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What do you text the girl on the day you're meeting up

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For me, I've always done this

me: Hey you still up for drinks tn 

And honestly, it works incredibly well. 

It has the possibility that you're up in the air, or not fully committed. Plus it also tells the girl that you're not just gonna assume that it's set in stone. So it shows understanding of women. 

Try it and see how it works and share your preferences. 

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That's also a lot better

That's also a lot better than 

me: Hey we still on for drinks 

Because that's like giving the girl too much power. It's a very slight difference but 

me: Hey you still up for drinkgs tn

is much more effective 

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Yeah totally on the money.

Yeah totally on the money. Those little nuances really become clear 

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Schmutleties

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This isn't flavor this is

This isn't flavor this is something a bit deeper.

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By that do you mean that it creates a little bit of separation since you sound less committed had you just asked her without the tn?  That slight separation has a tone of higher value to it which results in more attraction than if he had sounded more committed  to her without the tn

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Story wrote: By that do you

Story wrote:
By that do you mean that it creates a little bit of separation since you sound less committed had you just asked her without the tn?  That slight separation has a tone of higher value to it which results in more attraction than if he had sounded more committed  to her without the tn

No, it's not about the 'tn'

It's about the 

we still on for drinks vs. you still up for drinks.

The first one you're giving her control, by saying 'WE'... You're basically leaving fate up to her in the way you use we.

The second one is just seeing if she's up for it. It doesn't effect your night. It has the style that if she says no, you'll still be fine. 

If a guy really wants something to happen and go on, it's doubtful he will say 'hey you still up for drinks'. He'll probably not do that.  

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oh, okay, the subtleties are

oh, okay, the subtleties are salivating! *drool*

Thank you, man, cool shit 

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Bump. 

Bump. 

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Testing balls. 

Testing balls.