advice for out of town chick..
Tue, 05/01/2012 - 22:09
So I met this girl at a bar on sunday, really feel like we hit it off. She's here from Chicago, and will be staying here seeing friends until thursday morning. Immediately after number closing I sent this:
2:08am apr30th
Me: :)
Her: Hey :)
The next day I sent her this
4:16pm apr30th
Me: so how does portland compare to chicago
Her: Cloudy!
Me: we have more hipsters ;)
4:32pm
Her: Way more hipsters!
Me: anyways, im free tuesday night
Me: id like to invite u to drink w me :)
4:52pm
Her: That would be fun! I'll have to check with the girls I'm with to see what everyone's plans are. Get at me tomorrow and we will figure something out :)
I didn't respond after that because I didn't feel the need to, but it is now tuesday... curious how to re-engage her now without seeming needy or losing power. Still pretty new/bad at text game so advice appreciated
2:08am apr30th
Me: :)
Her: Hey :)
The next day I sent her this
4:16pm apr30th
Me: so how does portland compare to chicago
Her: Cloudy!
Me: we have more hipsters ;)
4:32pm
Her: Way more hipsters!
Me: anyways, im free tuesday night
Me: id like to invite u to drink w me :)
4:52pm
Her: That would be fun! I'll have to check with the girls I'm with to see what everyone's plans are. Get at me tomorrow and we will figure something out :)
I didn't respond after that because I didn't feel the need to, but it is now tuesday... curious how to re-engage her now without seeming needy or losing power. Still pretty new/bad at text game so advice appreciated
Tue, 05/01/2012 - 22:46
#1
The idea is to create
The idea is to create emotional momentum with a girl up until your date. It's basic flake prevention/management while also getting her more invested in you and seeding "other" things. You have none of this lol.
Send her a random text it could be anything and gauge where you're at. "Hey you, either we're drinking or I'm joining the hipster union tonight."
Send her a random text it could be anything and gauge where you're at. "Hey you, either we're drinking or I'm joining the hipster union tonight."
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Tue, 05/01/2012 - 23:45
#2
May 1st 2:58pmMe: :)Me: hey
May 1st 2:58pm
Me: :)
Me: hey you, either we're drinking or im joining the hipster union tonight.
Her: What's the hipster union?
Me: the union that hipsters are required to join if they live in portland. they set strict standards for beard length and bulk order thick rimmed glasses
Her: Ooo sarcasm...nice ;)
Her: I guess we are going to bowling tonight? I'm probably just going to drink bc I don't bowl... its ***** on *****
I don't know how many other girls are there, and I'd prefer to meet her alone. The address seems like terrible logistics for pulling...
edit: that last msg was her not me
Me: :)
Me: hey you, either we're drinking or im joining the hipster union tonight.
Her: What's the hipster union?
Me: the union that hipsters are required to join if they live in portland. they set strict standards for beard length and bulk order thick rimmed glasses
Her: Ooo sarcasm...nice ;)
Her: I guess we are going to bowling tonight? I'm probably just going to drink bc I don't bowl... its ***** on *****
I don't know how many other girls are there, and I'd prefer to meet her alone. The address seems like terrible logistics for pulling...
edit: that last msg was her not me
Wed, 05/02/2012 - 01:22
#3
May 1st 4:35pmMe: too far
May 1st 4:35pm
Me: too far out of the way for me :/
Me: but hey, u guys should come kick it w me n my friend in downtown when ur done
Her: Where do u go?
Me: we hop around a lot. (names of four venues). txt me when u come down ;)
5:22pm
Her: Kk...might check it out :)
Eh, we'll see how it goes
Me: too far out of the way for me :/
Me: but hey, u guys should come kick it w me n my friend in downtown when ur done
Her: Where do u go?
Me: we hop around a lot. (names of four venues). txt me when u come down ;)
5:22pm
Her: Kk...might check it out :)
Eh, we'll see how it goes
Thu, 05/03/2012 - 00:25
#4
I don't see why you didn't go
I don't see why you didn't go with her. Friends being there doesn't mean you can't pull. Unless you have something better planned that was a dumb move. Good job though, liked the hipster comment.
Also manwhore can you explain in more detail the emotional momentum?
Also manwhore can you explain in more detail the emotional momentum?