Lets Talk About It: Creating and Maintaining Friends w/ Benefits Relationships
My niggas!
Lets talk about creating and maintaining friends with benefits relationships. A few of us were briefly discussing this topic in another thread and I think it's worthy of it's own.
I am going to generate discussion by providing some real life examples of girls in my life. I don't have a ton of experience in this field because over the past few months most of the girls I've banged I didn't find to be girls I wanted to see for the long term, they either did not logisically did not fit into my life (went away fo school etc.) or the connection just was not great. Below I will share examples of two girls that I WOULD like to keep around.
I have two stories to share which fall on different ends of the spectrum. The first girl was a FWB situation that only lasted two dates (both leading to sex) because it was poorly maintained. The second girl I have been seeing for around 2 months now (8+ dates) and it appears to be
LETS DO THIS!
GIRL #1: Failed FWB relationship
https://www.manwhore.org/forum/content/seamless-tinder-text-game-and-she-flaked-what-went-wrong-update-lay-report-sexy-tattooed-gir
This chick was VERY difficult to get out, very emotional and flakey. Long story short, once I finally got her out we banged and it was AMAZIING. It was some awesome sexy for me and she was outspoken about really enjoying it too. Read the thread above to get the details, it's a fantastic LR.
Fast forward a few day she ghosts me. I hoped on the forum and we straightened her out real good. I ended up getting her out againa and railing her in my car. Again, pretty mind sexy experience for me. This is chick isn't even that hot but I really enjoyed banging her, the dirty talk was A++. I was so turned on that I busted fairly quick in the car but I know how to handle situations like that and we still still had a kickass time. I ate her pussy for a while and had her speechless at some points curling into a cute lil ball as she orgasmed.
https://www.manwhore.org/forum/content/when-projecting-negativity-viable... <----full write up
...I think it's pretty clear I loved having sex with this chick
After the second date I went on a trip for a week. I didn't text her for probably a good 8-10 days later. I did, however, send out some snapchats to say hello but they weren't extremely personalized either and she rarely responded. Obviously I did not engage with her enough and deepen our intimacy because once I started texted her again things weren't the same.
Me: Been thinking about getting another big wheeler. Lets say I pick you up in a day or so and we ride
Me: pfff what did someone lock you in the dollar tree bathroom
Her: Are you insulting me?
Me: lol I was joking boo, I thought it was funny
Me: hows your day treatin yah :)
Me: I'm in soci class surfing the web not paying attention to the teacher cuz imma bad boy
Her: my day is faboulous, and ouii bad boy, sounds about right
Me: yah you know me
Me: now im in the library stealing the school supplies
Me: its just a matter of time before ms. officer comes along and arrests me
Me: honey boo boo take a break from the runway and check yah phone
Me: Hi baby J
Me: Im on a bus in (town) public transit is the best lol
Me: how are yah
Her: Whats up B, hows (state) treatin ya
Me: Just got back pumpkin
Me: It was long weekend of being a frat star lol could never do that all the time
Me: did you start soccer yet?
Her: Yes I did
Me: score any goals yet kitty kat
Me: or are you water girl :P
Her:pshhh im not water girl :P we have a tourney at your school homie
Me: whens that homie
Her: I thinks its april 20 or something
Me: im going to make a huge sign of your face and show up lol
Me: ill run the field and steal the ball from you
Me: my defense is manchester united quality mixed with super human strength
Her: hahahah id like to see you try
Me: haha I jsut saw your snap
Me: I bet you cant even handle a full burrito dork
Her: pshh you doubt me too much
Me: lols but guess what tater tot
Me: you usually prove me wrong lol
Her: This is very true, I must say
Me: BUT chipotle burrito is a real challenge
Me: lets pretend to be health inspectors and steal some burritos
Her: pshh! come on, now!
Her: lets do it
Me: whats your sched like im free (days)
Me: If yah keep taking so long to respond ill tell everyone about your booty tattoo
Me: But ill tell em its a hello kitty logo
Her: is that a threat?
Me: yes, yes it is babe
Me: wow yeah im gonna tie you up and you can explain yourself missy <---she was very rough in bed and talked about getting handcuffs n' shit for the next time we banged
Me: I think im pregnant with your child
Her: you think so?
