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Was thinking what the effect would be if in set you highly limited "I statements.

Two completely different conversation emotional baselines:

Hi, I had to say high cuz I think your really cute.

I want to get out of here, come with.

What's with your friend, I think she's annoying.

Compared to:

Hi, Your really cute.

We're getting out of here, come on.

What's with your friend, she's annoying.

So much more direct.

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Yep that's one of those

Yep that's one of those intricacies. But you can't go so black 'n white. There's a time and place for both, and maybe at the same time. 

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Right, Gotta have a combo of

Right,

Gotta have a combo of being vulnerable and just telling it how it is. But i never thought about how significantly that word can shape things.

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Enlightenment consciously chosen means to relinquish your attachment to past and future and to make the Now the main focus of your life.  Through allowing, you become what you are: vast, spacious. You become whole. You are not a fragment anymore, which is how the ego perceives itself. Your true nature emerges, which is one with the nature of God"
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I have. ;) 

I have. ;) 

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