Why I Could Pull 3 -5 Times A Month But I Couldn't Get A Date

Very simple.

It all comes down to inner game. I simply was coming from the wrong frame with my texts. I didn't believe I was enough when it came to texting and the more I think about it and look at my old text examples and even some of my new examples the more I'm like "damn you are trying to impress way too hard with this flashy bs". The buyer/seller dynamic was fucked up hence why I was doing shit wrong for the longest. Now when I text all I'm going to look at is frames. Frames. Frames. Shit i never really understood while i was learning game.

Like everyone on here was like god damn - what the fuck - why is there such a wide disparity between your in-field and text game? why does it suck so bad? I was looking at the outer game of text game if anything (just simply looking at the lines) and not really understanding the frames. I'm able to intuitively read this shit in field because my game is really active.

Girls that really like me enjoy my fucked up sense of humor/intensity so I need to apply the same personality to my text game. Also lacking was freedom of outcome and persistence. I can be persistent in-field and I've built up my freedom of outcome over the past year.

It really hit home for me on Saturday night. It really fuckin hit home where I was like "god damn just tighten up your text game". I randomly ran into a girl I absolutely loved (I only long-term crush on tops 5-10 girls a year that I truly truly give a shit about to the point where I'll be so fuckin persistent for weeks) and she said she really enjoyed my texts and voicemails. She met me in person and was like WHOA! She was showing me screenprints of my text messages that she put on instagram and she even was like to her friend "This is Katalyst. Katalyst". Thing is I could never get her out because I couldn't flip the frame fast enough.

I'll probably fuck her and fall in love with her because I want to :)

I've been working with my homeboy Haze who is an absolute genius when it comes to text game and has been really really patient with me and made me understand a lot of shit about frames and texting. So i have to internalize all this stuff he's been showing me and apply it.



Obviously it's gonna be harder for you to accept that you are enough if you don't own who you are - But now it's just smacking me in the face to the point externally where I just have to accept that like damn I really am the prize. I have a lot to offer and my world is pretty quirky and interesting in its own way. But it's cool - After 20 something months in the city I'm finally starting to find the kind of kids I actually would want to be friends with and now I know myself just way better than I did before. Gotter a stronger reality than 99% of the people I run into.

The biggest external change in my game in the past 2-3 weeks actually has been my new roomie (who is officially the coolest and most talented ambitious chick I've ever met) she's like - "yo you're a weirdo but you're cool". She's one of the most open chicks I've ever met in terms of honesty and she's actually sort of forced me to own who I am for us to really be homies because when I act all weird and shady about being into pimping she kind of shuts off emotionally to me. It's like her female biology punishing me for not being who I am. Not that it matters but it's her way of going "yo just be cool with who you are. You are enough". Chicks just can't not be helped be connected to a congruent man. Not that this means anything but she is very very veryyy tight with some pretty A-list tabloid serious motherfuckers.

So right now I'm just going through my LeBron phase with text game. My biggest strength in life is that I'll go to extreme lengths to accomplish the things I want and I really don't know anyone who's had as a dramatic turnaround as me for sure. This is why I'm actually kind of internally satisfied to a degree.

Very soon I'll win the championship and be lining up dates left and right ;)

The same thing happened when I first started training with Manwhore. I had all these ideas scrambling around in my head and while I had plenty of small wins along the way, I didn't really breakthrough until I self-accepted and then all of sudden BOOM! 8 pulls in 8 straight nights.

Same thing is going to happen with text game. One day I just won't give a fuck and realize that my text game is OK as it is and BOOM! Just for now got to sort out the weird emotional kinks and figure out how to express my personality congruently and effectively in 140 characters text messages.