Me: damn sure of it oo
Me: twins actually
Me: and you think you can just get away without paying child support
Me: shameful
Her: ill be a good dad
Her: tis ok
Me: good you owe the kiddes food
Me: especially me
Me: ive been eating yogurt and pickles for MONTHS
Her: thats so true, food for everyone
Her: soooo
Me: lol hi cinderella doll face I miss yah <--this was reengagement cuz' I was busy and the convo was going nowhere
Her: Do yah
Me: ye sive been doing top secret russain spy missions and it comforts me when I think of your pizza sweatshirt
Me: luckily you didnt actually smell like pizza
Me: ughh
Her: Omg (crying laughing emojis)
Me: haha lets kick it like a soccer mom soon
Her: yeah?
Me: yah I have netflix and I need to write movie reviews for the blind
Her: so kind
Me: dont be soggy poptard don't act like you're not intrigued
Her: excuse me?
Me: you and I could out compete rotten tomatoes any day. Soon we will be in hollywood on the ref carpet
Me: red* im going dumb
Her: yeah, glad you think highly boo
Her: so nice
Her: i'm surprised
Me: why are you surpised buhbs
Me: always have fun with you
Me:you bring fresh new persepctives to the table
Me: did you think I didn't like you or something
Me: I miss my cute lil tattooed wal-mart parking lot bandit
Her: wal-mart parking lot bandit??? (cry laughing emoji)
Me: hahaha :)
Me: you were an adorable rule breaker
Me: whatcha been up to
Me: I hope yah been nice to freshman next door
Her: ive been nice, don't worry, ive been working soccer and school. You?
Me: I feels yah lifes been mad busy lately
Me: Im thinking about changing my major and/or schools so ive been heavily invested in figuring that out
Her: what do you wana change it?
Me: (details) don't wanna be in a ton of debt and married to one career
Me: unless I find me a nice milf to take of me :)
Her: thats very true haha
Her: marketing sounds ehh too but youll prob have much more opportunites since its a wide range
Me: thats what im thinking I knew youd get it pumpkin
Me: soo ive been on a mission to try every drink at starbucks
Me: heard there is new cold brew
Me: lets check it out and give it bad reviews online :)
Her: you enjoy starbucks that much? haha
Me: I have one at school and I need to spend dining bucks. I don't buy the other junk thats where the dough goes
Me: but YES look at me, I love v-neck shirts
Her: ahahahahha :)
Her: omg
Me: when are you free this week I wanna kick it with you
Her: not sure
Her: arent you on break
Me: lol nah not anymore
Her: You dont have ester break? haha
Me: im free fri and sat night
Me: nah
Me: we have class
Her: damn, that sucks
Me: they gave you fuckers a break!?
Her: yes lol :P
Me: damn yeah my school is run by money hungry fuck bags zero chance they do something ethical like that
Her: ahah
Me: (meme of chickens playing soccer)
Me: bet that you?
Me: you got skills!
Her: cocks playing ball hahaha omg
Me: lol oh no careful with that vodka punkin
Me: ill send a wheel chair your way
Me: hittin the bars tonight?
Me: im ALMOST 21? :/
Her: 23*
Me: pshhh im talking about me, myself, and I
Me: we know you're an old grandma
Me: so done with this school work soon the school will start paying ME
Her: im not old haha well, kind of haha and you work for your school?
Me: its ok I wont tell anyone about the cobwebs down there?
Ok, obviously there is some strange passive aggressiveness from her. My texting was not fantastic but I would seed dates and she would agree and then be a difficult flakey mess. This has been going on for around 3 weeks. I tried to get her on the phone once and left a weak voicemail and she never got back to me (this was somewhere mid way through this convo above). There is not enough intimacy here at all, it sucks.
Can anyone speak about this and where I went wrong?
..moving on
GIRL #2: FWB relationship that is getting a little too serious
http://manwhore.org/forum/content/i-want-get-girlfriendmain-chick-and-st...
