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Trying to improve my charisma, social skills and make myself a more likeable person. What are some things that helped you guys? 

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Most people treat it as a

Most people treat it as a lifelong process mang. Things like leadership training, military service, long-term improv, acting lessons, long-term toastmasters. 

Btw my coaching program trains this specifically

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I should probably look into

I should probably look into improv and do some one on one acting training! 

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Manwhore wrote: Most people

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Most people treat it as a lifelong process mang. Things like leadership training, military service, long-term improv, acting lessons, long-term toastmasters. 

 

sounds like you have direct experience with all of the above?  

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patrick.bateman wrote: I

patrick.bateman wrote:
I should probably look into improv and do some one on one acting training! 

improv always looked so useful. I've thought about it before maybe i'll give it a try.  

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Any tips on becoming a better

Any tips on becoming a better conversationalist? And i'm not only talking about girls, but with ALL people. 

I have the advantage of having good humour and have learnt some stuff from cold approaching and game but say i'm at a dinner at a friends house and sitting next to her mom or something. In these situations i'm probably not the best convesationalist...

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My training program deals

My training program deals specifically with this. It kicks your conversational skills into high gear. Dudes try to tell me "But Mw I'm an introvert!" Doesn't matter

It's verbal drills based on cognitive behavioral therapy and military training. Years of development dude. There is nothing even close out there

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I guess i shouldn't ask too

I guess i shouldn't ask too much if im not doing the training, which i can't afford right now.

But yeah i agree it is really a skill. I'm no introvert i was very outgoing as a kid but then i simply spent a lot of time by myself from when i was 10 years old to about 16 years old so my social skills declined totally. I'm good now but could do much better.

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The best thing out there

The best thing out there right now that's high level and free or pretty damn close to it is toastmasters. I also used to love telling jokes. To everybody but definitely girls. I'd use dirty but entertaining jokes and practice projecting sexual energy onto them while telling them. The girls would get visibly turned on if delivered correctly and most of the time they weren't even aware it was happening. ;) 

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- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)

- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male

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Manwhore wrote: The best

Manwhore wrote:
The best thing out there right now that's high level and free or pretty damn close to it is toastmasters. I also used to love telling jokes. To everybody but definitely girls. I'd use dirty but entertaining jokes and practice projecting sexual energy onto them while telling them. The girls would get visibly turned on if delivered correctly and most of the time they weren't even aware it was happening. ;) 

Yeah dirty sexual jokes too! Not only to game but also with female friends because they're hilarious lol. How do you project that sexual energy onto them though?

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Tonality and feeling the

Papaya...Through vocal tonality and feeling the sexuality yourself.

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There's more to it than that

There's more to it than that but that's a fantastic start. You want to accentuate certain parts, demonstrate certain parts ;), push the vibe onto them at certain parts, etc.

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Being more invested in your

Being more invested in your truth vs trying to manage the impression you're making as a baseline (being real, being unattached to the outcome, being congruent)

+conviction +empathy + self amusement + self expression

I'm good at this and sometimes not. Key to consistency I'm find is not tying my sense of self based on the high or low I'm at, at any particular point. This chips away also the habit of coming from "I'm not enough but if I can do this properly then I'll eventually be good enough in the future"

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Very good ^. Most guys would

Very good ^. Most guys would attribute that to being some kind of bullshit abstract "inner game" woo woo, but if you really scrutinize what that means while interacting with other people you realize it's the keys to setting yourself free. 

In fact "Elite Game" is in essence simply finding more and more ways of expressing yourself in all its bizarre intricacies and weirdness ;). I like to call it "masculine flamboyance" 

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I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student

- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)

- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male

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