Texting a potential FWB
(She's red, I'm blue)
How r u darling?
Yeah you're losing this because you're SO fucking platonic. Haha! Dude you got to turn this around or an easy lay/fwb relationship is going to go down the shitter. For one thing you got to prioritize meeting up with this chick and sticking it back in her. Ya got to cement that dynamic. But you don't have to be obvious about it, just set something up and meet her. This chick invited you to come hang out.. twice? And you never went for it. That's just a dumb mistake. There's nothing I really need to help you with here you just need to do it.
She's only invited me once, I initiated the second meet-up but she said she had a sore ear.
How do I change my tone to be less platonic? I want to initiate a meet up for tonight or tomorrow but am really struggling. And I'm worried if she can't meet again then I'll come across as super needy if I keep trying.
Should I initiate with something like:
"Heyy cutie, how's your little ear feeling?"
(I'm bad at text game lol)
How do I change my tone to be less platonic?
That's just an obnoxious question dude. Guys join my coaching program to solve that it's not something that's fixed by forum post, lol. As far as the rest you just need to go for it. Worrying about being super needy IS being needy. Just doing it is how you fix that issue. Read the text game threads there is a shit ton of knowledge on texting specifics. Are you free now? Are you texting her? Is her ear still sore? If not just meet up with her it's Sunday should be simple.
Wasn't meant to sound obnoxious, and your coaching is something I'm looking to start in a few weeks.
Anyway, cheers for the help. Texted her and got a great response. I feel I went into this with a 10x better frame
ME: Hey cutie, how's that knife in your ear going.
HER: Hey...lol yeah it's better. How are you? Happy Australia Day! Aussie Aussie Aussie Oi Oi Oi :))
ME: Happy Macedonian Day! (She's Macedonian). I'm good, but my Aussie day is lacking excitment atm. What are you getting up to? Let's rob a bank!
HER: Im in bed playing game on my phone. Nicole is on the computer. Fuck yeah lets rob 2 banks! Bonny and Clyde :))
ME: You'd make a pretty hot bonny. How about I pick you up at 9 for this daring adventure? Hope the cops don't catch us. (Tried to make it a little sexual by throwing the cops bit in, like them catching us banging).
HER: Done deal :)) Don't forget the guns though.
ME: Always got them handy. What was your address again?
And no I didn't mean you were being obnoxious, what I meant is that I'll have guys asking me things like "Hey MW how do I get this girl at work to ask me out?" Haha! I'm like.. yo man that is a multi-faceted question, lol.