This is a high school girl that I talked to for 3 months before I finally got her out. She put up all these barriers and we didn't actually have sex until the 4th date (blowjob on the 3rd). Obviously the way things were going it was more of your conventional disney love story. I actually thought she was going to be special and I was going to date her but after we had sex I was SUPER dissapointed. The sex was awful (I speak about it in the full write up above if anyone is interested). She was a complete starfish and could barely dirty talk. She actually reminded me of my old gf when I was in highschool lol. I remembered back to my HS days when I was a dick to my girl because I wasn't leading enough in bed and having ED issues. I took a step back and contemplated that maybe sex with this chick was my fault and that I would give it another go.
I went on some more dates with her and tried to bring the best out of her. The sex got a lot better BUT it never got the point where it is mindblowing like I'd like it to be. She obviously has some hang ups about sex because she is extremely self concious in bed (doesn't want the lights on etc..) She really just gets in her own way, tries to tell me how to fuck her (harder, too harder, slow down, blah blah) and it's just not that GREAT, it's good but not great.
..now just an aside I like hanging with the girl I do like having her around and sex is good enough for me. She is not up to par to date though.
She has slowly started to push a relationship agenda on me, but has not said anything yet. I remember one time she was looking for her panties and thought she found someone elses and said "oh god I would have been so upset." I text her every 2-3 days but it is nothing too crazy. Is this too often? and we text exclusively to plan meet ups. Sometimes I just call her on the phone. It is very lovey dovey but I keep my distance and she knows I live an independent life.
Recently she has been focusing WAY to much emotional energy on me and I don't like it. I now understand why girls hate when guys do this. When spent the afternnoon together yesterday got lunch and everything. It really dawned upon me that she thinks i'm her Bf. She was trying to hold my hand in public which I allowed for a bit then I would frame it as "weird PDA." She really was turning me off all day. I just wanted to have a casual afternoon with a girl not something so serious.
We head back to my room and at this point i'm actually depressed about the whole situation because I know she's going to get hurt and it makes me sad. She's pretty sexy and I like her personality a lot but THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY IS NOT THERE. I have had much better sex with girls that were not as conventionally as hot as she is. I know she is sexy, but just not something that drives ME crazy. This is very strange way to measure sexual chemistry but girls I am really into I'll be more than glad to eat them out, for her I don't enjoy it. She doesn't smell bad or anything I just can't get emotionally invested enough to like it.
I decide that i'm going to REALLY push it in bed and see If I can bring things to the next level. It's like 2 pm so the room is fully lit. This alone made things more intense. She did a lot better job at letting go and getting into it, she was obviously a lot wetter than usual. A few times earlier she would get very dry down there because she was so tense about sex (or maybe the sexual chem is just not there!). We bang and it's pretty good. Good enough to come back for more, but like beforehand she is not driving me crazy.
I have been busy with school and work she is the only girl I have been seeing for the past 3 weeks (sex 1-2 a week). It really became clear to me that her alone is NOT enough to satisfy me as I man. I do not feel satisfied and I miss the hustle. She doesn't challenge me enough, it's wayyyy to easy. She needs to develop her girl game and sexual game a lot and clear up her self concious attitude because it bleeds through everything. She looks at things from a victim mentality and is constantly trying to speaks of minor flaws she has. Last time I saw her she kept on talking about how her ex. was a dick to her and I honestly understand why, if I wasn't an abundant dude I would probably channel frustration her way too. At one point she talked about her prom date possiby trying to bang her and I almost told her to do it, but I did not because that would break her heart.
I want to continue seeing her or at least be friends but I can't date this fuckin girl. I deserve to date a girl that i'm blown away by. The whole situation is making me feel like shit. All want is a long term FWB relationship but I obviously lead her on and I feel awful about it. I'm not sure what to do next. I can not just cut off communications I'm too deep into it.
I'm thinking about sitting her down and explaining that maybe we shouldn't see each other much anymore before things get too serious. I'm not going to give her any of the "It's not you, its me" horseshit. I just want her to know that I need to be independent single dude for a while.I really do care enough about her to cut it off between it becomes sour. If necesarry I will even explain that she is turning me off with the way she is acting. I'd rather have her learn from her mistakes then take this as heart break and become toxic with other dudes.
