Tight assed Cate
Tue, 07/24/2012 - 00:21
Me: Hey Gurrrlay this wknd there'll be a awesome free show at dundas square. Dance music all evening!
Her: What day
Me: Sataday. Starts at like 2-3 but I won't be going till a bit later
Me: I'll let you know later about deets, but I'm just seeing whose interested. How was yo wknd
Her: Oh kk I have a shower to go to at 2
Her: My weekend was fun I had a good one haha how about u??
Me: Crapp so many weddings. Next couple who gets engaged I'm going to ruin their wedding day
Her: Hahaha poor people
Me: I don't care anymore. Every effing weekend someone wants to express their love for their soul mate while I'm trying to enjoy my damn summer!
Her: hahahahahah that's funny
Me: Hah. Whats up with you today
Her: Friggen So tired
Me: Haha really? I was going to say you were in a good mood today.. Just burnt out from the wknd or what?
Me: Last few weeks when were out you seemed not your usual self either. Eeeryting cool?
Her: Ya I guess just tired from the weekend
Her: Aw really? I wonder why. I've been cool, everything's fine. That's nice of you to ask, thank you
Me: Good to hear.. Cause I'll need someone to seduce the groom incase operation mess up marriage fails
Her: ohhhh brother hahaha
Been out with this girl a few times. Escalated a bit sometimes and she was responsive but I see Alexs shit about girls being arousal junkies soooo clear in this girl. She'll run around the club tearing shit up to get attention and reactions. Sometimes she's hard to handle. Like I don't know whether to go super dominate and lead her or just match her energy levels.. One time I kinda gave her a push down onto my junk while she was already bent over near it fixing her hair. She we started play fighting and she went for a knee to my balls.she didn't but i was pissed she even tried. So I fucking grabbed her arms and jawbone and calmy looked at her eyes and told her not to do that shit again. She got turned on then went off arousal seeking. Later that night I started slowly dancing with her. Feeling her hips and waist and grinding her a bit.. I should've escalated and pulled then but I was driving her home so no rush. We were escorted to the car by her friend so I didn't make a move till we got into the car.. Once there I started driving but molesting her body while I did so, I started working on her vag over her leggings when we got close to her place. But when I parked she just left. Like said thanks, grabbed her shit and booked it. She was pretty drunk too. That was two-three weeks ago
Her: What day
Me: Sataday. Starts at like 2-3 but I won't be going till a bit later
Me: I'll let you know later about deets, but I'm just seeing whose interested. How was yo wknd
Her: Oh kk I have a shower to go to at 2
Her: My weekend was fun I had a good one haha how about u??
Me: Crapp so many weddings. Next couple who gets engaged I'm going to ruin their wedding day
Her: Hahaha poor people
Me: I don't care anymore. Every effing weekend someone wants to express their love for their soul mate while I'm trying to enjoy my damn summer!
Her: hahahahahah that's funny
Me: Hah. Whats up with you today
Her: Friggen So tired
Me: Haha really? I was going to say you were in a good mood today.. Just burnt out from the wknd or what?
Me: Last few weeks when were out you seemed not your usual self either. Eeeryting cool?
Her: Ya I guess just tired from the weekend
Her: Aw really? I wonder why. I've been cool, everything's fine. That's nice of you to ask, thank you
Me: Good to hear.. Cause I'll need someone to seduce the groom incase operation mess up marriage fails
Her: ohhhh brother hahaha
Been out with this girl a few times. Escalated a bit sometimes and she was responsive but I see Alexs shit about girls being arousal junkies soooo clear in this girl. She'll run around the club tearing shit up to get attention and reactions. Sometimes she's hard to handle. Like I don't know whether to go super dominate and lead her or just match her energy levels.. One time I kinda gave her a push down onto my junk while she was already bent over near it fixing her hair. She we started play fighting and she went for a knee to my balls.she didn't but i was pissed she even tried. So I fucking grabbed her arms and jawbone and calmy looked at her eyes and told her not to do that shit again. She got turned on then went off arousal seeking. Later that night I started slowly dancing with her. Feeling her hips and waist and grinding her a bit.. I should've escalated and pulled then but I was driving her home so no rush. We were escorted to the car by her friend so I didn't make a move till we got into the car.. Once there I started driving but molesting her body while I did so, I started working on her vag over her leggings when we got close to her place. But when I parked she just left. Like said thanks, grabbed her shit and booked it. She was pretty drunk too. That was two-three weeks ago
Tue, 07/24/2012 - 01:06
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Re: Tight assed Cate
Same issue.
