When she starts flirting with other dudes to piss you off...
...you game the dude talking to her, you walk up to them give him a "wassup bro!!!" and give him a big high five
I just realized how awesome this is
of course you gotta sorta know this guy, so it works at social circle parties
^^Uhhh no you don't. You would just need to project harder than them
but yeah great move, ignore the girl and "game the wall"
lol Id just ignore the guy from the get-go, walk up behind the chick and grab her and give her a hug from behind. She'll start giggling and then you've taken back that attention, and slide off the hug, put your arm around her a bit and then smile//laugh and you can high-five the dude at that point
I do this shit all the fuckin time in bars/./clubs- the cool part is that you don't even have to know the chick that well.... you just gotta come in vibin and enjoying yourself.
This happened to me the other weekend. The chick i went to the club with was lettin some dude kinda dance on her. I got sick of it so I made it my mission to pull in front of her. Long story short she sees me leaving the club half n hour later holding hands with a sexy young girl I quickly picked up. The look on this chicks face was priceless. Oh and I took the girl home and finished the deal aswell.
Still not sure if that was the best thing I could have done but I didnt really feel like fighting for the original girl I came with.
This happened to me the other weekend. The chick i went to the club with was lettin some dude kinda dance on her. I got sick of it so I made it my mission to pull in front of her. Long story short she sees me leaving the club half n hour later holding hands with a sexy young girl I quickly picked up. The look on this chicks face was priceless. Oh and I took the girl home and finished the deal aswell.Still not sure if that was the best thing I could have done but I didnt really feel like fighting for the original girl I came with.
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Yeah why is a girl flirting with other dudes in front of you? This was something I was going to bring up on the teleconference before I had to get laid down for a nap after my baba, but you've posted up quite a few threads recently that are telling me you're having quite a different experience than what we first thought was the problem.
Who is this girl what's the context?
Oh, yeah that's a good call Manwhore.
On that note- I don't know a lot about you Meow, but I get this vibe that you kinda antagonize chicks more than you need to. Like you have kinda a combative vibe with them (which has its place) but yeah seems like you create a competition or a negative frame battle, unnecessarily a lot, which can easliy lead to this sort of thing..
Thoughts?
Yeah, Tyler's new video talks about this. Since you dealt with a lot of negative emotions and rejection in the past from girls, you may enter interactions with them on guard or defensive, which in turn completes the self fulfilling prophecy.
These girls are bitches > Enter defensively or too offensively > Girls are bitchy to you
Yeah. Does anyone remember the locker room scene in She's All That. Between Freddie Prinze Jr. and Paul Walker?
It's not just with girls.
Yeah. Does anyone remember the locker room scene in She's All That. Between Freddie Prinze Jr. and Paul Walker?
never saw it. I'll check it out.
i know I'm about 19 years late but I watched The Usual Suspects the other night. What a mindfuck. Gotta be in my top 5 all time
Yeah why is a girl flirting with other dudes in front of you? This was something I was going to bring up on the teleconference before I had to get laid down for a nap after my baba, but you've posted up quite a few threads recently that are telling me you're having quite a different experience than what we first thought was the problem. Who is this girl what's the context?
Well yeah it is a different problem. I'm frame battling too much, and introducing too much negativity. I've been an over the top aloof douchebag lol and it's biting me in the ass.
I guess the flirting in front of me thing is somewhat justified cuz im not validating enough to even claim her as mine. And maybe me gaming the dude to spite her is just another example of that.
I don't think this is was bad path to go down, I needed to really cut myself off from the girls and get over their emotions and reactions and worry about mine, but it's defintely time to scale it back.
It was that chick from my last text convo. I invited her and her crew to my buddies house party. And I fuckin fight with al of them I think they are the rudest group of girls I ave ever met. Then I started to realize that i'm just as rude to them as they are to me, and its my job to lead the interaction into positivity. Anyways, I got the chick upstairs for a second (her friend needed toilet paper or some shit) and she pretty much ran away from me.