Yo WTF this shit's embarrassing
What's up guys,
I pulled this girl last friday night and couldn't get it up (100%), but thought this was cuz of the shots I had before. It was going to like 70% and then I would keep losing it, especially when I was trying to put a condom on. So this girl sucked me off for more than 1,5 hours and still nothing...I didn't even come. The next day, same shit and then I had to go to work... so then I met up with her again 2 days ago and she blew me and everything but still my dick got to like 70-80% max and couldn't get it hard properly. Tried putting the condom on...same shit and even worse
So today I had a date with another girl (girl2), this hot thang was just laying in my bed with her perfect boobies and body sucking my dick again for like an hour, but it just wouldn't get hard much and this is embarrassing as I'm pretty well endowed and I didn't come.... again. Tho this girl wouldn't let me get to her pussy, I was rubbing that shit from outside and she was DEF wet like a pool. I'm like yo wtf, anyway she seemed very much like the shy type and she got red sometimes so I smooth talked a little bit and almost got in that shit. But no luck and then she had to catch the train to her home like 1 hour away. She left just about an hour ago
So my main issue is this fucking dick problem, it won't get hard and I even made sure to watch the Manwhore talk with kinobody about this exact thing yesterday (before the date with girl2) and tried concentrating on my own pleasure but shit still sucked(so did she btw) and it's kinda embarrassing to be honest. Even gets me worried I'll lose the girls because of this
So I'm looking for some tips on how to get this handled. I'm finally pulling girls and now I get this fucking thing....
p.s. stopped watching porn since yesterday
p.p.s. been listenting to eckhart tolle since like 4 weeks about 1 hour a day
'k what's the self-diagnosis.
what u mean? like where I think it comes from? Well I mean I'm not that sexually experienced but I should at least come since with pron I do come pretty quickly. I feel like this shit is fucking up my mindset
Keep going. Because based on what you laid out in OP you're either retarded, a fag, or a pussy. So keep going with the self-diagnosis. What's the sexual experience got to do with it?
well basically virgin, but I got it in for like 5 seconds with the other girl 2 days ago...so no virgin anymore I guess eh?
But fuck this shit man... I feel like it's because I'm too much in my head in some weird way, I don't know what other reason there would be. As I come pretty fast with porn
DUH. So what is it? You've been on the Tolle, and you watched the vid. You've got the tools fucking use them. Dig into it you're not a child anymore.
Yeah I know dude, but just how like where's the instruction manual...shit I can listen to Tolle all day but I don't really feel any different. Maybe I should start a daily meditiation for like 15 mins?
But it could also be cuz of the fact I'm from an islamic background and I just moved out of my parents house a month ago... so now I'm finally pulling some ass but the action is just not there. Shit this other girl had one of the most amazing body I've seen but I don't know what it is I just couldn't get very hard, like I do with porn, even though she was sucking my dick for so long
Yeah this has happened to me a couple of times.
What you need to do is stop watching porn and stop touching your dick. Also, lift weights and eat Zinc and avocado. Also, try doing kegels (squeeze your pc-muscle a couple times every week). That shit will make you have a boner 24/7 (well not really but kinda) and you will be SO horny when your finally with a girl that you won't even have time to get in your head.
Yeah Islamic background fucks a lot of dudes up. Did you read the article on the main site about that? I had a student we had to sort through that mess lol
@Cholo yeah thanks dude, I already do weightlifting but definitely gotta get on the other stuff you mentioned. Thanks a lot man, will def stop touching my dick lol
@Manwhore, yes I've read that one. Some great results that guy got. So you think my problem could for sure be because of the same thing?
Yes it's part of it, but it's not like you got a special snowflake handicap that holds you back. Delve into it. And take my program if you can afford it
I've already decided some time ago I'm gonna take your program, probably in the coming month or 2 as I'm really fucking overloaded with school and work and other shit right now and as I wanna get the full benefits of the program it's probably not the right time for me right now. So yeah that's definitely gonna happen, but I hope to have already figured out some of this before I start the training.
You already have the tools to completely fix this. You don't have to wait for me to make you do it. You watched the vid and you listen to Tolle constantly. You have ALL the tools you need and they are extremely powerful. E.g. it's staring you in the face. If you don't fix this asap I'm just going to chuckle
STOP with the porn. One or two days of not watching porn wont do shit. You need to go like 3 weeks to a month without porn. You brain is used to being stimulated by images and sound. Basically, your brain thinks your computer is your girlfriend. If you can do this, you wont have any dick problems, your biology will take care of that. Try it