I want to get a girlfriend/main chick and still bang on the side- How do I make this a reality?
Haha. Actually I think Aequitas is cool, he's got to let the rest of his shit ketchup. But yes the passive aggressive attempts to maintain a "one up" status quo has got to go.
Agreed. Aequitas kills it and he has too much value to let other people effect his emotional state.
Haha. Actually I think Aequitas is cool, he's got to let the rest of his shit ketchup. But yes the passive aggressive attempts to maintain a "one up" status quo has got to go.
Agreed. Aequitas kills it and he has too much value to let other people effect his emotional state.
Yea, ego rears its head in ugly ways. Trying to work on that tho =/
I'm sure Aequitas just wants this thread to fucking die at this point lmao, but I have to make the point that it's not such a basic bitch "rsdn junkie" issue like "Don't let other people effect your emotional state, bro." PFF. Who gives a fuck. Honestly he probably stopped giving a shit about stuff like that awhile ago, it's just that there's not really been established a true, good roadmap to relationships with females that doesn't include some sort of perpetual one-upping to maintain a "proper" dynamic. And with as much supposed competition as there is out there plus yes the proverbial "shit-testing" nature of women, it's easy to fall into a rhythm of simply squashing inconsistencies rather than dealing with them full frontal. Plus yes, 75% of people are so fucking childish they won't listen to reason. Men and women have to learn how to be wrong, with strength and grace and surety.
I'm sure Aequitas just wants this thread to fucking die at this point lmao, but I have to make the point that it's not such a basic bitch "rsdn junkie" issue like "Don't let other people effect your emotional state, bro." PFF. Who gives a fuck. Honestly he probably stopped giving a shit about stuff like that awhile ago, it's just that there's not really been established a true, good roadmap to relationships with females that doesn't include some sort of perpetual one-upping to maintain a "proper" dynamic. And with as much supposed competition as there is out there plus yes the proverbial "shit-testing" nature of women, it's easy to fall into a rhythm of simply squashing inconsistencies rather than dealing with them full frontal. Plus yes, 75% of people are so fucking childish they won't listen to reason. Men and women have to learn how to be wrong, with strength and grace and surety.
Lol as much as it stings to hear some of this shit, it is totally necessary to hear this. Totally. Appreciating the situation and learning sometimes becomes an afterthought with important shit looming over your head.
In other words, it's time to lean into the pain.