Ultimatum style message
New here but starting to get some decent results from game, although my texting does still suck and I have lots of sticking points to push through.
Have seen this one British girl on two seperate occasions, and she only pecks me on the lips rather than making out. While I know I've pretty much failed to escalate etc and that I'm probably friendzoned, she keeps texting me and I'm not sure how to handle it.
I kinda just want to say to her "Fuck me or leave me alone" but obviously can't do that. She just texted me saying "Heya, how's it going?"
Anyone have a killer tactic to make it sexual and let her know i'm not going to put up with her stringly me along? While at the same time not being a complete dick.
Yes.. read this and post your thoughts/questions:
Awesome article, will definitely help me with escalation on a date and in set. The whole thing about relaxing and letting things happen and flow is great, most dates im sitting there planning my next move and trying to force myself to go for a makeout etc or i'll miss the window.
I've decided I'm not going on a date with this one again though so was hoping there was something beautifully worded I could send her via text to say something along the lines of "I'm a sexual threat and won't see you again unless you see me that way"
Btw Manwhore, i'm interested in your text game manual but your link says it's still on pre-order when I go to buy it. Is it actually available now?
Patty post more context for your first two dates and some snippets from your text convos. Yes I can help you craft a text to do that, but it's not going to be a "reactive" one.. it's going to be an effective one
Thanks for this!
Details lifted directly from my field reports:
1st date: Things seemed to be going well, was escalating and very physical the whole night. Conversation was quite sexual at times, she told me she loves sex and hasn't had it for a while, her friends gave her condoms when she was leaving for the date etc. and she spent over 5 hours with me. I went for the makeout and just got a peck on the lips and she said "cheeky, I don't kiss on a first date". So I don't know. Maybe that's her way of saying she's not interested, but then she was super touchy and flirty and knew why I was there. Or maybe I took too long to try a makeout - around the 4 hour mark. Or it was an ultimate shit test. But we got closer and closer physically as the night went on. At the end she kissed me on the cheek and said she'll see me after Christmas.
2nd date: 1st date pretty much the same as the 2nd. But this time I only went for the makeout right at the end of the night - I'm such a pussy. And I got just a single kiss, a peck like last time. I don't want to waste time on another date because I'm starting to think she might just like hanging out with me. She never stops talking, and she may just like having some chode to talk to and only has to 'reward' me by putting up with a small kiss each time.
Please see below for screenshots of some conversations. Upon review, they look like pretty terrible text game lol
Green messages are after th 1st date. Blue are after 2nd date.
Your physical escalation is UNBELIEVABLY terrible. That's what you need to fix. This is all on you, you carry the rhythm of the sexual escalation, not her. That's the first rule. The other thing I want to point out is you cannot get hung up on her lips.. that is only 2% of her body. You escalate all over her, not just keep bottlenecking her at her lips. This is not the little mermaid. Your sexual escalation should follow a grown man's rhythm.
You're right. It is pretty bad. That's not to say that I didn't touch her at all before trying to make out, there was a lot of small touches etc, but it is a huge sticking point - particularly on D2's.
My obsession with the lips probably stems from the fact that I never feel completely comfortable or that I've won the girl till a makeout has happened. Probably something I really need to work on too.