What do you text the girl on the day you're meeting up
For me, I've always done this
me: Hey you still up for drinks tn
And honestly, it works incredibly well.
It has the possibility that you're up in the air, or not fully committed. Plus it also tells the girl that you're not just gonna assume that it's set in stone. So it shows understanding of women.
Try it and see how it works and share your preferences.
That's also a lot better than
me: Hey we still on for drinks
Because that's like giving the girl too much power. It's a very slight difference but
me: Hey you still up for drinkgs tn
is much more effective
Yeah totally on the money. Those little nuances really become clear
Once you have your framework down, for the most part, that is all game is, is subtleties. It is your flavor.
This isn't flavor this is something a bit deeper.
By that do you mean that it creates a little bit of separation since you sound less committed had you just asked her without the tn? That slight separation has a tone of higher value to it which results in more attraction than if he had sounded more committed to her without the tn
By that do you mean that it creates a little bit of separation since you sound less committed had you just asked her without the tn? That slight separation has a tone of higher value to it which results in more attraction than if he had sounded more committed to her without the tn
No, it's not about the 'tn'
It's about the
we still on for drinks vs. you still up for drinks.
The first one you're giving her control, by saying 'WE'... You're basically leaving fate up to her in the way you use we.
The second one is just seeing if she's up for it. It doesn't effect your night. It has the style that if she says no, you'll still be fine.
If a guy really wants something to happen and go on, it's doubtful he will say 'hey you still up for drinks'. He'll probably not do that.
oh, okay, the subtleties are salivating! *drool*
Thank you, man, cool shit
Bump.
Testing balls.