Tue, 07/24/2012 - 01:16
#2
Re: Tight assed Cate
Mang if it had been me I literally would have chased her down, held her ass down in the grass in front of her house while I molested her, then picked her up and carried her into her house.
Btw I also have a ton of female friends, some of them I'm not trying to bang, others I do, but your "witty" and "sexual" conversations you have with them don't mean anything. At all.
You have got to close. Or they will take all those lovely wonderful pumped up emotions you gave them, and fuck another guy. Happens. EVERY. DAY.
Btw I also have a ton of female friends, some of them I'm not trying to bang, others I do, but your "witty" and "sexual" conversations you have with them don't mean anything. At all.
You have got to close. Or they will take all those lovely wonderful pumped up emotions you gave them, and fuck another guy. Happens. EVERY. DAY.
Tue, 07/24/2012 - 01:28
#3
Re: Tight assed Cate
I've got to whip out my dick.. In real life and on text.
I totally get in my other thread ages back where you said I'm just cruising on the shots of validation and not really putting anything on the line.
Fixing that shit is difficult because I guess I'm already kinda happy where I am. Or WAS happy where I was... If that makes sense.
Do you think I could benefit from minimalist texting? You touched on it in alex's thread. That would kinda just force me to go for meetups and hangouts and advance the relationship right?
Also note: I ONLY have this problem in social circle shit. That's why I keep posting them cause with chicks I met at clubs it's like "hey let's meet up at Xx bar" and they're like "cool, I get off work at 8" then we meet up and high five each other. So is it like some sorta deep seeded fear of.. I don't even know.. My social circle exploding if I start snatching girls from it and start acting cooler than I used to be?
I totally get in my other thread ages back where you said I'm just cruising on the shots of validation and not really putting anything on the line.
Fixing that shit is difficult because I guess I'm already kinda happy where I am. Or WAS happy where I was... If that makes sense.
Do you think I could benefit from minimalist texting? You touched on it in alex's thread. That would kinda just force me to go for meetups and hangouts and advance the relationship right?
Also note: I ONLY have this problem in social circle shit. That's why I keep posting them cause with chicks I met at clubs it's like "hey let's meet up at Xx bar" and they're like "cool, I get off work at 8" then we meet up and high five each other. So is it like some sorta deep seeded fear of.. I don't even know.. My social circle exploding if I start snatching girls from it and start acting cooler than I used to be?
Tue, 07/24/2012 - 01:34
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Re: Tight assed Cate
Minimalist texting is a tool in your toolbag. You being the main tool. Here, we are all tools.
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I was going to say this right before you put up a response so it's hilarious you I didn't and you went right into it.. BUT, you're trying to fix a larger problem with a band-aid solution of text game. Like.. that's not what it's designed for. I'm not saying I haven't written some texts where girls just drop what they're doing and come over. But dude.. when they came over that guy I wrote the text for FUCKED HER, no questions asked.
Have you read my lay reports? There are free podcasts on the site that go into the sexual/animal/closer mentality super well.
You have to decide if you're happy where you are or not. Your situation frustrates me I would like nothing more than for you to jump on the forum and be like.. "ya I had a threesome with two of my female friends. Never knew they were so into each other, but somehow my being there was like a conduit for all these repressed feelings to come out all over each other.. and my cock."
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I was going to say this right before you put up a response so it's hilarious you I didn't and you went right into it.. BUT, you're trying to fix a larger problem with a band-aid solution of text game. Like.. that's not what it's designed for. I'm not saying I haven't written some texts where girls just drop what they're doing and come over. But dude.. when they came over that guy I wrote the text for FUCKED HER, no questions asked.
