How to turn this situation around?
Hey guys,
long story short: Met a girl I really like (stunner) at school / study group, at first she seemed to show signs of attraction (touching etc.). She went away for a while but no longer shows ANY signs of being attracted to me. I tried setting up a date via text. No reply from her at all.
Recently, I texted her about seeing her "twin" (she doesn't have one) in a coffee shop. She did reply to that one and I started making a joke about how I almost approached her "twin" and how that would have been the worst pick up line ever. No reply from her after that.
Is there any way I can turn this around? She's stunning. I should probably also mention that I have a bit of one-itits for her (crushing hard).
Cheers and if you need more info let me know!
How have you been "gaming" her aside from sending these horrible canned texts, lol?
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I did see a super hot girl who looked a bit like her at said coffee shop so it wasn't 100% canned.
To be totally honest back when she would show (what I perceived to be) signs of interest I did not act. When she came back she was fairly cold towards me. We did have a couple of casual FB convos while she was abroad for the term.
So there hasn't been a lot of "game" so far. One thing I'm worried about is overdoing it because she seems to be conservative (she once told me how she thought most women dressed slutty during summer lol). Probably related to her being half white half philipina.
When I tried to set up the meet up I made the mistake of asking her when she was free. No reply so I was more concrete, telling her when I wanted to meet up etc. No reply.
how old are you.
it seems like you're holding back A LOT because you're worried what she'll think, and on a larger scale, what other people will think.
I'm 22. And you are right, I do tend to filter myself especially around her. I'm not sure this situation can be "fixed" but I'm very open to suggestions. Relationship/Intimacy with this girl would be awesome.
I've been thinking: Next time I see her in person (or via text) I could just call her out on her behaviour? Something like: You need to work on your discipline, girl. Or maybe tell her that she's forgetful etc. Not in a needy way, more playful/assertive?
She hasn't done anything wrong. You need to act more charismatic around her. Engage people more, tell jokes, be socially dominant. Make her want you
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Thanks for your reply man! Do you have any tipps/know of any resources on how to become more charismatic/dominant/engaging or is it just something that comes with socialising more?
Well I do have a paid training program dedicated to exactly that LOL. But if that's not an option for you I would suggest watching my video logs on YouTube to see it in action, watch Julien and Jeffy from Rsd, and start associating with loud charismatic dudes.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
So my buddy just texted me that he's in the same library as her and now all that one-itis shit is coming back. I feel like I have to re-engage her. Get her to meet up etc but she'll drop text convos so quickly (if she replies at all) it's not even funny. Maybe I'll try messaging her when I can see that she's actually online (I'm using whatsapp with her). Does the "witty banter for a while then suggest meeting up" tactic still apply if you've choded out with a girl before (only made chode-y, non-sexual, beta etc. moves)?
I'm a bit worried that it won't work because she sees me as a chode now. But how can I change that perception without seeing her in person if she won't reply to texts...
Stop engaging her over text that shit is over. If you know where she's at in person, be cool about it, but show up and talk to her. Other than that:
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Ok, got the message. Text game over. It would be really awesome if you could take a look at my (short) FB convo with that other girl I met (it's in a separate thread: http://manwhore.org/forum/content/met-girl-fb-game-possible-boyfriend). I think I might have fucked that up a little and need some help coming back from it. If you ever need an example of really shitty text/FB game feel free to use my stuff :-)