What could I have done different here?
-Girl from class. Super sexy. I see her at least once a week
(We have a lot of texts before this, mainly school related)
(Exchanging pics of our cats. its not as gay as it sounds)
Girl: Awww :) let me see her spot where she licked herself!
Me - 6 mins later: Cute kitty btw
Girl - 1 min later: Oh yikes! Ouch that looks painful
Me - 13 mins later: Ya she just gets super neurotic sometimes. Then I have to calm her down and remind her shes just a cat and other less fortunate cats have it so much worse
Me: Whatchu getting into tonight
Girl - 3 mins later: Hahahhaha awe thats so sweet of you lol and not crap bc i work tmo morning :(
Me - 6 mins later: Same here, working on saturdays is such draag. I try to make the most of my fri nights tho, you know, bc yolo. Do you live in (city)?
Girl - 27 mins later: Hahah i usually dont. Im lame lol. Im already in my pjs lol and yes i do. Do u?
Me - 19 mins later: Naw I commute from (city). Im at lib right now tho trying to do some quizzes before it closes cause my comp is being whack. See I told u my fri nights were craazy
Girl: Hahahah that does sound wild. Way to wild for me
Me - 1 hr 7 mins later: Ya they go hard here. Last call is at 8 theyre already turning the lights off n shit. God I feel like such a badass rn
Me - 10 mins later: You wanna chill for a bit? Not trying to do anything too crazy tonight ill prob head home in like a couple hrs
Girl - 6 mins later: Awe i would but honest to goodness im already in my pjs lol. I gta be up at 5:30 for work!
Me - 5 mins later: Oh shit thats super early! I feel ya. Go to sleep lil baby. (got this from MW, i think its hilarious)
Girl - 32 mins later: Hahhaha sorry! Rain check!
-So shes at her place in her pj's, but has to get up early for work = available? I didnt want to push too hard since i see her on the reg
-Maybe could have been more creative than "wanna chill?"
-I like the vibe we have, much more so than other girls im seeing. Any thoughts on how to do this next time? Any advice is appreciated
Do you know if this girl's into you or not? What's her relationship status.
Yeah she likes me. She verbalized the idea of us hanging out last time we talked. Maybe she wants to get to know me better before inviting me over to her place? But def not in a committed relationship, she has had opportunities to bring it up and so far nothing. I wouldnt be surprised if SOMEONE was sleeping w her though, shes hot
Aight so you want to start hinting at meetup ideas and gauge receptivity. I'd start challenging her on stuff and see how she responds. Bring up plans that could involve hanging out. E.g. "You seem like you suck at beer pong, don't worry I'm non-judgmental" or "I bet you pee yourself watching scary movies. It's cool we can still be friends"
End up getting a drink with super hot girl. We talk alot, cover ALL bases. It was really eye opening hearing about the life of a super attractive chick. Dudes constantly hitting her up. Crazy ex boyfriends who are super into drugs. Telling me about her sex life. It was clear she just had so much more experience in life than i did (shes about 4 yrs older). We end up having abt 6 drinks and we have a cute lil make out sesh before we part ways. Im not reading too much into it, in fact I thought it was kinda gay haha. But I still am gonna see her on the reg bc of class. I feel like just playing this one cool, meaning not actively "gaming" her too hard. She just got out of a 1 1/2 year relationship and has been single for like 3 months. This is one I feel just needs to be played by ear. Or maybe I could get somewhere by being a little more aggresive. Any advice welcome
Yes my advice is that you are a huge faggot pussy. Read this as many times as you need to: http://manwhore.org/howtodatea10/ and then slap yourself in the back of the head repeatedly.
Haha. I agree though. Its time to get some coaching
You should be pretty angry with yourself right now. You were intimidated by a girl and wouldn't fuck her? And LAME-O was his name-o!
No, DEFINITLEY not intimidated. None of the crazy shit she was telling me was phasing me. I had just never heard a girl be so honest and open w me that quick before. The fact that she was shows that she felt comfortable around me anyways. She wouldnt have been that open if we didnt have a good vibe going. It was cool, I got to tell her my stories too, like the one time a middle aged woman did coke off my dick in a club bathroom.
Of course its lame I didnt pull the trigger at the end of the night, but it was more like what you were talking about in that "How to game a 10" lay report. You went through the same thing, and you ended up fucking her eventually. Thats the way I look at it, it going to happen its just a matter of time (and logistics).
i just read MW's article and I looked at your side of this Jack and what I am thinking is this:
"waiting for the right time" is a great way to lt an opportunity slip by. Pull the trigger and create the moment. That "right time" is when you finally create it.
And when the girl is being super open to you like that she is also metaphysically opening her vaginal walls to be ravaged.
Self disclosure is one of the quickest/strongest ways to create intamacy, the next best way is to plow her.
but its all chill. honestly I have done this tons of times and you can totally pull through still , but if you just imagine her as no big deal your Mortal Kombat game will be a lot mroe McJagger.
'k. We'll see ;)