Three Sources of Self-Entitlement: How Self-Image Gets You Laid

(No, trying to lower a girl's value is not preferrable to me but that doesn't matter.  If it works for you, then use this.  However don't get in the habit of doing this as later on, once you don't need it, there'll actually be negative consequences to this.  As you start taking more action in life, becoming a strong guy, you will want to think of girls as super high value.  In fact you'll seek them out.)

In terms of raising your value over theirs.. i.e. you have SO much going on in your life that makes you a bad ass male.. the action you're taking to get ahead in life, the emotional leverage you have over yourself and others, the mental control you're developing, the things in your past you've succeeded in surmounting.. the giant ass-splitting shits you've taken at one time or another in life.. the fact you ARE strong biologically, can adapt and flex to anything, are not ruled by emotions and will take right action even when it hurts. 

In terms of mental and emotional control over yourself (what I prefer).. realize what's happening on a mental level and learn to control it. For whatever reason when a hot chick is in front of your face it causes your mind to lose its mental thought loop. Kind of like a dog being distracted by you throwing a ball. You're doing your thing, your mind is perfectly functional and following its own will, train of thought, and mental flow, but then when a hot chick steps in front of you somehow this all comes to a halt and you try to jump on her mental thought track. Which really makes no sense at all. So you learn to stay on your path, continue on your thought pattern, and learn to flow even while talking to her. Then when you're good and advanced at this, you learn to stay on your flow and be super relaxed about it, because you trust yourself and trust that you'll stay true to yourself, and you allow your mental flow to go in her direction and even react to her; at which point she feels she's part of your story, and "close" to you. This is when you start weaving something of a tapestry around the both of you together, a "we" situation that is soft and fun and super situational to the vibe you've developed with her. This is when girls fall in love and become obsessed with you. And when they FILL your fucking Sprint inbox with naked pictures. Gawdamit.

On the spot roleplays, questions about her life that draw out intimate details of her life- and then your life, things that draw her feeling closer to you, and wanting to experience you inside her. Self-amusing dialogues that aren't just you standing there "amusing" yourself and weirding out everyone around you, but fun and silly dialogues that softly tickle and amuse the girl or girls standing in front of you, because they're in part based on them. These are all reflections of first YOU staying focused on yourself completely, and then bringing her into your mental flow without losing sight of yourself.

As of now you can do this with chicks you don't give a shit about. Learn to do this with chicks you do care about. This is somewhat all defined by the concept of a "sense of entitlement", and the three methods outlined above give strong insight into this.

This is why we focus SO HARD on things like Eckarte Tolle and taking right action as say.. defined in Ayn Rand's books. One teaches mental control to the point we become relaxed about it we trust ourselves so much, and the other gives us leverage over our environment and our lives so we intrinsically have that feeling of self-worth and of GROWING as a being.