Who Says "Nice Guys" Don't get Laid!

Yep, you won't be banging her for much longer. LOL. Just kidding. Yeah, but remember it's the icing not the cake. 

I think the REAL shit we gotta be discussing is when the fuck did it become "not nice" to sack up and take what you want. 

I'm an incredibly nice guy, but I also am ruthless as fuck in-field. I can also be super chilled and laid back, and almost look like I'm just floating around. 

But the thing is..... None of this has anything to do with me being.... nice?

Confidence doesn't waivor. I'm not afraid to bring others up, because this isn't "Me vs. Them"- there is no possibility of bringing others up "Beyond where I'm at".... it just doesn't make sense. 

People want to justify themselves to us. They want to validate themselves to us, and just think a lot of times we don't let them, because somehow we're afraid that the very thing others want approval for, are somehow attempts by others to "Overtake us"

So, "Being Nice"- as society sees it is just "Lacking Confidence". Infact, in the same way that society shits on the "nice guy" so often, I really feel like we should be shitting on the "insecure dick"- they are two sides of the same coin. Two people who are insecure and simply overcompensating in the way that makes sense for them, based on their habitual patterns, and their childhood. 

You think her saying that should be a "red flag" for me to kinda check myself with?

I know you said you were kidding, but maybe I didn't take head of that comment enough..

The thing is I haven't done anything to be nice....  Like I wouldn't even know what more to be a "dick" about without like "going out of my way" to be a dick... and that just seems stupid.

Like I'm commanding with her, and tell her to do shit when appropriate and am real dominant physically with her, especially in bed. 

I just don't make an active effort to be a dick to her- like I poke fun at her, but it's always in silly//funny ways where like she gets buthurt for like 20 seconds and then just tells me she hates me 

I think you're doing fine ;) 

Yeah I hear ya though

I guess it's tough- cause you don't want to give guys the wrong impression.

Like I think this is more of  a "me" thing, cause I've always been such a fuckin insecure dick, sometimes so it's just wild to see the other side of the coin. Same thing with ice-queen girlie from a couple days ago.... like she just wants to rape me (literally... she texted me and said she'd rape me if I was in her bed and said no) and yet she also told me "You're a good guy" (which is, admittedly, different than "nice" guy)

But probably for the majority of dudes, yeah, you might need to lean the other direciton. 

Maybe your just really nice deep down inside and she sees you for what your are.  LMAO.  Just Kidding man.  

In all honesty I think societies and more importantly woman's view on the "nice guy" was just a good choice of words used to describe a pussy.  Really a nice guy / good guy is not someone who is used by others or seeks validation from them.  A nice guy doesn;t allow people to berate or step on them and doesn't need to justify his behavior are be a white knight.  

Its funny because the media as well as woman destroyed the term nice guy and are hypocrites because it would just make them look bad using the words that they really want to use.  Woman like nice guys but what they don't like is saying :  "I dont like guys who are a pussy"

"I don't like guys that are a bitch",  " I don't like guys that need me for emotional support", "I don't like guys that do everything for me",  "I don't like guys who are overly needy"

The above is really what was meant to be used turned into  "I don't like nice guys"

Its not about being nice,  its about not being a pussy ass bitch.   If you term it that way then I think this honesty is what will wake some guys up as well as change the whole identity of being a nice guy.  Nice guys who get laid alot probably get alota shit for this and always have to defend themselves saying, "wait dumbass I get laid, wtf are you talking about"

Nice guy with boundaries

Asshole who can show affection

Different spectrums.  Same end place

agreed

I thought nice guy meant weak and pathetic, but good guy is what you're refering to. Being attractive and masculine while not being a complete scumbag

I've recently been called both..

Oh dude look some guy already wrote an article on this.. http://manwhore.org/howtobeaniceguy/

This just blew my mind