When do girls start re engaging you?
At what point do girls starting re engaging you over text? I understand its impossible to be specific here but has anyone noticed some kind of pattern? Ive got a girl who ive hung out with 3 times(havnt fucked) and I know shes attracted to me but she will never re engage me over text and Im 100% sure that if I didnt txt her again the relationship would just end. Its kinda annoying that girls have to hide their interest so much and will never risk looking desperate by texting the guy.
So just wondering If you guys have noticed some sort of pattern and if any of you guys have multiple girls blowing up your phone on the reg?
Im also talking strictly about girls youve met from cold approach. I think social circle is quite different.
You're probably not pushing enough or validating too much. Got any examples of a recent convo?
The he girls I'm usually the least receptive to usually reengage the most. Why? Because they have guys double and triple texting that don't know fuck all what they're doing. So when I don't respond to them or decline to hang out because I have better plans, they realize I'm a catch and start hitting me up.
Hmm yeh Im pretty hit hit hit with these girls. Like i dont really give them much room to re engage but thats because my belief is that they wont.
Ive posted two recent conversations in this thread
http://manwhore.org/forum/content/text-conversation-so-close-nope
I believe it depends on the girl's personality and beliefs but with that aside is also how much she is emotionally invested in you.
Yeah there's some deeper stuff going on here as well as what I mentioned. You send a lot of texts that you realize are bad after the fact and then have to make up for it. I'm sure te girl knows this too. My advice would be to be more sexual/playful and go for the meetup earlier but do it in a smoother way. Like, when the lap dance convo started tell her you need to see her dance first to see if she's coachable or that you charge a fee but the first lesson is free.
Stop bringing up the same threads constantly, especially ones that emasculate you. Telling a girl you're Virginia is funny once because it's self deprecating but if you do it over and over its human tendency to start believing it's true. In her mind, you told her you were a virgin then pushed pretty hard for sex but didn't get it. Then you kept bringing up the virgin thing and it comes off as butthurt and weird. Follow me?
Overall, you just need to make some slight mental tweaks here and there. Once you get it handled you'll be solid. Just remember you're the prize.
Nice g money I have to agree with everything you said. The fact that she even has to ask if im serious about being a virgin is a pretty solid indicator that im doing something wrong there.
Good shit G-Money.
Trick part of the reason why you're hoping for a girl to reengage you is the same reason why you're hanging out with these girls three times and not getting laid. You're looking for approval/validation. Got to get past that shit. Geezez. Same issues coming up in your texting according to G-Money
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