You KNOW you weren't sexual enough when this is the text you get from a girl
Tue, 10/09/2012 - 23:01
"Hey Katrina & I are grabbing drinks tonight if you want to grab some friends and join! Fun old hang out friends night at xxx pub on Amsterdam 7:30ish!"
I respond: "Hm... Really pushin this friends thing, aren't ya beb"
And she goes, "haha.. Come out if you're game : ) We live in the same area so I figured it'll be fun! but totally understand if not"
Not even sure what to do here.
Part of me is just like... wtvr... havin a few girlfriends isn't a bad thing
another part of me is like... fuck that.. sex or nothing..
I think I should at least show up for a bit after work... and basically just do the following:
"Smile, nod, agree... and then do whatever the fuck I was going to do anyway"
Thoughts?
I respond: "Hm... Really pushin this friends thing, aren't ya beb"
And she goes, "haha.. Come out if you're game : ) We live in the same area so I figured it'll be fun! but totally understand if not"
Not even sure what to do here.
Part of me is just like... wtvr... havin a few girlfriends isn't a bad thing
another part of me is like... fuck that.. sex or nothing..
I think I should at least show up for a bit after work... and basically just do the following:
"Smile, nod, agree... and then do whatever the fuck I was going to do anyway"
Thoughts?
Wed, 10/10/2012 - 02:17
#1
et from a girl
Treat the "friend zone" like it's a playground.
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Wed, 10/10/2012 - 08:05
#2
Re: et from a girl
@Manwhore:
lol maybe playfully 'friend zone' her.
*she goes in to hug you*
"hey hey, back off woman - you're in the friend zone" but proceed as normal.
lol maybe playfully 'friend zone' her.
*she goes in to hug you*
"hey hey, back off woman - you're in the friend zone" but proceed as normal.
Wed, 10/10/2012 - 12:58
#3
Re: You KNOW you weren't u get from a girl
naw. Full rapist friend zone
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Wed, 10/10/2012 - 16:50
#4
Re: You KNOW you weren't u get from a girl
@Manwhore:
Met up with them last night after work.
She literally lives 2 blocks away from my new apartment, so it wasn't a hassle at all...
Def. really cool chicks- lots of value... decided to fuck with her a little afterwards.
The following Text exchange took place:
Me: Hey so I wanna grab a drink with you without all the friends involved. I mean you DO do that with guys you actually meet in person, yeah?"
(We had discussed how she does a TON of online dating)
Her: "Yes.. I do haha.. I can do that as long as your cool with it not being a date
Me: Why's that.. you're single, yeah?"
Her: "Yeah but don't think we're a match & Just interested in being friends with you"
Me: "Lol friends with benefits is fine. No need to put all the pressure of a "date" on the whole thing
Her: "No benefits... just friends.. lol. New to the area and it's nice to know people that's all"
Me: "Lol I'm fuckin with you beb"
Her: "hahahaha... ass"
Me: But I read your profile and looked over your interests and don't think we'd be a good match as friends. Just penpals who occasionally grab eachother's asses. I can't have another blonde finance girl in the obsessive love triangle that is my life"
Her: "Okay, that's fine : )"
Me: But yes, we can grab a drink next week. I'll have my friend alfred the penguin come along. He's awesome."
Her: "Fabulous... Canadians love penguins"
so I obviously didn't make much headway in taking this OUT of friendzone.... but we'll see. I'm just gonna be super physical and playful with her. Plus- her friends are hot so she probably will connect me with some of them. We'll see.
Met up with them last night after work.
She literally lives 2 blocks away from my new apartment, so it wasn't a hassle at all...
Def. really cool chicks- lots of value... decided to fuck with her a little afterwards.
The following Text exchange took place:
Me: Hey so I wanna grab a drink with you without all the friends involved. I mean you DO do that with guys you actually meet in person, yeah?"
(We had discussed how she does a TON of online dating)
Her: "Yes.. I do haha.. I can do that as long as your cool with it not being a date
Me: Why's that.. you're single, yeah?"
Her: "Yeah but don't think we're a match & Just interested in being friends with you"
Me: "Lol friends with benefits is fine. No need to put all the pressure of a "date" on the whole thing
Her: "No benefits... just friends.. lol. New to the area and it's nice to know people that's all"
Me: "Lol I'm fuckin with you beb"
Her: "hahahaha... ass"
Me: But I read your profile and looked over your interests and don't think we'd be a good match as friends. Just penpals who occasionally grab eachother's asses. I can't have another blonde finance girl in the obsessive love triangle that is my life"
Her: "Okay, that's fine : )"
Me: But yes, we can grab a drink next week. I'll have my friend alfred the penguin come along. He's awesome."
Her: "Fabulous... Canadians love penguins"
so I obviously didn't make much headway in taking this OUT of friendzone.... but we'll see. I'm just gonna be super physical and playful with her. Plus- her friends are hot so she probably will connect me with some of them. We'll see.
Wed, 10/10/2012 - 20:12
#5
@buddhagames:
This sounds
@buddhagames:
This sounds like a sick set up for some social circle opportunities. So you don't get to have sex with this chick, maybe you'll be banging 3 of her friends down the road? I'd say stick with her as a friend.
PLUS, if you bang one of the girls really well, she WILL tell her friends and you'll build up a reputation among the friends. Then you become a chill, cool, and good-in-bed guy who the other girls want to sleep with too.
My roomate slays at social circle game. Literally. This year he's probably averaged over 1 new girl a month solely through social circle. And it seems to picking up fast as his reputation gets around. Between the two of us, we've fucked entire groups of friends.
This sounds like a sick set up for some social circle opportunities. So you don't get to have sex with this chick, maybe you'll be banging 3 of her friends down the road? I'd say stick with her as a friend.
PLUS, if you bang one of the girls really well, she WILL tell her friends and you'll build up a reputation among the friends. Then you become a chill, cool, and good-in-bed guy who the other girls want to sleep with too.
My roomate slays at social circle game. Literally. This year he's probably averaged over 1 new girl a month solely through social circle. And it seems to picking up fast as his reputation gets around. Between the two of us, we've fucked entire groups of friends.