What happens when you're not aware of game dynamics.
Mon, 07/16/2012 - 05:49
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CJ2Ai_Or-40&feature=related
And this is fucking tupac right here. Inevitably tupac got a lot of game because of his life, but imagine the mentality of everyone else that isn't tupac.
And this is fucking tupac right here. Inevitably tupac got a lot of game because of his life, but imagine the mentality of everyone else that isn't tupac.
Mon, 07/16/2012 - 06:40
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Re: What happens when you're not aware of game dynamics.
@Magician:
Interesting video. Also got to understand tho that it's also reflective of his current mood/mode. So even though he's talking mad shit on women in that particular video, it doesn't actually define him as a person. A couple days after that he might have been in a softer mood and interacting with women, and ATTRACTING a different kind of woman, or a different type of BEHAVIOR from women, based on that mood.
Interesting video. Also got to understand tho that it's also reflective of his current mood/mode. So even though he's talking mad shit on women in that particular video, it doesn't actually define him as a person. A couple days after that he might have been in a softer mood and interacting with women, and ATTRACTING a different kind of woman, or a different type of BEHAVIOR from women, based on that mood.
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Mon, 07/16/2012 - 09:53
#2
Re: What happens when you're not aware of game dynamics.
@Manwhore:
Yh, Pac in particular was a high strung dude - his emotions could flip easily so he doesn't fall into the bracket as one of those 'centered' guys we at RSD strive to be. His theatrics and big personality is what made him appealing; it also got him into a lot of trouble, and just like a female he got addicted to his own star appeal and always wanted to stay relevant. He had some unresolved self esteem issues when you dig deeper into his background; so he didn't have the tools or knowledge that we have to actively meditate on our problems, stay cool and always focus on the now ya know. Plus he went thru a lot of changes when he joined Death Row; he became A LOT more militant and wanted to prove himself as a overly masculine gangsta rapper. Remember the rule: you are the average of the five people you hang around with most? Well he was fuckin with notorious thugs like Suge Knight who was bound to influence his views on life given his malleable type of personality. Solid dude in other respects though.
Yh, Pac in particular was a high strung dude - his emotions could flip easily so he doesn't fall into the bracket as one of those 'centered' guys we at RSD strive to be. His theatrics and big personality is what made him appealing; it also got him into a lot of trouble, and just like a female he got addicted to his own star appeal and always wanted to stay relevant. He had some unresolved self esteem issues when you dig deeper into his background; so he didn't have the tools or knowledge that we have to actively meditate on our problems, stay cool and always focus on the now ya know. Plus he went thru a lot of changes when he joined Death Row; he became A LOT more militant and wanted to prove himself as a overly masculine gangsta rapper. Remember the rule: you are the average of the five people you hang around with most? Well he was fuckin with notorious thugs like Suge Knight who was bound to influence his views on life given his malleable type of personality. Solid dude in other respects though.
Mon, 07/16/2012 - 10:03
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Re: What happens when you're not aware of game dynamics.
@Gogo:
It's interesting right... like at rsd, you're totally right... There's this push to be "centered"... but at the same time- NOT being centered... but simaltaneously having the understanding about yourself and KNOWING you are not centered, and being able to be present and observe yourself when you're not centered, is almost a gift... simply in the sense that when you're "high"- You can do some pretty crazy shit and influence people in ways that people who never get that emotionally, "High" just may not be able to understand (or have to work really really hard to get)... and then when you're "low"... it's sorta just like, you kinda understand it and it doesn't have as much control over you.
Like tyler mentioned in his most recent video- that book about how some of the world's most important leaders of all time, we're manic dudes who simply understood how to push through their own depression... and then, because they were able to push through that depression, it actually made them who they were, and is partially what allowed them to be such amazing leaders.
It's interesting right... like at rsd, you're totally right... There's this push to be "centered"... but at the same time- NOT being centered... but simaltaneously having the understanding about yourself and KNOWING you are not centered, and being able to be present and observe yourself when you're not centered, is almost a gift... simply in the sense that when you're "high"- You can do some pretty crazy shit and influence people in ways that people who never get that emotionally, "High" just may not be able to understand (or have to work really really hard to get)... and then when you're "low"... it's sorta just like, you kinda understand it and it doesn't have as much control over you.
