Trust Issues/Opening Up
Curious as to how you guys reccommend dealing with a situation where the girl you game has trust issues/trouble opening up. She is a genuinely nice person, but has clearly been through a lot. When dealing with people like this is general, regardless of whether or not they are girls, is there a specific protocol to follow? Or just spending time with them and giving it time works best?
I meant "in general"
You can't focus on the bullshit, got to have fun and show her cooler shit. If you get down and grovel with someone in the mud, you're going to end up being the same.
Fuck, I completely get that. I just realized I been feeling shitty lately cause of how I have been trying to help her out. I think I should stop messaging this chick for a bit cause now it seems kind of tense? Where she seems very into me most of the time but whenever she gets sad or whatever's going on, everything seems very off.
I don't plan on messaging her for a little while. Going to go out and game and try and kick my ass out of this gross feeling I'm now having. She's really cool and all, but again, trying to help someone down in the dumps like that always makes me feel bad about myself for some reason...(Law of state transferance maybe?)
Plus she's being quite flakey. Maybe freezing her out for a bit will do me good (Ignoring snapchats, messages, etc. for a bit)
Whatcha think? Could use some advice on that aspect. I'd post up some texts but I just got my phone replaced today (Old one was having problems) so I lost my logs.
Lol c'mon dude that's the first rule of fight club. You can't let some girl drag you down like that that just means you're already prone to be lead down that route honestly
You're so right. Gotta shake this off. Time to go out and game like mental and turn up the Tolle. Such a weird feeling that I got from trying to help. That can't be normal