Have you read my lay reports? There are free podcasts on the site that go into the sexual/animal/closer mentality super well.
You have to decide if you're happy where you are or not. Your situation frustrates me I would like nothing more than for you to jump on the forum and be like.. "ya I had a threesome with two of my female friends. Never knew they were so into each other, but somehow my being there was like a conduit for all these repressed feelings to come out all over each other.. and my cock."
Tue, 07/24/2012 - 01:49
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Re: Tight assed Cate
@Manwhore:
Hahah dude I totally agree. There is a larger problem.. I think at the root it has to do with my masculine polarity. I was raised by girls which gives me sweet social attunement to their girly ways but has fucked me up in other ways. Or do you see something different going on?
I love your lay reports man. They're so awesome. Not only just straight awesome stories but your writing is amazing. Like you can see exactly what your thinking and what the dynamic is the whole time, which you did on purpose. I have listened to the podcasts (there are 3-4 of them right?) but only once and only months ago. I should give them another listen. Turn off this tolle shit.
Also I mentioned in that last post it really only happens in social circle... In the club I can pull like the rest of them (and by them I mean the non-socially retarded newbies) and when I go on day 2s I can give myself the permission to act all entitled and manly cause I know they already want my dick as they proved the night before..
Going to start thinking about this to boil down what my exact problem is... I don't think I was bandaging it with text game but more trying to figure it out with text game. If that makes sense...
Hahah dude I totally agree. There is a larger problem.. I think at the root it has to do with my masculine polarity. I was raised by girls which gives me sweet social attunement to their girly ways but has fucked me up in other ways. Or do you see something different going on?
I love your lay reports man. They're so awesome. Not only just straight awesome stories but your writing is amazing. Like you can see exactly what your thinking and what the dynamic is the whole time, which you did on purpose. I have listened to the podcasts (there are 3-4 of them right?) but only once and only months ago. I should give them another listen. Turn off this tolle shit.
Also I mentioned in that last post it really only happens in social circle... In the club I can pull like the rest of them (and by them I mean the non-socially retarded newbies) and when I go on day 2s I can give myself the permission to act all entitled and manly cause I know they already want my dick as they proved the night before..
Going to start thinking about this to boil down what my exact problem is... I don't think I was bandaging it with text game but more trying to figure it out with text game. If that makes sense...
Tue, 07/24/2012 - 02:38
#6
Re: Tight assed Cate
Ok well let me ask you, if youre getting laid on dates and pulling random girls home from the club and I presume banging them, then why are you trying to bang these female friends of yours?? Use them as pivots. Youre talking to a female friend, amping your social state, your bullshitting and playfully bossy exterior, then you turn to another girl and BOOM she immediately falls for your dong
Tue, 07/24/2012 - 06:01
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Re: Tight assed Cate
Shit manwhore! I could kiss you right now! I actually would give you a peck on the cheek if you were here..
I'll post more tomm or the next but I think I diagnosed myself. But I wanna let it sit in my head for a bit. Anyone else have realizations in the shower? That's when it hit me. Anyways yeah.. I was kinda right in my earlier post here but I'll expand on it later. I was trying to figure out what the cause of the cancer was. Instead of just finding it and cutting it the fuck out. So I think I know what type of cancer I have (hint: its in my colon), what's fucking me up. I don't know why it happened but it doesn't really matter. It'd be nice to know but at least now I know what problem is so I can start taking steps to fix it
I'll post more tomm or the next but I think I diagnosed myself. But I wanna let it sit in my head for a bit. Anyone else have realizations in the shower? That's when it hit me. Anyways yeah.. I was kinda right in my earlier post here but I'll expand on it later. I was trying to figure out what the cause of the cancer was. Instead of just finding it and cutting it the fuck out. So I think I know what type of cancer I have (hint: its in my colon), what's fucking me up. I don't know why it happened but it doesn't really matter. It'd be nice to know but at least now I know what problem is so I can start taking steps to fix it
Tue, 07/24/2012 - 06:12
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lol