Tinder high school girl- last minute bail
Me: one picture (name)?
Me: this account screams catfish
Her: hahahha I have more! :P look at my insta (name)
Her: yours is too by the way
Me: couldnt find it
Me: how is my account cat-fishey?!
Her: only one pic hahaha I promise its there, try (name)
Her: and yours?
Me: dude i cant find it
Me: excuse me I have 5 pics geezus
Me: no insta for me
Her: you're not trying hard enough :) its the only proof I have is insta
Me: I think I found your twitter but it doesnt do any justice
Me: whats your snapchat
Her: (name) :) :)
Me: your gonna send me a picture with the dog filter
Me: with smiley faces?
Her: HAHAHA no smiles
Her: your cute and defintely gonna kill me :P but im studying for finals and look insane rn can you trust that
Me: hmmmm i dont know te fact your still typing in tinder really makes it more weird
Me: gimme your # text me when your not living out hell week
Me: yah know what ill text you
Her: ok its (number)
Me: Hi (name), (name), (name) or a collection of other catfish names
Me: this is (name)
Me: so you have my #
Her: hahaha i figures btw I wouldnt trust you with my number if I thought u were fake so that had to prove something huh?
Me: hahaha well yes I figured that
Me: but I thought the whole drama here is that your fake
Her: I have a story posted on snapchat btw also proof and I can send you a rescent pic
Me:yeah that story is a blonde haired girl (shes not blonde)
Me: send nudes
Me: jk
Me: send recent pic
Her: (pic)
Her: recent pic posted on my insta, youd know if you had one :)
Me: ok I believe you now
Me: your gorgeous
Her: thank you :) told u you can trust me about being real
Me: I really do now! its great im glad we got that outta the way
Her: me too! so all I know about u is u believe in aliens like it says in your profle :) and you go to (college) and your very attractive what else?
Me: hmmmmm I like to go skiing and eat chipotle
Me: so i think thats everything
Her: chipotle is my fav too! skiing ive never tried :) hahahahah im pretty clumsy but I really try hard to be outgoing and adventourous ya know? what else are you studying
Me: yes adventours is always good :)
Me: (i talk about school)
Her: thats awesome hahahah you're prob a sophmore in college and im a senior in highschool i knoew youd ask eventually :P :P but only im 18! I want to go to (school) for education
Me: lol I wish I was in highschool still it was so fun
Me: (college) is fun!
Her: legit didnt think you were gonnna text me back after I told you how old i was hahaha
Me: hahaha no i dont car eits not like your 16
we talk about normal stuff, she really want to discuss college and seems really excited
Me: Iv been in calculator mode for 48 hours and I notcied I never got back to you
Me: just had the craziest dream last night :) whatcha up to
Her: hahah thats ok:) what was your dream about?
Me: some strnage creature biting my fingers :P
Me: i feel like it started sexual then moved to that weird shit
Me: my dog was prob nibbling on my fingers in my sleep
Her: haahaha that means you are home im taking it?
Me: ( we talk about dogs)
Her: just like max hahah he cuddles with me and is the best! I have another one too, shes grump tho!
Me: oh i hope she didnt learn that from you :P
Me: you know what they say pets are always like their owners
Her: no no hehehe I love to cuddle for sure tho :)
Me: ohhh I could out-cuddle you any day ive learned from the best :)
Me: pull your lil bod close to me it would be so fun
Her: hahaha I doubt your better I am the best :)
Me: i hope you would back this up
Me: maybe id kiss your delcious lips too if your cuddling skils were up to par
Her: oh shoot hahaha well see about that! :) <3
Her: mmm you dont know if im as tall as you either hahahaha cuddling wouldnt be the same :P :) :)
Me: dude I fianlly found your insta
Her: thought you didnt have one :P
Me: I just had to log into my old one
Her: I have a couple, you better be on my most recent one because the others are embrassing
Me: lol yes I saw the first one I was like dayyyyyum shes way to young
Me: then I realized it was from 2012
Me: but what about you being as tall lol
Her: omg i only have one password so ill follow back on one
Me: i dont get that
Her: im 5 9"
Her: im kidding i wanted to scare you
Me: ohhhh lol I lvoe girls that are taller than me
Her: im 5 4"
Her: are you kidding :P
Me: no im not lol im 5 8" and ive dated girls taller than me yes
Me: but thats a cute height
We joke around for a bit, talk about how im old for using facebook
Me: gawd this studying is killing me
Me: I need ice cream
Her: hahah your are a bit older than me but its just a number :) your not old at all
Her: whens your winter break
we talk about winter break
Me: lol that sucks!
