Tinder girl miss blue eyes
Alright so I meet this girl via tinder and we had been talking for a bit. Around the time we started talking I wanted to take her out but couldn't (super broke plus it was the holidays) anyways around Christmas time she had to leave for work at another city and literally just got back.
Me: how's those kids liking those stories about Pablo huh (this is related to her job)
Her: Lmao pretty much! And yeah, feels good to be home!
*this was last night before midnight*
umm I just noticed that it doesn't paste the emoticons from the convo
I rarely say this but you're texting too much. Let the girl speak, let your value breath. You're leaking value
Stop seeing it as "taking her out". Just get a meetup going. Make it casual. If you try to make it a "date" you're only going to invite her resistance as guys that try to take girls out on "dates" are fucking chodes and don't get laid and are awkward.
Wow I figured there was a problem... i still kept doing that even after posting this:
me:Lol talking about your favorite combos makes you knock out
Me: Just got of work, what do you got your paws into this weekend?
her: Sounds fun, I just finished eating lol *smiley face with sunglasses*
Me: What sounds fun? Lol
her: Lol it was sarcasm *smiley face with tongue out and wink*
Me: I knew that curly hair was nothing but trouble *give her the same emoji*
her: Lol what do you mean *frown face*
me: Wow I have to work it out for you lol :P ... you gave me sarcasm & I replied with I knew you were trouble. Curly hair = you *monkey face emoji*
her: Hair has nothing to do with this! My hair ain't even curly!
me: What? Why do all of your pics have you with curly lol false advertising *face with tongue out plus wink*
me: JK I thought you had curly hair from your pics, what is your regular hair frizzy. Did we just have our first argument :) :P
her: Cause I like fixing my hair and it use to be curly :(
This was last night, I hadn't texted her all day til a little earlier
Me: Guess we'll agree to disagree, your hair used to be curly wow lol :P I passed out yesterday, the football games today have been intense!
Is going back 'n forth about her hair helping you in the slightest? Get off that subject and start crafting this whole thing towards a meetup.
Her: lol I've heard! I'm not much of a football fan though *emoji with rolling eyes that look up*
Me: Not much of a fan: *still keeps up to date with all the games* :P
Her: that's a lie hahahaha :P
I realize that that response was kinda gargabe and maybe half fast but I'm rusty. one thing I will say is that she's been responding so that's got to mean something.
kinda out of meet up ideas at the moment. to be honest
You're out of meetup ideas huh? Well damn dude guess you're shit out of luck. Helpless dudes don't get pussy
Lmao alright, time to get creative. Gotta stop fucking around.
Can't be helpless.
I want this/her badly. Back to where the creativity lies.
So text her back
Me: Well no one called you a truth-er (it's from a show, I believe ;)) ever done anything illegal like rob an ice cream van? Promise I might not hold it against you :P
Her: You're trying to get to personal now :p lol
I have two responses that I'm thinking of:
Me: You're so meta, breaking the fourth wall *what will he do next*
Me: well yeah but it's not like I asked you about your sex life :P
any opinions on this. I was gonna try and lead it towards meeting up and get ice cream butt not sure at the moment. Might need warm her up to through convo.
Me: Too personal huh, fine I'll go first chic... chicken :P
I ended up going with the one above^. I felt like it was the best route to go.
Me: It's like you're psychic, you must have a fifth sense. It's like you have ESPN or something.'