some girl at a country bar last night, she was pretty drunk and mentioned today she had a bf

i ended up inviting her out to a bar with me and some friends for Sunday, then she said that bf thing. Can't tell if she's just saying it or was being serious. 

I used the message Todd uses where it's like "Such matters have never concerned me" and got no reply LOL

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Well post up the convo

Well post up the convo there's lots of ways of handling it. 

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Will do tonight, just at work

Will do tonight, just at work at the moment. I have some pretty funny convos going too, I'll upload them too just for the sake of it. I think I'm slowly starting to get the hang of the "boss-centered" frame I been trying to work on and making girls fall into my frame. Will update soon

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Okay so went out to a country

Okay so went out to a country bar with some buds last night to celebrate a good friends birthday. Love country bars on wednesday cause of topless bull riding LOL 

So this really hot chick who rode the bull first and went topless was pretty drunk from what I can remember, I only had a few drinks. She and I ended up talking later into the night and I ended up number closing her. This chick was crazy hot, maybe she was a stripper, I don't know. Me and a few buds talked her into giving my buddy a lapdance for his bday and she overcomitted by going topless to do it and she killed it. I gotta say, I love country girls. 

Whenever I get a number close I immediately get my number in the girl's phone to prevent the whole "Who's this?" shit from happening. So the thread of the messages to her no reply went like this

Last Night - 

Me: Alex (Me)

Me: Nice little show you put on tonight, you should teach me a few things ;) Hope you got home okay

Her: Hahahaha maybe if ur lucky, I did thank you!

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Today

Me: What sort of trouble are you causing today

Her: LOL way too hungover for trouble mister, you?

Me: Going to go wreck some havoc at the gym then slave my night away at work

Her: Aw I had to call in sick : / 

Me: Hahaha not surprised. After your 5th tequila shot and lapdance show, I knew you were a goner. 

Her: Omg..I dont even remember that

Me: It was probably the highlight of the night, I was impressed.

Her: LOL well that's great, did your friend have a good bday?

Me:Yup. We didn't party that hard..it was a wednesday after all. We couldn't keep up with you rockstar :p

Her: I'm usually not like that I swear.. *Hiding face emoticon*

Me: Really?! What a bummer.. I was excited for a second!

Her: Hahaha I'm still fun!

Me: Good, you'll have to show me this weekend when my boys and I go for a round 2 downtown.

Her: Idk..I'm sort of seeing someone like he's sort of my bf

Me: That's cool, such matters have never concerned me. We're all going to have a good time, you should join in. 

Theeeen.. no reply. I figure I'd try out the stuff Todd uses when he gets the "boyfriend" situation brought up to him. She seemed into it in a fun kind of way, but no big loss if it doesn't work out. I'm starting to grasp my inner game really well lately and can meet a new chick on the spot. Going to be kicking this scarcity feeling's ass. 

Not sure if I should bother with the reengage, though I haven't really said anything rude so I might in a day or two.

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Actually for just plugging in

Actually for just plugging in "one size fits all" like that it fit the context perfectly. I think this is probably still on I'd just hit her up the same way you've been doing. In the upcoming text game book I mention the dynamic of hitting her up after a night of missed activities to sort of "rub it in". "We clubbed so many baby seals last night. You really missed out" That sort of thing 

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Oh I thought it was lost.

Oh I thought it was lost. Cause I've texted girls like this before and I remember I've only ever been told to stop contacting the girl once and I usually will keep at it until they ask me to stop. I'll be picking the ebook up for sure. Super siked for that. 

Should i hit hit her up before the night out or the day after to rub it in? Not sure if I should bother inviting her out again since I didn't get a yes or no

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One of my general rules of
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Todd's line kinda sucks. I

Todd's line kinda sucks. I don't see very many guys in the community who are very good at this. I kinda do it on accident, so I'm not great at explaining it. You don't want to resist or even make it seem like it phases you. Make a joke out of it. Some of the things I've said before in response to, "I have a BF" are,

Me: Oh cool! Bring him too
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Me: Would you like another one?

A common thread, that I've noticed, is just before sex these girls will say stuff like, "Omg I can't believe we're doing this." or "Omg I shouldn't be doing this." Just say, "I know." They love that feeling. She wants to feel the excitement of "danger" and connection that her boyfriend CAN'T give her. Notice how she said, "Kinda of/sort of?" If I see something like that, any slight sign of "Iffy-ness" about the BF... IT"S ON!

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That's what threw me

That's what threw me completely off to be honest! I was like what do you mean you're "hoping he sticks around" LOL I almost couldn't take it seriously with how hesitant she was. It made me think what if they've only hung out and she just hopes he asks her out or something lame like that. We did have a follow up conversation where she didn't really invest much so I was thinking of dropped it. This was the convo ...

Me: How's my 4th fav brat doing tonight? 

Her: She's good!

Me: Have you ever been to the peaks by (uni)

Her: Hmmm don't think so 

Me: Do you know the ones behind the business dorms, past the roads

Her: Umm nope!

Me: Wow. You're missing out on the most beautiful star gazing spot in Van !

Her: I'll remember that then lol

Me: I know for a fact it's past your bedtime, partying hard little one? (She's pretty short)

Her: Nope! Just getting home from a friends house

Me: What shenanigans did you guys get up too?

then I guess she fell asleep or whatever. I think I fucked up with the "no" answers that I let accumulate. I was busy and I should have thought my texts out more. Plus I totally hate shitty replies so I was thinking maybe I should drop it cause I'm chasing too hard.  

Not sure about my next move

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