Having issues getting meetup- More Humor// A little more fluff?
Tue, 02/21/2012 - 17:40
Girl: Hey
Me - 1 min later: Just got a new phone this morning. Who is this?
Girl - 4 mins later: Ali. We met a little while ago at.... 13th step?
Girl: Just sayin hey and seeing what you were up to tonight
Me - 19 mins later: With some buddies ffinishing up some food. What are you up to
Me - 21 mins later: We're at r bar, if you wanna meet up at some point tonight id be open to that
Girl - 37 mins later: I'm in LES
Girl - 25 mins later: Where you
Me - 8 mins later: Call me
Girl - 28 mins later: Call me
Girl - 10 mins later: Hey I'm heading home. Let's hang soon, k? Let me know when you're free
Me - 3 days 18 hrs later: Hey Ali, any plans for Friday?
Girl - 21 hrs 3 mins later: Hey, no plans for Friday. Gotta be up early Saturday. How about you?
Me - 21 hrs 57 mins later: Hey Ali, I'm watching the Knicks game with two of my buddies tonight. You should stop by
Girl - 13 mins later: Going to HR now. Will be in touch.
Girl - 6 mins later: HH*
Me - 43 mins later: Cool sounds good
Girl - 3 hrs 14 mins later: Hey how are you doin
Me - 10 mins later: Good. You?
Girl - 20 mins later: Good. Where you guys?
Me - 9 mins later: Uptown, you can come up here if you want.
Girl - 6 mins later: Alright. Not sure if I'm gonna head up there.
Me - 1 min later: Just got a new phone this morning. Who is this?
Girl - 4 mins later: Ali. We met a little while ago at.... 13th step?
Girl: Just sayin hey and seeing what you were up to tonight
Me - 19 mins later: With some buddies ffinishing up some food. What are you up to
Me - 21 mins later: We're at r bar, if you wanna meet up at some point tonight id be open to that
Girl - 37 mins later: I'm in LES
Girl - 25 mins later: Where you
Me - 8 mins later: Call me
Girl - 28 mins later: Call me
Girl - 10 mins later: Hey I'm heading home. Let's hang soon, k? Let me know when you're free
Me - 3 days 18 hrs later: Hey Ali, any plans for Friday?
Girl - 21 hrs 3 mins later: Hey, no plans for Friday. Gotta be up early Saturday. How about you?
Me - 21 hrs 57 mins later: Hey Ali, I'm watching the Knicks game with two of my buddies tonight. You should stop by
Girl - 13 mins later: Going to HR now. Will be in touch.
Girl - 6 mins later: HH*
Me - 43 mins later: Cool sounds good
Girl - 3 hrs 14 mins later: Hey how are you doin
Me - 10 mins later: Good. You?
Girl - 20 mins later: Good. Where you guys?
Me - 9 mins later: Uptown, you can come up here if you want.
Girl - 6 mins later: Alright. Not sure if I'm gonna head up there.
Tue, 02/21/2012 - 17:51
#1
So this girl texted
So this gal texted me out of the blue. I had met her like 4-5 months ago and had just sorta forgotten about her. I forgot to call her that first night cause I ended up with a different girl.
My own thoughts on this are that I should sprinkle a little more humor into the convo (reading over it, it's totally devoid of any fun)... Also, I probably should text her a little bit throughout the week even when I don't want to meet up just to get her thinking about me.
The last time when I texted, "Uptown..." I was just being lazy as fuck, I probably could have gone downtown to meet her but I was tired and didn't want to. It was a sunday and sundays are my day off from going out so I tend to try and just get a gal to come chill with me and my buddies at our apartment so I can watch the knicks//catch a flick and then just have some sex and cruise off to bed.
Anyway- Anyone have any additional thoughts on how I can improve conversations of this sort... This is absolutely characteristic of probably 30-40% of my convos... Like it seems as if there is commitment on her end but I just can't seem to close the deal and get the meetup.
