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Met this girl and we started texting. She started asking me question about my job and I said we should talk in person.

She said "We should. I'm going out with friends tonight, but let me if you're free soon." This text was sent around 10 PM friday.

Then on saturday I texted her "how about brunch tomorrow?" this was at 7 PM on Saturday (yesterday).

I didn't get a response. So this morning I sent her a text "Good morning, how are you". Still no response.

I don't understand where I'm fucking up here. Did I say something wrong? Was it my timing? What the hell am I doing wrong?
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Re: What the hell am I doing wrong?
Yes dude your timing is horrible. You waited 21 hrs to respond to an invite. To me the convo actually looks mildly retarded. That probably means something
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Re: What the hell am I doing wrong?
Manwhore;1510.10006;5 wrote:
Yes dude your timing is horrible. You waited 21 hrs to respond to an invite. To me the convo actually looks mildly retarded. That probably means something


Lol. Interesting interpretation here.
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Re: What the hell am I doing wrong?
@beargrizz:

Right, okay, so manwhore pointed out the first thing you did wrong.

Going deeper- you also fucking sent her a text, got no response and then YOUR VERY NEXT TEXT was leeching value

If you send a text like "let's grab drinks tomorrow" and then you don't get a response... you're next text can NOT be TAKING value... you HAVE to ADD value after that shit homy... this is basic stuff
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Re: What the hell am I doing wrong?
@buddhagames:

It's similar to in-person game.

If you go for compliance and she doesn't give it and it's a REAL "no"... you CANT pull after that... you have to push or at the very least be neutral

You gotta make her feel shittier when she doesn't comply with you than when she does... but not by being a "dick"... lol it's an art for sure

Think of it this way: When you flake on a girl and then the very next day she sends you a text begging you to come over.. .as dick as it may seem... that shit makes you feel good... it makes you feel in control... you feel amazing.

BUT

If you flake on a girl and then she doesn't text you and then when you DO text her she's like, "No... you were a dick and flaked"... It's a slap in the face. But it's fair

You want to be that fair slap in the face.
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