Ukrainian Hotty

Wtf is that

Me: Well, I usually charge a lot for my recommendations…

Me: About equivalent to a drink

Her: Oh-oh-oh, I’ll think about it J

Was she into you in person? How'd that go.

Me: Well, I usually charge a lot for my recommendations…

Me: but for you girl.. all I ask is $5000

You want to tease her along those lines. Then go ahead and give her a referral. I would have qualified the drink/schedule thing a bit better, that seemed a bit forced. 

"Seriously tho.. we should absolutely get a drink this week. I need to improve ukranian/US relations things are at a standstill. Wednesday work? 

yeah, not my best txting, things have been feeling really forced as of late. Actually, chrisj, I do like your style of txting(kinda don't give a fuck asshole and pushy in a good way). I try that and I just get ton of shit-test/wtfs from girls, cause I don't think it comes across asa congruent. 

MW, I like that tease, I was thinking somethinglike that, but how you placed made so much sense. Many times I shoot a good shot, but at the wrong time in the shot clock. Gonna fix that. 

This interaction was super short, like a minute. She was waiting for a date and didn't really know how to respond and said she had to go, but was kind of giggly. She wanted to do the "I'll take your number(and never txt you", but I pushed to get her number. I was pretty surprised she responded to my initial txts, her date must have suuuuuucked.

Heres the continued version

Her: Who knows, who knows

Next day

Me: Seriously, you do work? [retarded and super aspergers awkward]

Me: I prefer to get to know you rather than have you steal my secrets

No response

Next day

Me: Class was amazing today...

Me: [some internet photo of a puppy sleeping during class]

Her: Mmmmmmm.He is she is great!!!!! Super puppy :)

Her: What is the class?

Me: Yeah, but as great as this little guy...

Me: [pic of me with friends dog]

Me: Whatcha up to my little ukrainian spy/vampire

I texted her that pretty  late, so no response so far.

I'm gonna post more convos I've been having, I want to really handle this part of my game. I've started meditating daily so, why not be more diligent about this too. Also, an interesting crux I've been having in my state of mind between txting and meditating but I post more on that later. 

I've also noticed you're just not even.. listening to the girl. Something I've noticed before as well. Why aren't you more directly answering her questions and turning that into something fun? You're kinda going aspergers here. 

Does she go to school too?  hit her with the "study buddy" idea and tease her about that. Or you could have ran withe the spy frame and said you were Austin Powers in your spare time. If she seen Austin Powers, she would remember that Austin bangs all his spy sidekicks and competitors, BOOM.

Yeah, I don't know  exactly why I'm doing that. I have heard somewhere(perhaps here or somewhere else), that you don't have to answer every question a girl puts up, perhaps its a sign of having the upper hand in a convo. But, I think it was more me not wanting to go into boring interview/life resume mode. But, I see that you can answer these questions and make the convo fun too. I struggle with the grey area between being boring and coming too out of left field and not vibing with the girl.

She did respond back today.

Her: Are u a veterinary? :) there are a lot of puppies near u

I could respond something like..."Nah, just recruiting study buddies. I hear Ukrainians are great at doing my science homework :)"

No, but I do do some part-time puppy mentoring from time to time. No one knows the kibbles 'n bits struggle like I do #puglife 

I sent her that and I got no response. It was might have been too over the top, since I forgot to mention, English was not her first language, derp. I tried another more simple re-engage the next day and still no response. She may have just lost interest already.  I've given it 2 days and I'll leave a voice message tomorrow. 

I like what you said about listening. It's exactly what we went over at some point in training, except in field. At some point, whatever you represent is enough and you need to shut up, listen and appropriately respond. Often, I get so caught up in trying to shoot texts w "value" or persist w blatant alpha expression that it comes off as uncalibrated, and not even paying attention to the girl's expression.

Yeah, text game can be hard dude. Very easy to lose girls over text. I still lose girls in texting, things like that will def sink an already tenuous dynamic with a girl. It's why you don't want to be messing around too much you want to be getting her out asap.