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An Advanced Introduction to Sexual Escalation: Endgame Mindset and Tactics

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This is a student's partial write-up from the session we did covering sexual escalation. This particular part of the curriculum doesn't have a lot of verbal drills attached so it's not the best example of the training course overall, but the content here for learning sexual escalation is great. 

 
Sexual Escalation (End Game) Mindset
Most women go to night clubs with friends to unwind, have fun, pump their state then go home. By taking a girl home and fucking her you become the most prominent thing that happened to her all week. Deep down, this is what she wants and she wants it to be from a strong minded guy. You can't just be like every other guy hitting on her in the club, you must be dominant. "she must be fucked by a strong cock"
 
What Not to Do
Exactly like physical escalation, you don't want to escalate in a way where its like "Ok I did this, she liked it, I wonder if I can escalate to this?". This is creepy as you are trying to finagle sex in a socially acceptable way. 
 
What To Do
Again just like physicality, keep sexual escalation on your ryhthm, use terminator or frat boy groppage mentality. 
 
*Girl gets in your car, you make out for a bit then get her to suck your dick
 
You are doing the things YOU WANT
 
 
Using Your Dick to Bust LMR
Your dick is the #1 tool for busting through LMR. When things are getting sexual YOU MUST show your dick.
 
Ways to do this:
  • blame it on her "look what you did" "you made my dick hard"
  • "let me introduce you" "have you guys met?"
  • take it out, look at it then put it away
  • push the girl off the bed and onto her knees, take your dick out, she will suck it
In the approximately 25% of the time the dick LMR buster doesn't work, use their own bodies to turn them on.
 
 
Hard and Soft Sexual Escalation (Ying and Yang)
Think of it like masculine and feminine energy. Hard energy is shaping energy, you make something happen (picking a girl up and walking). Soft energy is nurturing (softly moving your hands across her) *like lesbian porn. You should be escalating on both avenues and using them like push pull (I assume).
 
 
Focal Points and Finishing Moves
A girl needs experience surrendering her body to you before you can have sex with her, picking her up off the ground without her permission is a great example of this. Moving the girl (lift, throw, relocate) will give you massive compliance while sexually escalating.
 
Use a girl's focal points (hips, shoulders, neck) to assist in the finishing moves. The neck is a very sensitive zone, you can kiss / tickle the back of it or wrap your hand around your throat and calibrate to the pressure she enjoys. The hips are the major movable focal point of a girl (standing or lying down) you can take control of her by the hips and move her. 
 
The girl needs to have probable deniability so she say "no", it's at this point that you make a major move to let her know you're managing what's going on, she wants it she just needs to be assured that you have it under control. If there is still resistance, don't freeze the girl out just chill, back off a little and go for it again. No weird, manipulative tricks involved.
 
During sexual escalation the girl will be looking to you for how she should react. You should be in terminator and / or fratstar groppage mode, you are entitled to what you're doing and it all fun.
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  me - "So were both going
 

me - "So were both going to your friend's place?" 

her - "No I'm just gonna go there and sleep, I work tomorrow"

me - "come to my place and sleep"

her - "umm I can't I'm kinda seeing this guy right now and we have an agreement"

me - "come to my place we can just talk"

her - "ok!"
 
LOL! 
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Ok I just realized this quote
Ok I just realized this quote is from the lay report he had after our sexual escalation session lol. 
Manwhore wrote:

 

me - "So were both going to your friend's place?" 

her - "No I'm just gonna go there and sleep, I work tomorrow"

me - "come to my place and sleep"

her - "umm I can't I'm kinda seeing this guy right now and we have an agreement"

me - "come to my place we can just talk"

her - "ok!"
 
LOL! 
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Yeah I always pull out my
Yeah I always pull out my dick on day 2s. usually after making out for a little bit I'll pull it out like BAM! then maybe put her hand on it.
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IMO OP - this looks like an
IMO OP - this looks like an article G.

You have the best closing game out of anyone I know ..... 
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I do actually have the best
I do actually have the best closing game out there. No contest 
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I heard JMULVS is pretty
If my closing game was 1/2 as good as manwhore's... welll....
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Bump. 

Bump. 

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Such a good write up. The

Such a good write up. The amount of times this info would have come in handy in certain situations, wow! 

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Why does showing her your

Why does showing her your dick work?

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It's the "nuclear thread/t". 

It's the "nuclear thread/t". 

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Great articleI got some

Great article

I got some questions though.

o last weekend i worked at the club with some other chicks and this dime piece hottie was new there and i was being a bit flirty when working and having lots of fun. They took some pictures for the clubs fb page and she was doing sexy poses with me and stuff lol.

Then we had an afterparty together and somehow i isolate her to a corridor.... Now i had been working with her the last 10 hours so i thought it would be a bit akward if i just kissed her so i tried to lift grab her and lift her up and move her to get some complience and then escalate more or try to pull but she was just like "LOL STOP" and pushed me away so after some teasing i was like ok lets go back to the party and talked to other chicks. Well this chick was a bit older but a dime piece so maybe sensed some inexperience from my side lol. What do you guys think and what would you have done in that situation?

I'm not even sure what happened afterwards though because i went in and drank hella shots and got blackout drunk lol. Woke up 2 pm the next day and see some girl clothes laying on my couch. Probably not the same chick though. but ill probably work with this chick again so... ;)

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Fractionation beforehand with

Fractionation beforehand with some lower key physical stuff. If you're running physical "moves" like a robot it's obviously not going to work. Haven't you banged a girl before? It's the same thing you can't do things differently just because she's "hot".

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Lol yeah ive written about a

Lol yeah ive written about a couple bangs on the forum. but yeah my game is not really consistent when i have some momentum im all smooth and shit but that day i wasnt on my A+ game.

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Like a couple of weeks ago i

Like a couple of weeks ago i pulled 3 chicks in 1 week or maybe 2 weeks (banged 2 of them) but i was on some caveman shit it all came naturally.

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yo any tips on

yo any tips on "fractionation"? I'm too used to quick game so this is a sticking point in social circle game.

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Basically you're moving in

Basically you're moving in and out, not just with touch but with proximity as well. Top notch game is when you're able to set up the context for this verbally ;)

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Fucking boss. Bumping this

Fucking boss. Bumping this shit for obvious reasons.

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Manwhore wrote: Basically

Manwhore wrote:
Basically you're moving in and out, not just with touch but with proximity as well. Top notch game is when you're able to set up the context for this verbally ;)

You mean like, creating a kind of roleplay atmosphere and dynamic where it gives you kind of plausible deniability to escalate? Or being verbally sexual/mentowomen but not vulgar, and being kind of like hot and cold and putting pressure and then taking it off, and then progressively escalate the verbals the more comfortable she's with you? Or you mean something else?

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I'm over the "try to get the

I'm over the "try to get the make out" thing that beginners do. But just wondering, how quick in the interaction do you guys usually go for the makeout? Seems like it could be used to increase attraction or to screen which girls are down

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