Like tyler mentioned in his most recent video- that book about how some of the world's most important leaders of all time, we're manic dudes who simply understood how to push through their own depression... and then, because they were able to push through that depression, it actually made them who they were, and is partially what allowed them to be such amazing leaders.
Mon, 07/16/2012 - 10:14
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Re: What happens when you're not aware of game dynamics.
@buddhagames:
I think one of the main issues with most manic people is that they just never get to a point where they"understand" themselves, on almost ANY level...
Also- a lot of manic dudes, are probably the same guys convincing people to go kill themselves in their name... because it's really easy to fall into that "narcissistic" trap when you're in one of those super super "high" moods because, it literally feels like your invincible and "different" and "above it all"...
Which actually is INSNAELY potent for game and dealing with people.... As long as you understand it and don't get caught up in it, and have a more "core" understanding of who you are and what you stand for.
I guess what I'm saying is that, no matter what the cards are that you've been dealt with in life, you just gotta accept it and embrace it and view it as a gift and use your gifts to the best of your ability and in a way that is in line with how you want to live your life.
I think one of the main issues with most manic people is that they just never get to a point where they"understand" themselves, on almost ANY level...
Also- a lot of manic dudes, are probably the same guys convincing people to go kill themselves in their name... because it's really easy to fall into that "narcissistic" trap when you're in one of those super super "high" moods because, it literally feels like your invincible and "different" and "above it all"...
Which actually is INSNAELY potent for game and dealing with people.... As long as you understand it and don't get caught up in it, and have a more "core" understanding of who you are and what you stand for.
I guess what I'm saying is that, no matter what the cards are that you've been dealt with in life, you just gotta accept it and embrace it and view it as a gift and use your gifts to the best of your ability and in a way that is in line with how you want to live your life.
Mon, 07/16/2012 - 21:54
#5
Re: What happens when you're not aware of game dynamics.
@Gogo:
lmao- I was sleepy last night and posted some ramblings...
But, more on point with this post- it was an interesting video...
And I think what manwhore said is great- it just goes back to that idea that we all have a RANGE of who we are and we need to develop the ability to be comfortable with the ENTIRETY of that range, so that we can move throughout that range, effortlessly and without resisting it.
It's just another level of accepting the totality of who you are.
lmao- I was sleepy last night and posted some ramblings...
But, more on point with this post- it was an interesting video...
And I think what manwhore said is great- it just goes back to that idea that we all have a RANGE of who we are and we need to develop the ability to be comfortable with the ENTIRETY of that range, so that we can move throughout that range, effortlessly and without resisting it.
It's just another level of accepting the totality of who you are.
Mon, 07/16/2012 - 23:33
#6
Re: What happens when you're not aware of game dynamics.
@buddhagames:
Yeah just think if someone posted a small 30 sec clip of us 3-5 years ago especially if we were in our late teens then. And then added a clip of us years later expressing a range of our personality. Like someone sees me at a bar tooling out guys and dicking around and thinks I'm a twat but doesn't see me later meditating and cuddling with my cherish, telling her how special she is. It might be fine to video tape a chode his entire life and you won't see anything shocking but that's because he doesn't take action and is lame. Rather I think of myself who is early in actualizing myself but I changed immensely over the past 3 years and gained a greater range of expression.
Cool video but doesn't mean tupac hated women or anything. He was probably just expressing how he saw the Rachet bitches who dig for gold in his and his friends pensises.
Yeah just think if someone posted a small 30 sec clip of us 3-5 years ago especially if we were in our late teens then. And then added a clip of us years later expressing a range of our personality. Like someone sees me at a bar tooling out guys and dicking around and thinks I'm a twat but doesn't see me later meditating and cuddling with my cherish, telling her how special she is. It might be fine to video tape a chode his entire life and you won't see anything shocking but that's because he doesn't take action and is lame. Rather I think of myself who is early in actualizing myself but I changed immensely over the past 3 years and gained a greater range of expression.
Cool video but doesn't mean tupac hated women or anything. He was probably just expressing how he saw the Rachet bitches who dig for gold in his and his friends pensises.