When girls open you with boring messages (Online dating)
What is your go to frame? When you get messages like "Hi" or "hey", it corners you into chasing them. If you just give boring replies back, it dies out. Is this some sort of wizardry?
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That's completely not true. That's a come on. I'd just hit her up with "What's going on what are you up to." If she's boring and it dies out so be it. Are they hotties or something?
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
That's completely not true. That's a come on. I'd just hit her up with "What's going on what are you up to." If she's boring and it dies out so be it. Are they hotties or something?
Yeah, I try a similar route with 6-7s and it works. With the hotties not so much. This particular one was a latina model with huge tits from UCLA. I jokingly accused her of being a catfish and she went radio silent. lol.
Well there's your mistake right there dude. Calling a girl a catfish is nevet a good idea
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Well there's your mistake right there dude. Calling a girl a catfish is nevet a good idea
Yeah I noticed that now. lol. Anyways this girl did end up replying, and I failed miserably within 4 messages. This girl was also a stunner so there's probably a tiny margin for error.
Let's take a look..
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
lol , the last msg from me was a bad random attempt at getting a reaction
oh gawd this is horrible! This conversation just seems so singular. Like you have go to lines that you're just trying to use, instead of just creating a fun vibe with the girl
BAM
Stop being a robotic texter
ANd I don't understand this 'hi' or 'hey' opening message issue!
Like if the girl is hitting you up first, she's already invested mang. That just means she doesn't want to put herseft too much out there. SHe wants u to do the work
So yeah you can just respond with
her: hi
me: yo! how's the night treating you
her: not too bad, hbu?
me: Just in bed, eating icecream and watching netflix! I'm so over this whole 'going out thing'
Boom, now you have pushed the conversation into the right place. You've shown her your personality and pushed your frame on. So she will tend to open up and you can create a fun dynamic
Solid advice above, bro
good lookin on the reply bro. I agree this one was horrible.
1. I really did think it was a catfish at first, before I saw the proof.
2. Yeah, I probably have to tone it down in these situations. I'm not really used to these vibes where I start with no momentum, unless they're super invested. I need to find a happy medium where I'm not the "screening" disinterested guy (because girls like these know you're bullshitting) and the try-hard gaming guy that ends up chasing when she opened you first.
Next time I'm trying the friendly guy frame you described. I just have to make sure to switch it to man to woman at the right moment.