A very important aspect of becoming a man
I'm just starting to realize how real men undergo short periods of time that absolutely SUCK but are also absoutely necessary. It may be sports, school work, a job, etc. but there is no way to reach any sort of success without doing shit that isn't fun.
I've been avioiding this truth for a while now, trying to convince myself that it couldn't be true, but it's just not the case.
It's absolutely true. It's the essence of the old "Coming of Age" rituals
It's pretty cool that you realize that dude. I'm 27 but around 21-22ish was SO SO rough. I won't go into details, I will say I was arrested at one point and spent 3 nights in jail, because I had no job and couldn't pay a $200 ticket. I reverted to a really chodey state cuz I wasn't in college anymore, and I hadn't had to learn some CORE lessons yet. Haha, talking about it is almost like talking about some alternate reality. But it got to the point where growing from boy to man was a "DO or DIE" situation.
So yeah, that's why this forum kicks a lot of ass. You've got Manwhore and a bunch of dudes on the same path to help you through it.
It's pretty cool that you realize that dude. I'm 27 but around 21-22ish was SO SO rough. I won't go into details, I will say I was arrested at one point and spent 3 nights in jail, because I had no job and couldn't pay a $200 ticket. I reverted to a really chodey state cuz I wasn't in college anymore, and I hadn't had to learn some CORE lessons yet. Haha, talking about it is almost like talking about some alternate reality. But it got to the point where growing from boy to man was a "DO or DIE" situation.So yeah, that's why this forum kicks a lot of ass. You've got Manwhore and a bunch of dudes on the same path to help you through it.
Yeah I definitely wouldn't have made this realization without Manwhore and the forum :)
I'm glad that I learned it now, rather than having to go through something traumatic as you experienced.
You can speed the process up by dedicated yourself though. The game is like dealing with a million band-aids attached to your hairy arms...rip them fuckers off or slowly pull each follicle out over mutliple years and never reach your potential