Me: we should break into your school and change all your grades to A's
Her: :) :) omg we think the same way
Me: :)
Me: we could eat chipotle while we do it
Her: thats all I want :) :) hahaha i was dreaming about chipotle yesterday but had to settle for mcdonalds :(
Me: lame
Me: so lame
Her: I didnt have anyone to go with
Me: shoulda invited me
Her: I didnt know you still wanted to talk to me haha I thought it might have been a one time thing
Me: lol i no woulda made that clear
Me: lets go tonight and eat all their gucamole
Her: I want to :) but I have to babysit
Me: bring the kid
Me: jk
Me: whats your schedule like tomorrow?
Her: I think i might be free :)
Me Its abig study day for me but I could make it out the bat cave around noon for a lil bit
Her: hahahah Ia ctually laughed out loud yes that sounds nice
Me: we can figure it out in the morning
Me: dont sleep too late i know highschoolers tend to do that :)
Her: I rarely sleep :) im pretty sure i have insomnia or something? maybe you could diagnose it? hahaha
Her: (name) your meeting with a girl from tinder is this weird? hahaha
Me: we could do an exam
Me: nah lol I have a great friend from tinder ive known her for 3 years
Me: I screened you well enough
Me: I trust yah
Her: hahah have I screened you well enough?
Me: send her a meme of a rooster with a man bun "luis, 23, sells fake xanax to his friends, texts your girl at 3 am, drives everywhere on suspended license" this is what your dealing with
her: I have mace in case :)
Her: well if i get killed its my fauly for having a tinde rin the first place and going out with a stranger :) arent I so positive?
Me: your the one with 3 instagrams
Me: now thats shady
Her: hey I lost all my passwords
Me: likely story but illt ake my chances since your a cutie
Her: i couldb be a serial kille
Her: hey at least ill get chipotle
Her: hahahha tell me something about you i dont know
we tak about photography and singing. I try to make her comfortable
Me: thats normal
Me: we will discuss the college transition tomorrow lol because its weird for everyone
We talk about normal things for while, she then tells me she asked a mutual friend about me who claims I was cute, smart, and polite
her: omg some kid peed on me this morning at work
Me: hahahah! oh no better not wear the same clothes with me tomorrow :)
Her: and if I do?
Her: :) :) hhaha
Me: you obviously would have to take them/it off
her: oh no :) thats not approciate on a first date silly but i promise not to smell like pee
Me: lol it didnt have to be interpreted like that :)
Me: wheres your head at :)
Her: I know what you meant :p
Her: your a guy
Me no no that was an emoji-less text how naughty of you
Her: hahah ok my b im too caught up making a ginger bread house :)
Me: okay ill let it slide
Me: ok im getting back to work with this organic chemistry :) :) :) text yah in the morning and we will figure when we are going to become chipotle enthusiasts
Me: ok <3 have so much fun :)
next morning
Me: Hi you still down for lunch today :)
her: told you i wouldnt over sleep and I set an alarm for 10 just in case hahahah I really want to meet you! I promise! you may stop texting me but I was wondering if we could hold off until im a little bit more comfortable? if not its totally ok it doesnt hurt to ask :) im sorry dont hate me
Me: yah its okay :P
Me: your gonna miss out on burritos
Her: I really do want to be a chipotle enthusiast with u :) <3
Me: lol its fine
Me: not everyone can handle it :P
Her: omg I will make it up to you'd if you still want to see me
Me: ill see you anytime
Me: just very busy for a while tbh
Her: your so sweet id hate me if I were u hahaha i know your schdule must be crazy w studying for finals and everything!!! im a jerk you made time for me today and evetyhing :(
Me: no worries
Her: ok :( im sorry dont go too hard studying today
This is a fun conversation and she's obviously very sweet. I am sure we will meet up at some point, and she already wants to make it up to me which is a great frame to work from. I am still dissapointed because I know there are still a few details that I could have changed and she probably would have not bailed. I think I overgamed at a few points, especialy because she's in highschool. She had some buyers remorse the next morning. I tried to show some dissapproval and still get her out but I really did not want to be insutling because I take that too far.
