How do you properly overcome LMR?
Had a model on Saturday that I pulled out of the club and back to my hotel lobby. She refused to make out with me in the club (tried once), but got her in isolation and she was the first to go for the make out.
We actually grabbed drinks outside of the club, at the casion bar (wynn & encore) before I pulled her back to the hotel... so time was put in for to build rapport or w/e. Prolly pulled her back to my hotel after an hour or so together.
So after the bar, I lead her to the elevator and we get to the top floor. I stepped out first, and she was like "see ya" and pressed the elevator to go back down. I was like wtf, hopped in the other elevator and raced down to the casino floor again. Search for her and found her walking towards the exit. Rush towards her and grabbed her behind her head dominantly, and dragged her back to the elevator (it was more calibrated than it sounds, she was loving it.)
we get up to my car with no other problem. Instead going for car bang, I got her in the front seat and we were driving back to my hotel. Ofc she asked "where we were going" and I think I responded "to the afterparty",
She was taking sips of vodka from my flask & bottle that was filled with liquor. Get to my hotel parking lot (circus circus), and I was leading her in with a fun vibe (If already pulling I try not to seduce til sex location). So we get inside the door and I was leading her to the elevator. This is when she gave me hardcore resistance. She refused to go up the elevator, would walk away a bit. But I would caveman her against the wall and we
would makeout, bite each other necks, and I would fingerbang her. I gave her some dirty talked and judging by her facial expressions, she was getting super aroused.
**Through the entire LMR deal, at random times she would just look at me seductively and start licking her top lips.... either teasing me or hinting for BJ actions
Tried again to pull to elevator. Picked her up caveman style, and tried going into the elevator, but she would grab the walls, or the elevator door and resist hard, while giggling and such.
**Maybe should be more comforting/ give her plausible deniability? I'm thinking on her first resistance on going into the elevator, I could've just looked at her weird/confused and say something like "we're just going up for drinks" or "we just checking out the afterparty", etc.
So after she resisted again, we went outside and she tried to call a taxi. I told her we were at the Rivera to buy time. We would continue making-out, against some random Honda Civic. She was sitting on the trunk, and I would pull her down to dry hump her against it, fingerbang her, licking her thighs and what not.
At one point she messing around on her phone, leaning against the car in doggy style position. So I went butt to nut on her, which she reciprocated by sticking her butt out more. I pulled my dick out and tried to stick it in, but she slapped my hand away. I put it back in my pants.
**had my dick at too when I was dry humping her while she was on top of the car. Prolly put my dick away too early instead of keeping it out and presisting with it. We were outside so I was a bit nervous
Eventually I just took her back to her hotel, and she wanted to keep making out. But that was it.
So my thinking is, I needed more comfort, deniability, and maybe keep presisting with my dick out.
any thoughts? LMR game is the weakest part of my game right now
Btw, she was on her period and had a huge crimson streak down her light colored panties.
She wasn't wearing a tampon, so either she fucked a guy earlier and didn't care to put another tampon in, or she didn't expected to be on her period that early.
or maybe it's a new trend to New york models to not give a fuck about being filthy.
prolly spent 2-3 hours in this interaction. Didn't take her back til like 5:30am
First and foremost when things start entering this kind of a dynamic where you're actively pursuing sex and she's actively denying you, you need to STOP. Nothing good will come of this dynamic you have to back up and out of it. Girls get major validation from having a dude chase them for sex.
You got to start using some "quizzical" appraising type energy to your vibe. Screening. Calm her the fuck down out of that dynamic.
That is the best "LMR Busting" post I've read in a while. Super short.
So on point.
"First and foremost when things start entering this kind of a dynamic where you're actively pursuing sex and she's actively denying you, you need to STOP. Nothing good will come of this dynamic you have to back up and out of it. Girls get major validation from having a dude chase them for sex. "
thanks for the reply. Hard to get at first, but I think ya'll implying to not be so pushy, then the girl already knows she control the interaction... but instead display being the prize
That's step #1. But yes take a look at LMR Series part I. Take a look at the LR "Prizing my Dick". Interactions like these are showcased in these and a few others.
http://manwhore.org/forum/content/text-convo-hottest-chick-my-school
read through this discussion from start to finish. It is an experience I had were I handled LMR VERY POORLY. Think about what I did wrong