tinder convo...another flake wtf
I have made plans with this girl twice, and both times she just dissapears and doesn't get back to me. It became clear that I had to shift my style and add some drama to grab her attention. There is some evidence she may be going through some shit in her life because she did at one point say her life is a mess so I am just trying to manage whatever her head set is. Oh yeah she may have a kid too lol not sure about that! Anyways, this is my fourth time reenaging her.
Me: send meme that says "do you realize that we live in a world where people lick each other's buttholes yet some of you still complain about double dipping chips"
Her: oh my
Her: those are both bad bad things
Me: yeah your right
Me: I would get pretty mad if you double dipped chips around me
Her: Now im going to make sure I do
Me: yeah but we never hang
Her: its sad
Me: we've been close
Me:if im too weird for you its okay you can tell me
Her: if you were too weird I would have blocked your number
Me: oh it seems like you never wanna hang
Her: no im just always doing stupid stuff
Me: Same here lol
Me: we should find a time that actually works for us its worth a shot
Her: yeah I agree
Her: I feel like we're both equally weird
Her: might mesh well
Her: or we might hate each other
Her: all part of the fun right
Me: sounds interesing to me :)
Me: so next week is so busy with finals, however, we should grab a quick coffee/tea
Her: or the week after if thats better I mean even when you're home your close
Me: As long as its quick like starbucks I can take a quick break from school
Me: what about thursday?
Me: night
her: I work 3-10
Me: hmmm how about friday night thats the only other day that works for me
Her: that should worlk
Me: kewl, we will smooth out the details mid week
Not very gamey at all, but when I framed some fun dates she just didn't bite. I went on a little bit more of a serious route here and called her out for never hanging out.
Cool, bro. She seems real enthused about sucking your dick. PFF
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
yah this sucks big time I'm not even excited about any of it why would she be
"Me: oh it seems like you never wanna hang" - wtf
Read that one
https://www.manwhore.org/displaying-disapproval-increase-attraction-avoi...
'I think you’re cool but I’m starting to suspect your just one of those girls that likes to lead guys on, maybe to make yourself feel better, I don’t know but I’m not falling for it.'
I texted this once to a flaky, didn't meet her in the end, but definitely changed things.
Interesting to see how some trained guys fall back to texting not so well (also PB) if not practiced I guess.
Not that I would be good haha, fairly new, shit ton to learn.
Interesting to see how some trained guys fall back to texting not so well (also PB) if not practiced I guess.Not that I would be good haha, fairly new, shit ton to learn.
Dude! I noticed that too, so weird.
I've got some thoughts on it
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Me: Whats up brat
Me: steal any nice shoes lately :p
Her: yeah 2 pairs, got fired yesterday actually
Me: fuckin haters soon youll have your own shoe line
Me: "theyre good shoes (my name)" --spin off from a meme she showed me
Her: wanna start a company w me
Me: yes
Me: we will get filthy rich
Me: and buy a private jet to hangout on
Her: lets get a yacht and we can live on it and travel to places instead
Me: totally in
Me: if you think you have the sea legs for it
Her: I have the legs for anything
Me: bet they cant handle ice skating with me
Her: you think your good huh
Me: you have old person legs and could not keep up with me (kiss emoji)
Her: you wouldnt even know
Me: then prove me wrong (name)
Her: your gonna be sorry u ever said that about me and my legs
Me: hahaha i hope your lil legs impress me
Me: what are you doing saturday night?
Her: workin
Me: Sorry we defintely went over this before. i know we said maybe friday but now thats not gonna work for me :/
Me: whats your schedule like again
Me: so i can ice skate circles around you while you fall on your butt :p
Her: oohhh my gooddd your the worst
Me: listen im sutyding all week and have a night off from work
Me: i can accomodate
Her: how so
Me: im my own boss this week
Me: lemme know when your free and i can make sure im free then
Her: hahaha only friday like I said
Me: thats my bad homie
Me: i totally forgot and scheduled somethin that night
Her: ur (scissors emoji)
Me: busy days snowflake
Me: I fucked up but I know we hate each other too much not to finally meet under the moonlight
Her: ya ya ya whatever
Better texting but I scheduled another date that night because I did not think she was going to actually go out with me.
question: are the little sexual undertones such as "Me: hahaha I hope your lil legs impress me" something I should be doing or is it creepy?
