These are some quick points on some sexual dominance that i had running on my last girlfriend. she told me she's never had such raw sexual attraction to anyone in her life. also that she loved being my sex slave and craved being controlled by me. Everything I list in this post drove her wild, so listen up.
To preface this, she is not a weak or submissive woman. She's highly intelligent, strong, grounded, of very high integrity and compassion yet she's able to bring out the yellow streak down anyones back. ;) She's manhandeled grown dudes who were harassing and tormenting her and her girlfriends on the dance floor and thrown them out of the fucking club. she's beat up assholes. straight up. But in my arms, she's my little baby and she knows who her daddy is ;). She can let go completely and be emotionally, physically and mentally naked and vulnerable. Domination is a gift that I give her, she wants it and expects it.
These are some pretty basic but easy things you can play with and expand on or alter. I haven't written down everything, just enough to use and inspire. It'll change with different women, and even with the same woman.
Mark her.
I'd leave hickies on her neck despite her playful objections. Not to the attention on her neck, just the mark because she couldn't have something like that showing at work. she gave me shit about it, she jokingly said if she had to use make up on her neck again she'd hurt me. I told her in response, completely unphased at her empty death threat lol, at least people know who she belonged to now. Later, she told me this was when she knew was in trouble in terms of getting serious feelings for me.
You can also do this with scratches down her back, or the feeling of a sore vagina or red butt cheeks the next day, or bite marks if she's into that. I've had girls before liking that I would mark them. Spin it in territorial, possessive, ownership type of way, but like always, keep it sexy. Check in with her the next day if her pussy is still sore. If you have a vagina, put her on her front, hold her lightly by the back of the neck, and wipe your juices up and down her back - let her know that you're marking your territory. if you don't a vagina, well, maybe you should get one.
Who's your daddy.
make her submit to you in an arm wrestle, or more preferable, a fully body wrestle. Pin her and say playfully "who's your daddy". dont let her avoid admitting to it. she'll be massively turned on. Now, take it to it's natural progression and turn it into sex. make her say who owns her, who she belongs to, who controlls her, who's her master. don't give her what she wants until she submits, she WANTS to submit. so make it about her helpless submission in how you talk to her. some women also want to fight for it before hand, but don't falter or you'll be disappointing them. I'd have my girl call me "daddy" through out her relationship.
Control her in bed.
Control when she orgasms. she can only come when you let her. tell her this and demonstrate this by getting her close then not letting her. she'll ask if she's allowed to when she's about to come. or she'll say she wants to come for you. Or tell you that you're going to force to come over and over. remind her that you'll fuck her whenever you want. Have unbreakable confidence with your power over her arousal.
The "No Panties" rule.
Have certain sexy rules when you go to her place or she comes to yours. The No panties rule is an easy one. Make you tell her the rules. when you enter her place, pin her against the wall sllide your hand under pants to check if she obeyed. dont kiss her unless she has. if she has not, tell her to go take them off. my girl LOVED this rule. she be soaking wet with slitted bedrrom eyes, chest already heaving with heavy breathing, saying to me adoringly, "i know the rules". Tell her when you're setting up a date that she's not allowed to wear any panties.
If an apology is needed.
if she's been rude,make her apolgise in the bedroom but make it super sexy. tell her you want her apology on her knees. pin her ot the door, put your hands on her shoulders, push her downward.
Bondage
tie her up - you know what to do. Try blind folding her too.
me: [dont remember all of text] looking at me with those lustful eyes, while you're tied to the bed.
her: im so in love with you.
Master/slave
I told my girl, while stroking her neck, that i'd her get a slave collar or a slave neck lace. it really tuned her on. she glowed. note: she won't always admit she likes it. you have to read it. sometimes her liking it, is her going happily quiet because she's so content.
How you touch her.
This for all the time. Do you wrap your hand in her hair and use it to move her head to expose her neck so you suck and bite on it? do it. Hold her jaw in your hand, gentle but firm, make her look at you, kiss her like she's your meal. Toss her onto the bed. etc. use sensual/dominant touch with her. steering, possessing, stroking, taking.
Pay attention to her!
Different women want different things. Deeper suppressed nuanced sexual desires can take a while to dig out. Listen and watch to what turns her on, to what she says she likes, to how she responds, etc. some want more sensual sex, others want hardcore dominance. Use their own dirty talk for cues for what their inner most fantasies are. This woman seemed to really like sex a reward for being "a good girl". She initiated that label for it, not me lol. Mingle that into conversations with her, like checking in with her with an authoritative tone if she's been good or not. Send her naughty texts while she's at work sitting at her desk. Tell how you're the boss and your bend her over her own desk and fuck while she has to muffle her own moans, or she has to sit on your lap, and slide up and down you. etc. <- doesnt go in the this section but fuck it.
- Dr Lix
