tinder party girl
got her number quick, seemed down to meetup from the start but figuring out logistics is a nightmare. and similar thing today. she texts me wanting to meetup with me, then makes it a nightmare logistcally. i guess she seems like a party girl, she goes out on the wknds and drinks, etc, so i think she is just casting a net and seeing if i happen to meetup with her. so do i need to make this more real to her? maybe just text something like "yo when you free to meetup this wknd?" and then i can gauge whether she just wants me to meet her and her friends when they go out or meetup alone for a date or shoot over late for a booty call AND gauge if she needs more work to be ready to escalate from meeting them out to something more intimate.
her: holla holla what chu up to this wknd maybe ill see you around
me: hey beb, yeah im sure we could, i gotta work tomm but still going to do something, what are your plans
her: i dunno exactly but im going to the jays game tnight weeooo
me: oh shit! home opener, thatll be a blast. you driving or taking transit
her: prob going to drive there and stay downtown all wknd
me: yeah? in a hotel or at a friends? tnight i think im going to work for a bit then chill. come see me after the game if your staying down
her: mm, maybe, i might go out n about after
me: lol i might go out for a bit but cant be super late. you dont have much plans eh. always spontaneous this one
her: just going with the flow yo
me: you sound fun and adventurous, all the good qualities for the jays game
her: should be a great time!
Geexuz fuck stick! I just noticed how terrible my texting was, i wasnt paying any attention clearly, she texts me wanting to meetup and i qualify her and talk about random details, my texting has no direction im not leading this to us fucking at all.
Im thinking to text her back now and just go straight for logistics for tomm or something, if nothing then i can pump her state and try to meet her tnight
Tonight when you're out get aggressive with getting her to meet up. A couple different texts in a row, create momentum and be persistent. Ask her buying questions, tell her to tell you where she's at and that you're coming, etc. Make her feel that shit.
buyers questions?
i get the be agressive towards the meetup part but i ask questions from the buyers frame in order to keep my higher value when pulling agressively for the meetup?
No I mean press her for information on where she's at, where she lives, etc. It's aggressively but smoothly forcing the meetup.
Pretty sure I get how this is supposed to go down
I slept through my post gym nap and woke up at 230... Just when the girls are getting their drunken fast food on. Pick her up, dropped her off and headed straight to work. My fingers still kinda stink
Fucked her?
Yeah
I'll write the full story later, been working since then.
Lol completely unrelated though... Is not popping wood due to anxiety? I've never ever had problems with that but I fucked her once and wanted to Go more but it was all in my head after that I guess. I know you said before you can work through that
Yeah usually it's a form of performance anxiety but in this case I've noticed that when girls exert too much sexual control in the beginning of a relationship they're actually ROYALLY fucking themselves over because the dude's penis stops to work on his command. Derp. Dumb ass girls lol
Now you know what I meant by the aggressive style of texting huh. Lol
Yes exactly haha. is that why you threw up that demo from your ebook? the above post was the EXACT reason this went down. like holy shit, everyone, my penis wouldn't have been in a vagina yesterday had it not been for the above
the lay report can stay super brief. as i said, i woke up, texted her like how manwhore said. this girl most likely had a bunch of options last night and was looking to get laid. i was just a number in her phone. funnily enough she was out with her brother and cousin who cockblocked the shit out of guys hitting on her and her bro got kicked out of the bar lol. sorry rsd chodes who were probably hitting on her at the bar! so she was cockblocked all the way home until her bro left to his place and shes just there with her friend and sister. I text her agressively and play it exactly like how mw describes in his ebook excerpt. i pick her up, bring her home, shes still borderline uncomfortable with this all, i kiss her in the car and she froze the whole time, didnt react. this wouldve thrown the old me off.. but i read it different now. keep talking about lord knows what. get her to my place, sit on bed, chit chat for like two minutes before i got bored and started making out with her. then the game was already done, just steady escalation from there.
i tried to send you a pic mw but my shitty ass phone wont send it :/
Yeah usually it's a form of performance anxiety but in this case I've noticed that when girls exert too much sexual control in the beginning of a relationship they're actually ROYALLY fucking themselves over because the dude's penis stops to work on his command. Derp. Dumb ass girls lol
LOL holy hell that sucks. yeah thats what kinda happened. well kind of both things im sure. she def took control one clothes started flying and then once it was lost performance anxiety kicked in.
Email it!
Thinking about the whole wiener thing as I sit here reflecting on my wiener.
My dick didn't have me behind it most of the time. A penis can't fuck something unless it has a masculinity behind it. The tinder and getting her number was automatic, the meet up was a result of you and her, we fucked cause of me but then it got weird when she took over the second time, it took the man out of my manhood. And then she would say something that would make me feel like a man aka turn me on and we almost had lift off bit she said something stupid and it murdered my boner.
Haha aha your right for laughing at her. Silly girls.