I finally went on another date with a new girl and I felt a lot better about the whole situation. I really do enjoy having this girl around but I need these other girls. She's pleasant to have around but when she is the only girl it's overwhelming. The only way she could win my heart would be if she really stepped up her game and took some Manwhore training or something :P
...Phewwww. There yah have it boys. Two ends of the spectrum regarding FWB relationships. Share some input and share your experiences!!!
Cliffnotes:
girl #1 is very independent and the relationship died out quickly. I really enjoy bangin her through
girl #2 is not very independant and It's a turn off. She wants to date me, but i'm not crazy enough about her to do that. Would still like to have her as FWB
In a perfect world I can have both of these girls around as FWB's. I still find myself getting wrapped up in the emotions of it all. At the end of the day, I'm only going to do the monogomous thing with someone I'm REALLY REALLY into.
Off topic..but
HOLY SHIT I GET IT. I actually understand why hot girls act out, they want to create emotional stimulation that is NOT being provided to them by the man. I'm acting like a hot girl HAHAHAHA. Girl #2 is not providing enough emotional stimulation for me and thats what keeps her from being relationship quality in my mind. I remember she tried to challenge me once over text and I was like PSHHHHHHHHHH WUTTTT and I just ran through it like the kool aid man cuz' it was so weak.
This is pretty fuckin amazing epiphany. When you are challeneged rise to the fuckin occasion!
You're going to need to explain things to girl #2 or she's just going to end up getting crushed again like the last guy and develop even more of a complex. She's a high school chick, she's not very developed she's got a lot of insecurities. You need to help her get past these. This is also one way of creating "professional distance". Lol. You can become her "teacher" not her boyfriend. She'll be down
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
That's an awesome plan, I can vibe with that. Thanks!
Also.. are you still seducing them physically? Or are you mostly focusing on yourself
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Im currently seeing a high school chick as well. Oh my sweet tight clean 17 year old pussy & butt hole and perky tits (16 is the age of consent where I live so I'm in the clear fuckers lol)
Haha physicality aside, she's very self aware and smarter than a lot of people her age. I like her but she does a lot of drugs (xanax,Molly,coke,weed) multiple times a week and with guys (she tells me about all of these party nights) so I'm assuming shes likely to suck other dicks randomly which makes me not want to date her (let me know if this is the wrong mentality). But I've had the same conversations with her about prom and what not
My thing when I meet a new chick is I try to see her at least once a week. If we have sex each time we hang out, in approximately two months she will be in love with me and want to be exclusive. As far as texting goes I only use it when coordinating logistics for the next date. The highschooler I'm seeing now wants to talk all the time but I making myself more scarce by the day by only texting her a few days out of the week.
My advice for girl #2 is to not talk to her until she text you and get her even more into chasing mode. I don't think you should have a logistical conversation with her about what yalls label is unless SHE brings it up. Just show her that you will provide good emotions whenever she talks to you and she will be hitting you up on the regular
Yeah but this girl's a completely different type. That'll probably backfire. Meow what's this girl's family situation?
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I touch her and try and make her feel sexy but she is so sexually underdeveloped (starfish) that the only way to stay involved is bang her the way I like. I let her ride me n' shit but it's not necessarily that fun. I'm not even sure when she is orgssming cuz she is constantly telling me to bang her harder or slow down, which I don't like one bit. She just doesn't appear to value herself sexually, it is very clear how she carries herself.
Her family life seems normal she has an old sister that's my age who appears to be really fuckin hot. She claims they argue a lot then other days she says they're good friends, who knows what's up with that. She has said that her sis says nasty stuff to her sometimes. Parents are together and seem to treat he right maybe a tad overprotective (she sneaks out to bang me lol).
example: I wanted to bang her in front of the mirror and she's like "ewwww no I'm gross." Which was a huge turn off to hear cuz' thats a fun experience.
So yeah you're her first love 'n shit. Lol
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
LMAO!
You take her virginity Meow?
Maybezzz :p haven't cared to ask.
Anyone have anything to say about girl #1!!!
Maybezzz :p haven't cared to ask.Anyone have anything to say about girl #1!!!
Hm. Just a hunch, but maybe she's doing this out of self-preservation? In other words, you might be coming across like a fuckboy and she's not trying to "go through that again." This would explain the cold shoulder when you didn't hit her up for 8-10 days.