will post the texts soon, but this chick flaked on me tonight after my date earlier did not happen Lol
Me: Hi Destony
Me: My plans got cancelled
Me: its last minute but we should drink hot chocolate and sing christmas carols
Her: I made other plans idk what time ill be done tho
Me: im jsut studying for my exams and getting dinner with friends for a bit
Me:im free pretty much all night
Me: lemme know pumpkin butt
Her: wouldnt have been a prob if you didnt cancel out on me hahahaha
Me: ik homie we both canclled on each other before
Me:here now tho I think we could ahve an awesome time if we kicked it
Me: we are gonna freeze in ths ice storm if we dont have hot coco
Her: hi
Her: if were hanging its rn
Me: lets do it ill pick you up in the batmobile in 20
Me: whats your address
Her: ill come and get you im already out
Now she starts calling me and she sounds really fuckin hot. My phone game is ok, but definitely not enough wow. She is being very vague and confusing and keeps on asking what are we doing. I'm trying to frame everything as awesome "chill in starbucks like hipsters...take you to taco bell cuz I know you like it" she keeps on jsut talking about how cold it is and pretty much being a difficult piece of shit. We finally reach some sort of agreement and she says shes gonna run home and change and then pick me up.
After a fuckin hour of sitting around (she only lives 15 min away) I call her and she doesnt answer
Hert: hey
Me: hi where are u slow poke
Her: im cold
Me: im toasty
Her: emoji character of her in the snow
Me: sexy outfit
Me: I hope your not wearing mid calv socks rn
Her: im literally hundled under a blanket
Me: are u coming to get me snowflake
Me: or do I have to fly over in the spaceship
Me: fuck it im coming to you beb <----at this point im seriously thinking she really just wants me to go to her house and fuck her and that is maybe why she didn't want to go anywhere that I mentioned on the phone. I try and call her again and no response.
Her: its so cold out
Me: im the warmest mofucka in town
Her: I just wanna lay in bed and watch a movie and be warm
Me: imma pull your lil bod close to me and keep you warm
Her: hahaha whatt
Me: are you one of those girls that teases over text to feel better about yourself
Her:what do u mean
Me: your being rude as fuck
Me: we made a plan on the phone and now your sitting around wrapped in blankets touching yourself
Me: its fine I didnt like your haircut anyways
What the fuck is going on here. So the flake earlier that day i'm fine with being "nice" about it but fuck this shit. I got completely fucked with here. I don't want to make excuses but this chick is VERY difficult. What im thinking is my phone game did not cut it and that was the end of it. It could have been so much better.
I understand my game is not A+ but is there something glaringly wrong with what i'm doing?
Dude, you had her at the end...
The "hahaha what" - I would've taken that as a license to keep going. Escalate the situation further, roleplay a bit and then WAM! Hit her with the fact that you seriously are coming over and that you two are going to have a good time snuggling, watching movies and making hot chocolate or some shit.
All the "what are we doing?" and "its so cold out" were HUGE signals for you to lead bro. Thats all this girl wants. You even said earlier she had some life baggage or child or some fucking thing.....why aren't you being that rock?
A simple, "Hey, we are doing this then this and this" would've been enough for her to trust you to take care of her. You keep beating around the bush with your plans so she doesn't see you as any source of stability....that's what girls want so they can lollygag around while a dominant man takes care of everything. Girls are little fucking children.
You got butthurt in the end that she wasn't being 'fair' or 'nice' to you and called her rude to top it off.
Fuck. Solid breakdown man. I did not realize that I was potentiallly going in the right direction, but I had a feeling she just wanted me to go over. She was on the phone blabbering off about how its too cold to even walk into starbucks so that probably meant we could even just bang in her car. I still think she was being rude but obviously I could have worked past the bullshit. Welp I probably exhausted this one, maybe Ill try playfully guilt her into the sexy pics/blow job frame as a last ditch effort.
I do take complete responsibility for being a pussy and not pushing further sexually at the end. Thats some fear of rejection bullshit.
Wait, wait, wait, what...
You're going to try to guilt her now? Dude.....
Fix your mess or just leave her be. It's not all about you and your feelings.
OK thx
I've been snapchatting her after apologizing over text. This girl does not contribute SHIT in terms of investment into us meeting up. It's my job I know, but her texts don't give me anything to work with and I haven't figured it out yet. We have had several small convos like this below, this is the most recent.
Her: (snapchat story of her dog)
Me: (snapchat of me asking if that is her boxer dog)
Her: (responds something back but I dont think there is any writing)
Me: (send a pic of my dog)
Her: (she says something about her being adorable)
Me: (I tell her how shes my "lil girl in seach of a doggy date"
Her: ( she responds saying "I love dogs")
Me: (I tell her something about doggy date after christmas and happy holidays)
Have cool snapchat stories of your own. She'll view them and be like "Oh damn, my vajayjay is meow--ing" hehe get it...
Give her some space for a while. Bring her into your life, don't try to budge into hers.
Have cool snapchat stories of your own. She'll view them and be like "Oh damn, my vajayjay is meow--ing" hehe get it...Give her some space for a while. Bring her into your life, don't try to budge into hers.
Yeah!!! actually it has been MY snapchats catching her attention a few times too. She does need some space though.