Wtf happened to your game
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
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What! This ain't too bad at all
Her: <3 I really hope youll give me another chance and I promise I wont bail this time I know school must be crazy busy for you so let me know id like that
Me: lol dont stress about it
Me: your gonna have to make it up to me somehow :) but we will figure somethin out
Her: sounds good :)
Me: Like i said earlier no clue how my week is gonna be
Me: but if we can sneak out for a lil bit ill let you know
Her: hehehe yes yes thatd be nice :)
PFFF. #yougay #supergay #wheresyourcape
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Me: (name) you know you owe me ice cream right :0
Her: now I do silly (monkey emoji) whats your fav place?
Me: I am a major advcoate of froyo
Her: does this refer to go berry in noho?
Me: you would try and kid nap me all the way to (town) :P
Me: lots of froyo here
Her: im already planning it :) :P
Her: im plotting to take you away from your books and studying for at least a little while
Me: oh no i may put up a fight
Me: ill be nice n gentle tho
Her: I am strong I can handle it hahaha
Me: I like that
Me: im free tuesday and thursday this week, when are you not babysitting the young animals
Her: friday :) :) I have to be in work at 5 on thursday
Her: does that mean I wont see you?
Me: was going to be in bed early friday cuz I ski early on sat
Her: ok hmmmm I am babysitting at 7 on friday so if you wanted to do something early I can see you before then if that works?
Me: we could make that work
Me: you bailed on me last time so I wanna make sure this is real before I make plans with you
Her: ok yayyy <3 yes it is real
Me: listen this is gonna be spontanous since we are time limited
Me: be ready to be awesome and buy me ice cream
Her: im ok with that :) as long as I get to meet you
Me: aw your so sweet
Me: I think we will get along just fine :)
Me: what time are you free friday
Me: im done with class at 12
Her: 2-7 :)
Me: what time will you be home and ready to kick it
Her: (name) im not as familiar with froyo around here as you may be
Me: they are everywhere we will find one to overthrow
Me: we will do a froyo takeover jack up the prices and get fithy rich
Her: thats sounds like a plan :) <3
we then set up specifics
Me: sup snowflake
Me:hope you didnt turn into an ice cube today
Her: :) :) <3 haha that was cute may have even made my day
Her: im frozen but dont worry
Her: im like an old person
Me: no old is not fun
Me: dont be old around me
Me: I just had amazing vietnamese soup with friends :)
Her: haha you sound so cool (kissy face emjoi)
Her: vietnamese soup :) tell me about it
Me: argubaly the ferrari of soups
Me: its healthy but spicy and interesting
Me: plus the chops sticks are fun!
Her: im practicing how to use them!! haha where is the place?
Her: im at work getting trained to work the front desk :)
Me: its right next to my school
Me: oh sexy secretary style
Me: I should probbaly let you work justw wanted to say wassup
Her: no no I will try to keep getting back to you they dont mind <3 ill tell you about it when I get out
Me: send me a snapchat of you and one of the lil monster children
Her: im at the desk today silly no children :)
Me: hahaha those poor children they prolly miss you
Her: I miss them :) well reconncect tomorrow
Me: right
Me: hope they dont throw toys at you :)
Her: hahaha they wont <3 the ones tomorrow are my cousins :) are we still doing ice cream even as chilly as it ight be tomorrow?