My own thoughts on this are that I should sprinkle a little more humor into the convo (reading over it, it's totally devoid of any fun)... Also, I probably should text her a little bit throughout the week even when I don't want to meet up just to get her thinking about me.
The last time when I texted, "Uptown..." I was just being lazy as fuck, I probably could have gone downtown to meet her but I was tired and didn't want to. It was a sunday and sundays are my day off from going out so I tend to try and just get a gal to come chill with me and my buddies at our apartment so I can watch the knicks//catch a flick and then just have some sex and cruise off to bed.
Anyway- Anyone have any additional thoughts on how I can improve conversations of this sort... This is absolutely characteristic of probably 30-40% of my convos... Like it seems as if there is commitment on her end but I just can't seem to close the deal and get the meetup.
Wed, 02/22/2012 - 03:04
#2
ya this is a strange convo.
ya this is a strange convo. She invited you to hang out twice and.. you simply didn't hang out. I think what you're really asking is how to get her to come to YOU?? Otherwise this turkey's cooked. Simply meet up with her next time and fuck her.
If you want her to come to you you need to make it exciting and keep it impulsive, and make her invest in it. Be like "Girl..! You KNOW you need to bring ice cream over to go with this chocolate syrup I got!"
If you want her to come to you you need to make it exciting and keep it impulsive, and make her invest in it. Be like "Girl..! You KNOW you need to bring ice cream over to go with this chocolate syrup I got!"
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Wed, 02/22/2012 - 04:07
#3
haha
that ice cream line made me laugh man, would be even better if I was black. But anyway, it is a strange one which is why I posted it. The clarity you bring to a lot of my posts is real solid and very helpful, so thanks for that.
I actually didn't even recognize how I was letting this sort of mini power battle get in the way of the fuck. In one sense, this convo seems so mundane and innocent but on the other hand it's actually me allowing my need to control the interaction, actually get in the way of me having sex. I could at any point just be like, "alright let's meet thursday at your place and grab a dirnk and head out from there"... especially cause then it's like boom she gives me the address and it's a done deal. but instead, I've been actively trying to make her come to me and chill with me while I do whatever I was gonna do either way.
This is something I do with most of the girls I meet though and it probably gets in the way of a few potential fucks. Like I refuse to sacrifice anything that I want to do in order so that I can go fuck a girl. And honestly, the only negative I see in it is that it's getting in the way of me fucking BUT even that I feel like is simply a result of the level of game which I currently have. I mean the mindset is totally cool, I just need to get my game up to the level where I can get the girl to commit to coming over to watch the knicks game.
Anyway- long post. I get what you're saying with the ice cream post and I'll throw somethin like that in there. Or I may just go and meet her at her place and do the damn thing. impulsivity, excitement, investment... yup- makes sense. Lots to work on with my text game.
I actually didn't even recognize how I was letting this sort of mini power battle get in the way of the fuck. In one sense, this convo seems so mundane and innocent but on the other hand it's actually me allowing my need to control the interaction, actually get in the way of me having sex. I could at any point just be like, "alright let's meet thursday at your place and grab a dirnk and head out from there"... especially cause then it's like boom she gives me the address and it's a done deal. but instead, I've been actively trying to make her come to me and chill with me while I do whatever I was gonna do either way.
This is something I do with most of the girls I meet though and it probably gets in the way of a few potential fucks. Like I refuse to sacrifice anything that I want to do in order so that I can go fuck a girl. And honestly, the only negative I see in it is that it's getting in the way of me fucking BUT even that I feel like is simply a result of the level of game which I currently have. I mean the mindset is totally cool, I just need to get my game up to the level where I can get the girl to commit to coming over to watch the knicks game.
Anyway- long post. I get what you're saying with the ice cream post and I'll throw somethin like that in there. Or I may just go and meet her at her place and do the damn thing. impulsivity, excitement, investment... yup- makes sense. Lots to work on with my text game.