As for where you went wrong? Regardless of whether the above is appilcable, some chicks you just CANNOT fall off the radar like that without meeting some resistance lol. Me thinks that's where the passive aggressiveness is coming from. You also aren't dead in the water just yet.
Questions:
- Why didn't you reach out immediately afterwards? (that night/day after)
- Do you think she might think "you're out of her league?"
- How confident/secure of a girl do you think she is?
Dude. You already said she was a virgin. Haha
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Questions:
- Do you think she might think "you're out of her league?"
PFFF! ;)
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Meow wrote:
Maybezzz :p haven't cared to ask.Anyone have anything to say about girl #1!!!
Hm. Just a hunch, but maybe she's doing this out of self-preservation? In other words, you might be coming across like a fuckboy and she's not trying to "go through that again." This would explain the cold shoulder when you didn't hit her up for 8-10 days.
As for where you went wrong? Regardless of whether the above is appilcable, some chicks you just CANNOT fall off the radar like that without meeting some resistance lol. Me thinks that's where the passive aggressiveness is coming from. You also aren't dead in the water just yet.
Questions:
- Why didn't you reach out immediately afterwards? (that night/day after)
- Do you think she might think "you're out of her league?"
- How confident/secure of a girl do you think she is?
Ahh shit I didn't reach out for 12 days!! cuz' she kept on framing it as some super casual thing "lets smoke a blunt sometime and chill" type of thing. I was away on vaca and was busy for those 12 days too. She was starting up soccer and some new classes so I assumed she was too busy and it was SO FUCKIN DIFFICULT to get her out that second time so I guess I did not want to deal with her.
it took me a while to realize that I enjoyed fucking her so much lol. FUCK, i'm an idiot she probably think I pump and dumped her and then came creeping back for more. All my fault.
She could totally feel i'm out of her league too or at least not the type of girl I would be into. First off, she's not a super hottie by any means she's fairly average (looks good naked tho :P). She's a Puerto Rican city girl that goes to the school next to mine most likely on some sort of big scholarship, and i'm a suburban white boy. After we banged she said something about thinking that we wouldn't get along because different socio-economic/ethnic backgrounds. This was stupid but at one point she thought I was talking down to her about assuming her music choices or some shit LOL. Aside from all the superficial shit, she kept on saying that she never met anyone that could tallk like me when I banged her! But it's not like she doesn't have game herself. She's a good fuck she has serious skills everywhere I assume she has a steady flow of D when she's wanted it.
She seems like a very independent girl with a poor upbringing. Her dad is not around and she lives with her mom in a little apartment when she's not at school. She told me she doesn't have a lot of friends and it seems like she may habitually smoke weed on the daily. So not very secure.
Dude. You already said she was a virgin. Haha
I think I made the strong assumption at some point yes lol
What's your sex talk with her like?
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
At first it was a good mix of dominant and emotional
- "your pussy is so wet, it feels amazing on my dick"
- "you're a dirty lil girl you told your parents you were watching a movie..is this a movie?"
- "Gawd I love fucking your lil body"
- "You sure you can handle this..you're just a lil girl"
- "cum for me baby look at me"
Then It was very clear to me that she can't dirty talk and if she was responding it was a very faint whipser under her breath. There was nothing to play off of and it sucked. Except when she tells me to fuck her harder/slower which is annoying. Maybe that IS her dirty talk? Recently I accomdated to her and made it a lot more emotional and hypnotic so she could just relax and stop being so tense about the whole thing. I can get her to say some stuff now but it's boring just like "yes fuck me"
- "Baby relax im gonna fuck you REAL slow...in and out..in and out...look at me"
- "Your pussy is so wet, like waterfalls..waterfalls..waterfalls" <---I was actually trying to her her wetter cuz' she's so tense that sometimes it's just not wet enough
- "baby you look so sexy with my cock in your mouth"
Honestly I slowed down on the dirty talk over time because it was like talking to a sack of potatoes. Maybe i'm just spoiled by some of the other girls over the past few months talked very sexy in bed, called me daddy, said they were dirty little sluts, etc. and thats what I like :) she wants disney channel sex .
Women don't come equiped with dirty talking skills, dude. Lmao. I feel like you're acting surprised by things you totally shouldn't be surprised by. Derp
She's not very familiar with her own sexuality? Uh duhh. She doesn't have any experience.
