Bad Job at prizing myself...
So I had my 3rd date with this chick, no sex...
Me: play with him
Her: 2 massages in one day?
Me: Just stroke him
She is just stroking my cheeks,
Me: you can stroke it with your mouth
Me: You're not really a team player....
her: I'm sleeping.
Me: do you want to sleep here? (not needy voice at all)
Her: maybe next time
Me: well I have rules, you got to be naked.
Her: //some BS about cold
Her: Are you pissed?
Her: Do you do that to every chick who don't have sex with you?
Me: (laughing) No.
Her: Will you come back?
Me: yes, just answering some messages
Her: are you peeved?
Me: no, I'm never angry at people
Me: are you mad now?
Her: (not sure what she said, probably no - but she is obviously is)
Me: message me when you're home ( it's like 23:40)
She: Ok. good night.
dude. gay AF
you had her in your bed and that's all you did? Best believe if you've got her there she wants some dick.
c'mon, I feel like the issue is you're not being physical at all throughout the date. Did you set the precedent of physicality right off the bat or did you wait to "touch her lightly" till she was in your bed?
She wanted to fuck you genius, you have to understand high value escalation. Many times I'm fully naked before the girl has taken anything off. I get comments like "you're so comfortable with yourself" while she's stroking me just having a regular conversation. Other times I'm the one agressively pursuing, shoving my hand down her pants with a cheeky smile, in these intances she looks to me to see how comfortable I am with it, I've had girls call me out and reject me on it the first time only to see that I'm unphased and surrender to it the 2nd time.
p.s. it's SUPER important to calibrate when physically escalating, it's what seperates actual game from being a kino deploying nerdvirgin
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Her: Are you pissed?
Me: No, just answering some messages.
4 minutes of me doing my stuff she is in my bed
Her: Do you do that to every chick who don't have sex with you?
Me: (laughing) No.
Dude, you realize it was YOUR fault the situation even got here, BUT this is also gay AF.
You're being passive agressive (been there homie, DON'T do it)
Typical Rsd lmr story.. lol.
1. Stop getting bottlenecked at the kiss. Been saying this for years. I hammer it in hammer it in y'all still do that dumb shit. Besides, a kiss in this context is validation-seeking, women recognize this immediately and refuse such a beta behavior.
2. Express disapproval. And don't lie. Wtf? Your emotions are powerful tools in your arsenal. Use them.
3. Lead emotionally. You ain't doing this at all honky. You're like an Rsd automaton thinking watching enough Rsd self-help "love your inner child" youtube vids is gonna get a girl magically spreading her legs for you. Lol
There's a lot more, but that's covered in my training program, not here. ;)
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
i eat ass first date
I've only eaten ass once on a first date. She pimped me. Damn Vegas nurses..
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Lol you like eating ass dawg?
Jihad
what is "ass dawg"?
It's like german shepherd. But tastier
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Great feedback, thank you guys. Most rsd guys would have said that nothing I could do better, make her hornier while fingering... and that chicks from Eastern Europe don't fuck fast.
1) touching - Before getting back to mine we went for a short walk, I was touching her there a bit (cheek, shoulder, back) - my hands were really cold thou
Also was lifting her up a bit, grabbing her waist and saying I like it before going to the bed. But yeah, I felt the lack of creative touches and was fixated on the kiss on the first date.
2) disapproval - yes, should've said to her instead of being a passive-aggressive bitch. I didn't like doing that but was too pussy to articulate it properly. I was quite turned off by her not doing anything while I jerked off. I'm pretty sure she wanted to continuously delay sex and aiming for a relationship. She was asking about exes and also more of my life and me than most chicks.
3) leading emotions - yeah complete lack of it. Gotta do the training for that I guess :)
Is there anything I could do now at least to make my bitchy behavior less awkward?
I mean.. it was your bitchy behavior not hers. Haha
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I could be wrong about this, but it is my understanding you can't really be taking your cock out as the last ditch effort. It actually greatly reduces it's power the next time you do it. There is a big difference between high value escalation (focusing on your body and pleasures, such as taking the dick out) and taking your dick out to break her persistent LMR.
http://manwhore.org/forum/content/tinder-cat-sexting-and-memes-lay-report
This was a solid interaction that side stepped the LMR quite well.
but dude SERIOUSLY taking your dick out after persistent LMR can actually be very creepy. I had a bad experience with that.
fuck how do I edit these posts? Ok i'm just triple posting
Like if it was HOURS of playing ass grab you can't just do that. You're going to be taking your cock out once you effectively navigate, which is going to involve prizing yourself and dick first.
thanks Meow,
Hm, I don't think that either of us considered it as a last attempt. But I see how it can be like this. I didn't plan to act so bitchy just had a point where I was like fuck this, it doesn't make sense.
Thinking back about it I should've gone back to the bed when she asked if I ever come back. The 'freeze out' might have worked there. But I was too long in this stupid passive-aggressive phase so she gave up on me...
Also, she hasn't reacted to my text since then.