Whats the best way to handle this?

Met a chick at a club, danced and kissed closed.

Praciting my text game, had her drive 1 hr to my pad and hang out last week, made out and cuddle. No sexy time.

Made plans to take her out but she reschedule for Friday bc her granma passed away and was having the funeral. (<------legit bc we talked about it when we hanged out).

Date day comes in, I'm suppose to pick her up but she has been ignoring me all day.

Best way to text her my disapproval in a playful way?

me: Lets do something fun!   The Hobbit 3 is coming out tomorrow ;)  I'll go to you, you get the popcorn ill get the tickets

her: Hey :)  when?

me: Tomorrow it starts at 9:30pm, ill pick u up, wear sweatpants :p

her: i can't tomorrow due to funeral but Friday yes.

me: i'll pick you up Friday :)

her: Ok sounds good!

(2 days later)

me: Hey beb, I want you ready before 9:30pm, I'm pickin u up :)

So up to this point is where she never replied and This has been a big sticking point.  this is the point where I usually go radio silent on a girl. 

I dont know how to handle this .

Advice?