Tinder date - no lay. Need to bridge to second date. 26 y/o educated yogi

She is 26 and a professional student after taking a few years off. Very smart, well traveled, super into yoga and keeping a obnoxiously firm ass. I wish I had the tinder convo still but it got deleted. She sent me a simple "hey" (which is how 90% of girls open if they do, or its a situational opener based off pictures/profile), I responded with "hi! u r a q t." which is a pretty sweet opener too lol and then some bs about my day. we messaged back and forth for a while really funy and flirty - great vibe. there was even a couple times where i put words in her mouth or messaged what she was going to say right before and she got all excitied i was reading her mind. example, towards the end I said I was going to bed and sent a number close as she was already hitting send with her number aha. 

Anyways, the tinder convo was vibing amazingly. I qualified her a bit, went all over the place while being goofy one minute and flirty the next all while getting to know each other. These texts are from the two days before we met up. Not my best and typing this out now, I realize I couldve handled the flirting wayy better here, like what was going on in the tinder convo. But it was pretty rushed and spaced out pretty far so it all still felt congruent given the earlier messages. Friday comes along and there is a massive snow storm (dammit) which throws a wrench into my plans. We were supposed to go to a restaurant bar for free drinks after work, bounce for cocktails then it would've been an easy pull back to my place. Instead the snow fucks us up, were both running crazy behind and arent able to meetup until 10, at a place in the middle of nowhere close to her place (but she lives with her rents) and we are snowed in there and both super exhausted. It kind of messed up the vibe we had going on, I had no plans once we got there and it left my poor dick out of the equation. Felt like we were co-workers catching up over happy hour drinks instead of conitnuing the vibe we had going on over text. We were both like yawning and shit lol but we still had good conversation, flirted and connected. Just it went nowhereville. Here are some of the texts I have from the day before we met up: 

me: aw muffin

me: do you have your wknds at least

her: yeah generally. i mean a few classes here and there but that only takes a few hours

me: awesome. any trouble planned for this wknd yet 

her: not much. i think my sister is coming to visit and were going to a consult, class on sunday but thats it

me: for you or for her? if you have nuff energy to get fancied up i have a dinner giftcard we can blow on drinks instead lol

me: or stay in our workout clothes and tease riley (doggy) with grocery store wine depending on exhaustion levels 

her: for us both

me: is that an abbreviation or something    (this part might be a little confusing, its in reference to an earlier convo) 

her: not necessaily an abbreviation but our own version of the same thing 

her: my sister really wants to so whatever

15 mins later her: I would be down for drinks. I like meeting guys in public first for obvious reaosn then see how things go

*we try to nail down a time but were both busy so we stuff in a date for friday after work.* 

her: brb going to go motivate people

me: *heart eyes*

her: didn't throw up

her: but almost 

2 hours later her: would also like to borrow that dog for cuddles please thanks

me: lol. Did you make anyone in the class sick

me: I hope youre back on your couch again

me: im not cuddling him yet i still have to jump in the shower :/ 

her: why would i make them sick! they loved me. Im in bed *heart eyes x3* 

her: so i need to cuddle him, i can't get warm

me: jealous

me: he's warming my feet now aha

me: come over here, this bed's is pre-heated

her: my hands are feet are icicles all the time including now. even after a hot shower. i cant get warm ever

me: lol aww muffin

me: is this why your in search of jet fuel

her: yes. yes it is. 

her: i generate no heat so i need to steal man heat

me: im kinda intrigued as to what an operator entails (reference to her profile) 

me: possibly tommorrow night youll be sleeping in warmth

her: well 

me: but riley wont be able to join, well.. maybe

her: basically just laying there but im so small ill end up being your jetpack

her: sounds amazing but not going to happen right now. im also dying right now and also need to leave early for an appointment. kill me

me: dying?!

her: ya my time is up nice meeting you kinda

me: frozen to death

me: *sends picture, myself+dog*

her: wow the one on the left is so cute

me: fits perfect

her: ill take the one on the left

me: then get that booty over here missy

her: but will the one on the right be there too?

