UHH. Maybe too much?
My roommate's sister was here tonight cuz they were going out to "Spring Fling" tonight. The girl I've mentioned before. She's kindof been a little shit since I posted that. Either she's being a butthead or shit testing me hard.
Tonight, I was drinking some whiskey and doing my weekly grilling. I walk in the kitchen and she's sitting in the other room on the sofa, on her phone, and goes, "Hey Rob. Do you have any cash?"
I'm like, "Uhhh. Yeah."
"Can you give me $40?"
I say, "In exchange for what?" As I'm making hamburgers.
She says, "A thank you..."
I just ignored so she says, "No really I need some cash."
I say, "Yeah, what do you have in exchange?"
She says, "I told you, a 'thank you'"
So I was thinking this is a little ballsy of her, and I say, "Well. *I* need a blowjob... I'll just give you a 'thank you' in return." She gives her brother this look of "incredulous shock" like she can't believe what I just said and he goes, "Quit asking my roommate for money! Get your own cash."
Then she starts saying, "I'm only interested in girls. bla bla bla"
I say, "That's nice." Take my hamburger to my room.
I'd had a glass of whiskey and that was what popped in my head so I just spat it out before thinking about it. Sometimes I come across as an asshole and I don't mean to. I kinda wish I had handled this a bit more positively.
It wasn't even her asking it was more like her body language... she was sitting on the couch, texting and didn't make eye contact or anything. It felt very inauthentic and motivated.
Well she's randomly asking a dude for $40. She should be tossed off a balcony
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I think you're both right. Yeah you could have handled it better ie. communicated the same thing without being quite as dickish despite the fact that yeah, she probably deserved it. IMO there's an added benefit to a little more subtlety. Lets say you had chosen to just not respond at all and instead just let her panhandling fall on deaf ears; she probably would have gotten really frustrated and annoyed which is always hilarious. She was probably a little annoyed and frustrated anyway but she probably also had a slight satisfaction in getting a reaction out of you.
Yes creating the drama between you two was at least partially her goal. What kind of relationship do these two have? I've got two little sisters both troublemakers I would never let them ask my friends for money like that it's very disrespectful to try to "tool" MY friends for money. I'm not sure what's going on in particular in this situation but either decide youu're not going to bang her and ignore this shit/communicate it ain't going to happen, or just game her. But this in-between stuff is just lame.
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I'm not so much asking because of the girl... I've been pretty mindfucked since I had that True Detective realization and I'm still trying to come to grips with it. It feels a little like I'm a baby who figured out how to ride a bike but I'm still a little wobbly at it.
either decide youu're not going to bang her and ignore this shit/communicate it ain't going to happen, or just game her. But this in-between stuff is just lame.
What would be the "I want to bang her" way to deal with this situation?
The thing is it's not going to happen. She's playing games. She's not coming from a good place where she's cool with herself and I can see that. She was trying to fill her self esteem at my expense. On top of that, she felt confident about trying that nonsense because her brother was sitting right there. The look she gave him after I said it meant that she expected him to jump up and defend her. There may be some ego-manipulation games I could play on her, but I'm really not into that kind of thing. The thing I was wondering about was my reaction.
But if all that wasn't going on with her, there'd have to be a situation where nobody would know about it but you and her.
Well I wouldn't let one of my buddies tell my sister to blow him that was pretty disrespectful towards your buddy.
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- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male