The earth is round. You're welcome: Recall humor
Met the gal on facebook again. Messaged her:
Me: Hey bootyballs, shoot me your number- I got a bone to pick with you!
She laughed and sent me her number.
Me: Hey You, I thought that video of us was private- now everybody knows, I can't give that kind of attention to everyone.
Her: haha I'm sorry! How have you been
Me: It's cool. But next time I get a hold of that camera, I'm breaking it into pieces and scattering them throughout the 4 corners of the earth. You can go looking for them, but only if you take your clothes off.. One of those pieces may be in the ocean and I don't want you getting your pants all wet
Her: But the earth is round
Me: You're welcome
Her: hahahaha, you're funny. You never answered my question though, how have you been?
Blehh, one thing I'm noticing is that, on a certain level, text convos with girls seem to always sorta go the same way// have the same sorta general shit flying around. Like once you calibrate for the girl, her responses will tend to revolve around the same stuff. I am NOT saying that all text convos are the same, because as we all know- they clearly are not. BUT I AM saying that I'm starting to see how once you recognize this and calibrate accordingly, the responses are fairly similar, with regards to their general character.
I'd love general advice about where to take this, but with regards to specifics, I think I can handle this one. At least, I'm going to try and then if it fails I can post it again on here and I can go through a reflection/analysis period with you guys. So no specifics on this one here, it's too tempting to take the easy way out ; )
Also- lmao, I crack up every time I listen to thos kobeism videos, so that's where the "you're welcome" line comes from. That shit's absolutely hilarious. If you're looking for random shit to say to a gal- I'd def. watch those videos. Like basically whenever she tries to correct you or like point out that something doesn't make sense... "You're welcome" lmao, wtvr maybe it's not that funny. But I think it is. It's just like, "Huh?" Almost like you're just completely OWNING the fact that whatever you said doesn't make any sense.
Oh- and that's an interesting thought- seeing her asking, 'how have you been" as sorta her subconsciously going into autopilot mode and naturally wanting to take the convo into friend mode. A lot of girls are just as nervous/scared of sex/sexual tension as we are so I could totally see that being what's going on here. Don't know if it's right... But if it is- that makes sense. Cool thought man.
In person I just sorta jump around a lot in conversation- I think it's part of the reason I write such long, super excited posts- cause that's sorta how I talk and I just talk how I think lmao, idk... it just jumps around a lot. Like one second I'll be talking about the bathroom at wendy's and the next second I'll be asking a girl what her thoughts look like... really though- this is a super fun thing to talk about. Cause people think in totally cool ways. Like some people actually SEE pictures as their thoughts, some people SEE words and some people just like think as if they are talking to themselves... I'm the last one.
I'm personally trying to work on a lot of the non-inner game stuff right now. That's the stuff that I have sorta just been introduced to recently.
There's like 7 of them. All about a minute long. Fucking good shit.
This one is probably my favorite: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCLKhauUYi4&feature=relmfu
LOL- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKxYE0IrIxs&feature=relmfu... one of my favorites as well.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SjBMznQDWJk - hahaha okay, this might be the best one.
Anyway- fuck... you guys can go check them out.
I'ma send her my number as just sorta an afterthought in my next message. Send her one or two more messages to just see if i can get some more investment (I think it's SLIGHTLY there but I want to solidify it a bit more) and within that make it clear that I hate talking on facebook. Then freeeze her out for tonight/tomrorw and see if she takes the hint and makes the move to text...
I'll make the move myself. Fuck her lmao. S
she's probably like, "why the fuck is this guy using facebook and not texting me" ... who the fuck likes talking on facebook
"HIGHLY SPIRITUAL" WARNING
As with nervous people in general, so with girls - i dont think nervous is nervous at all, i mean, we tend to think of emotional shit as something important and big, but it isnt, its all the same shit.
Nervousness is just a certain mechanism for people to get what they want, i dont think they do it to go back to some friendly place or frame ( they/we might rationalize it as such) - they are just seeing if youll bust through it.
Their nervousness is there for you, for your glory, lets say.
Its all fun and games.
Yes that's part of it for sure. There are definite alterior (boyish) motives behind it
Sure, sometimes with higly drama or negative people, its like i can see behind their face and they are just grinning mischievously and doing it to kick shit up, i really believe its amusing them, maybe even for most of us , at least some of the times, if one "learned" it growing up. Guess I should put the growing up part in quotes too.
And women, hell , they do it because its what they are.
you actually want to go out with a ball earther? have some standards, man.