me: ya

me: come cuddle

her: I would but i have no pants on

me: riley said he is cool with that

me: cant get in bed with jeans on 

her: im anti jean anyways

me: im against anything covering you up

me: dont make me put mine on, i was jsut about to hop in bed

her: sorry big sweater no bottoms, thats i roll at bedtime

her: tons of blankets and pillows and duvet. still cold

I fell asleep and the next day is when we have plans. we flirt a bit but don't get hot and heavy.. and honestly based on the tinder convo i dont think she would until we hooked up. she had the thing about spooning in her profile but said 'agressive spooning is for serious relationships' after i said spooning leads to forking lol. next day shes going to the dentist and we talk about how much they suck, while making firm plans. this part is all space out pretty far in between texts over the day... 

me: traffic time for me.

me: you'll see him tnight if possible 

her: if we get on then yea im not opposed 

me: hmm ok. just planning on what to do with him

her: yeah ill come over if i dont dislike you *grin* 

her: is there more wine there *wink* 

me: idk how you manage 30 of these little guys

me: ahah maybbee and i think we will but your not going to like the location very much

her: oh god why

her: ill bring a bottle if you dont hhave any

her: ugh sorry im running late, havent left work yet im kinda a celeb around her so i cant go anywhere without people catching me and talking

me: just half a bottle left. we can get some while were out

me: i know :(( ill be late too so take your time

me: ill leave here after 8 

her: what time should we meet at whatever place were meeting at

her: I hope we get on cause I need this so bad ha *wine glass emojis* 

her: my place isn't very friendly cause I moved back in my parents a year ago

me: of course we will my little wino 

me: ok no worries, youll meet him sometime soon 

So yeah. We meet up three hours late, snowed in at a gross pub. We're both super exhausted and just had a chill flirty time but it was sorta incongruent to the fun goofy vibe we had earlier over text. I had nowhere else to go and no where to pull except the car but that wouldn't have added up. I think I was too keen on meeting her, I should've pushed the date back so we had more time together and better logistics. Then I would've had no problem. Writing this up now I noticed how with these texts and the tinder profile the balloon we were blowing up was building and building and instead of popping, it just kind of slowly fizzled out on that date. Not that it was bad persay but it let the attraction level off. We connected that is for sure but we certainly didn't build off what we had going on. It was also my first, first date in like 6 weeks so I had a it of rust to shake off. 

We talked about travel, fitness, food, poltiics, school, goofed off a bit, flirted. At this point its midnight and our places are both a 30 minute drive opposite ways in the weather. We go outside and she immediately starts shivering lol she wasn't lying about being cold all the time. I pull her in and heat her up and then tell her to start her car. I jump in the passenger seat and tell her to drive me to mine. I warm her up some more while shooting the shit. Car gets heated and I make fun of her driving glasses, she looks at me pissed off so I pull her in for a kiss. We make out for a bit and I paw a bit at her body and grab her face. She tells me my hands are warm. We break off and she is still legit shivering so that kind of kills any escalation that would've happened but it wasn't going to happen anyways - too incongruent. We probe each others schedules a bit, the weeks are a mess but we see when we are both free for next weekend. I jump into my car and she rides off into the blizzard. 

Im kind of worried that not letting the balloon pop ruined her image of me. I mean we connected and made out at the end but that doesn't mean much. Im wondering if I friend zoned myself - since I didn't live up to the awesome high value dude I was coming off before our meetup, or if I just need to chill a bit a get a second date. 

The next day (saturday) I texted her

me: I vote you rain check on your fam jam consult

no reply. I sent a meme about a jacked girl two days later

her: my dream physique

me: i went to the sauna after the gym today

me: I feel amazeballs

no reply. yesterday I sent a v-day meme... no reply :( 

Granted she is crazy busy during the week, three jobs and going for her masters degree. But these post date texts break my heart and boner.. really eager to get a second date with her. The incongruence on the date vs text threw me off track and I think i was a little desperate to reconnect again. We were both pretty keen on each other before the date, derrppp she was asking for it. Am I overthinking this and shooting myself in the foot? Should I just chill out and reenage in the next few days asking about her week if she doesn't? Or did I already friendzone myself? I don't have much of a clue as to where she is at emotionally in regards to me right now. It'd be nice to get us back on the same again but I don't know what page she is on.. Posting here to get feeback and advice so I don't blow this sure thing up even further.