woah there is a lot goin on here (txt convo with gf)
Her: Guess what i'm doin
Me: What
Her: Golff
Me: Like the team
Her: Yes I suck lol
Me: You'll be a great part of the team
Her: thanx babe :) Im taking that as a compliment
Me: They need somone with a nice butt
Her: Riggghtt there is only like 7 girls on it
Me: Any descent ass
Her: All of them :)
Me: name them
Her: Umm (name), (name), this (name) girl and a couple freshman
Me Doesn't sound too promising on the ass scale
Her: uhh very promising actually
Me: Whose that (name) girl she hot
Her: total babe (thumbs up emoji, laughing crying emoji)
Me: oh damn threesome time
Her: no
Me: :) you know me too well
Me: a no ALWAYS means a yes
Her: how bout instead of another girl, its another boy
Me: Tehe Id prob do both
Me: But its gotta be that kid from (town) you dont like
Her: ewww (name) anyone but him
Me: I found another
Her: Who
Me: Its a secret. trust me hes a master
Me: who do you choose for the chica
Her: i'll only tell you if you tell me
Me; You know the old sang
Me: ladies first
Her: hmmm how about (name)? << girl she told to blow my friend
Me; That'd work with me
Her: ok your turn
Me: (name( or (name)
Her: Defintely (name)
Me: wise choice my friend
Me: (name) was a good choice as well
Her: ah yes it was either her or (name)
Her; jk i want (name)
Me: ehh id rather (name)
Her: Okay so I just talked to my dad and he said he was gonna be nice and all but he gave me a lecture how im not allowed to date "non-christian" guys so I said if they meet you that we can hangout and he said maybe, so maybe you should meet them friday and ask to hangout saturday night?
Me: Okay. we wont date then
Me: we can be friends that do fun stuff together
Me: and yeah friday is cool homie
Her: alright and it has to be after 5 im meeting with this lady for coffee at 3:30
Me: okay how does 5:30 sound
Her: yup
Me: awesome ill text ya about it tomorrow cutie
Her: okay :)
Her: and this is (name) I made her send a pic or herself (picture) <<< girl i asked was hot earlier in convo
Me: Lols...forget about her the orignal choice will do
Her: :) shes so nice though shes like my 2nd fav person on the team
Me: I like her smile <<< SHES GROSS
Her: yes very nice she from (town)
Me: well next time you see her tell her I said whats up and fuck (town):)
Me: Hey I gotta go drive my lil bro to his friends house ill hit ya ass up tomorrow
Her: aight
THEN IMMEDIATLY I GET A SNAP CHAT FROM OF SOMEONE IN A SPORTS BRA :)
the snap chat was from her but I dont think it was her in the pic i couldnt see
I think im gonna stop all the bf and gf shit like kissing her before I go to class n shit just to make it clear that we are no longer dating
Nice why does she wanna have a threesome with an ugly chick though?
no she was showing me the chick I initally joked about the 3some with... not the actual girl she chose. It would be less confusing with names in there :p
no she was showing me the chick I initally joked about the 3some with... not the actual girl she chose. It would be less confusing with names in there :p
Word that makes more sense.
You handled this like a boss and led properly, good job. You're doing it right by not locking girls down in high school. Almost completely pointless IMO. It's like that Aziz Ansari joke:
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I would have been a lot gentler with the whole "Ok we won't date then". You kinda fucked her up with that you have no idea. Why would you do that?
Also and more importantly, she is going to try to make it seem to everyone that she decided not to date you. Now this is something that most guys aren't familiar with and definitely not comfortable with, but you have to make it clear to people you didn't get dropped you just realized it wasn't working out with her parents. That being said if you take this too far and try to publicly shame this girl I will remove you from this forum.
I would have been a lot gentler with the whole "Ok we won't date then". You kinda fucked her up with that you have no idea. Why would you do that?Also and more importantly, she is going to try to make it seem to everyone that she decided not to date you. Now this is something that most guys aren't familiar with and definitely not comfortable with, but you have to make it clear to people you didn't get dropped you just realized it wasn't working out with her parents. That being said if you take this too far and try to publicly shame this girl I will remove you from this forum.
fuck dude. I didn't realize that I came off too strong with that, I was trying to be subtle lol. And no I would'nt do that in fact im not gonna go around telling people, im gonna treat her as if nothing happened, but truly the parents thing has really been an unneeded burden to me and I truly do want out.
Then tell her that 'cuz that wasn't subtle at all. I've told girls before I don't like intrusive parents I won't respect that behavior. They get the message
Then tell her that 'cuz that wasn't subtle at all. I've told girls before I don't like intrusive parents I won't respect that behavior. They get the message
will do.
Cool man I'm glad. Anyways look out for the peeps. Even if (they will) they bite the hand that feeds them.
I messaged her and let her know that i'm not cool with the whole overbearing parents thing, and then made it clear that im not dropping her or friend zoning her, and that'd id love to still have her around. Then she was like okay, and asked me if i was still gonna meet her parents bc that still needs to go down if we wanna hang some more. I tried to be a bit more empathetic and insure her that i'm still gonna meet her rents and we are still planning to go out this weekend. So I think everything is gucci
If she has questions just stick your tongue in her vagina and have her ask them then.
This has actually been goin really smooth. Despite being "broken up" everything has been about the same. The other day she asked "so are you gonna hook up with other girls", I said "we'll see but thats not for you to worry about" and clawed her in nice and tight. So I guess I handled it ok.
I met her parents today, because it was pretty much needed for us to chill. They were definitely really weird, and I could tell her dad was a bit of an angry chode lol. It was a lot different than my family life, they defintely had some finacial issues and all 3 of her brothers have been in rehab for drugs. Of course I did fine though, eye contact was on point, vocal projection was good, and my main goal was to comeoff with a strong presence without being over powering. It was one of those odd situations that I had to handle I guess, which seems to be a common theme in chasing after women lol!
This has actually been goin really smooth. Despite being "broken up" everything has been about the same. The other day she asked "so are you gonna hook up with other girls", I said "we'll see but thats not for you to worry about" and clawed her in nice and tight. So I guess I handled it ok.I met her parents today, because it was pretty much needed for us to chill. They were definitely really weird, and I could tell her dad was a bit of an angry chode lol. It was a lot different than my family life, they defintely had some finacial issues and all 3 of her brothers have been in rehab for drugs. Of course I did fine though, eye contact was on point, vocal projection was good, and my main goal was to comeoff with a strong presence without being over powering. It was one of those odd situations that I had to handle I guess, which seems to be a common theme in chasing after women lol!
Excellent.