Me: yes we are
Me: if its tooo obnoxiously chilly we will improvise
Her: ok (kissy face emoji) im excited hehe do you think I could meet you instead? I promise I do want to see the infinity and have the full out experiencing of your driving! <---we joked few days earlier about speeding being sexy
Me: what do you mean
Her: can I meet you whereever we are going silly? im just thinking it might be easier if I come right from school <3 and if we hangout again I promise you can drive
Her: is that okay?
Me: thats weird lol
Her: I didnt think so haha hmmm
Me: are you one of those girls that chnages theirs minds every 10 seconds lol
Her: nooo im far from one of those girls. just trying to be caustious
Me: caustious about what
Her: well its our first time meeting so
Her: id like to see you but I dont want it to be an issue
Me: dude your creeping me out I want this to be fun not weird
Me: your making this weird
Her: lol then im not the girl for you if you think im being weird
Her: im sorry
Me: i hav eno problme with you meeting me somewhere lol
Me: get what your saying just thought we were going past that
Me; like to actually have an awesome time not jsut sit across from each other at a table for 15 min then part ways (crying laughing emoji)
Me: kat was talking about you today lol I didnt know she was friends with your sis
Her: thats not what it would be at all I really do want to meet you and get to know you
Her: what was she saying ? :)
Me: im not telling you :)
Me: jk she said you were a very interesting person and how you sing
Her: good interesting?
Me: yes of course
Me: interesting is always better than boring
Me: im going to see star wars rn
Me: never seen any im excited :)
Her: im glad :)
Her: thats so exciting
Her: your a busy guy
Me: she said you were artsy but not in an annoying hipster way lol
Her: hahaha are you into that (crying laughing emoji)
Me: hipsters that drink cheap beer and wear vans absolutely not
Me: I like artsy-ness
Her: I dont own vans and defintely dont drink cheap beer (crying lauhing emoji)
Her: hahahaha
Her: thats a crazy sterotype you have
Me: its a great sterotype to play arounf with (cyring laughing emoji)
Her: omg your insane :) hahaha I cant believe youve been out all night instead of studying
Me: I got studying in
Me: trying to have fun with college friends before break :)
Me: movie is starting
Me: txt ya in the morning so we can figure out whats going on
Her: ok (kiss emoji) have fun
Next day
Me: morning
Me: nice n icy out there
Me: get your fur coat reasby
Her: I know I have im almost positive I have frost bite everywhere (crying laughing emoji)
Me: lol its like a tundra out there
Me: what time are you out of school?
Her: I got a big coat for christmas but my mom wouldnt give it to me hahaha maybe she wants me to freeze
Her: at 2 :)
Me: I got a nice flannel and didnt get it yet either!
Me: okay so we are meeting at (name) mall where its nice n toasty
Her: (crying laughing emoji) im sure other places have heat haha why there?
Me: we are mall rats
Me: and i need exercise after sitting at a desk all day
Me: finished my last class of semester
Me: feels so good
Me: lets meet at 2:45 (name)
Me: sears parking lot thats my fav entrance lol
Me: everything okay? <---sent this 10 min before we were supposed to meet
I sat in my car and called her at 2:55, she picked up and immediatly hung up. I said fuck it and walked the mall on my own and left. Tried calling her at 8 to see whats up and yet again she declines. This situation sucked because she bailed on me once before, and Im not sure what im missing. Earlier I tried to shape her behavior about wanting to drive herself opposed to me picking her up, and I think I may have been out of place by doing that. It turned into an issue. Also, I don't think I gave her much room to express herself during the entire convo I sorta over did it and lacked emotional acuity. The texting today was sorta lame and it defintely did not frame our date as awesome, which this girl REALLY needed. She clearly had an issue with going to the mall yet I wasn't listening well enough. I thought about calling her rude as fuck but shes in highschool and did not feel that was best.