Her dirty talk is little whispered stirrings under her breath? Yeah duh. She's just getting used to how good a penis feels inside her.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Ugh fuckity I'm being an asshole. I'll start writing up a lesson plan cuz' this ho is gonna get schooled on the art of sexytime.
I have a Ph. Dick in Coitus Sciences
Remember it's not just about orgasm or pleasure. You are supposed to strengthen her, show her things about herself, put her in touch with her core, melt the babyfat off her.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Should I explain all of this to her? I still don't want to be her bf lol
Ok clearly you have no idea what you're doing, so no.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Whatever. At least you're not going to betray her publicly like your other girlfriend
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Ok thats irrelevant i'll just bring the best out of her I guess
Yeah you want to solidify her sense of self, get her in touch with her core, etc. You can do this sexually. But yeah clearly this girl doesn't have a lot of self-development (most young people don't), gotta show her the ropes. Was joking earlier (halfway) ;)
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I'm not 100% sure how to do this...
In bed, i'll let her lead at some points and show that her game has a real reaction on me (a positive one). Give her space to express herself and not judge her.
In everyday conversation, I'll stir things up and see if I can get her to tease ME more. I really wish she would just challenge me more often lol. She seems to really enjoy the cocky humor where I speak about myself like i'm the greatest human being thats ever walked on water, I need to get her on that shit.
Imagine creating an emotional blueprint of affirmations, that fill in her core, her self-trust, and her sense of self. And then imagine nailing it in with your dick. How would you go about doing that
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
OHHHH. Got it :)
We are going to see the new fast & furious. Hoopefully Vin Diesel can throw some subliminal affirmations her way while she licks me head to toe :)
For reals i'm gonna give all this a try and report back.
We didn't have time to kick it after the movie, so no sexytime. No sexytime in the theatre either, I know how lame of me. On the way home I got her to sing some Rihanna to me cuz' she's been taking lesson for years, woah, that added some womanly flare to her. I've got to seed that out of her more often.
lol girl #1 hits me up from one of my snapchats "That voice man.." lol
Aequitas I think you were right maybe she thinks im out of her league or something
Woah, we finally had some good sex. We went hiking and I got a mountain top BJ and fingered her, then I tried to bang her her in the car but she wasn't down cuz' it was a weird spot so I told her I was too busy to bang her at my place. She was really open about being dissapointed she couldn't get some dick. I teased her and told her she should order meat balls and breadsticks for dinner instead.lol. Ended up inviting her in for a quickie and she got really excited but keeps saying I am banging her out of pity (there goes that lack of confidence). I explain that I just really want to bang her thats all.
Gawwwwwd damn she got my bed soaking fucking wet. It was 5 minutes of slow, hypnotic, emotional sex, Only five fucking minutes and she had a womanly glow to her afterwards. Some concepts I worked with include:
- I told her it was good that she is soaking wet and that she should enjoy every moment of it--had her repeat back to me that she loves getting wet for me
- I told her she was sexy and that she was a big girl that enjoys getting fucked--again, I had her repeat back to me
- I told her to relax and enjoy the sex and that it is OK to express her love for sex--I had her explain to me how she was going to make me cum
- I told her that she a woman that knows how to excite me
I'm blown away by how much the sex is improving, holy balls. I've been grinding that pussy out reaaaaal slow and she gets wet like waterfalls. I'm busting some FANTASTIC nuts. Let me tell you, all is well in the dick department. This has enhanced our interactions so much, she is really coming out of her shell, sprinkling in that girly arrogance that I love. As expected though, she is starting tp push some expectations on me now. It is very subtle at the moment ( I will post the texts below) but she is defintely wondering what my plans are with her. As said earlier I can't date this girl. She is making me complacent at the moment, while our relationship is getting deeper my game is not growing. I NEED the hustle of hunting down pussy right now. I really want to continue seeing her though. Any advice anyone?
Her: Just got home :) thank you fr coming with me lol are you only going to text me when you need your hard drive fixed again
Me: yes luv. the keyboard needs some work too
Me: but if computer work aint your thing I up the meme ante for you beb
Her: hahah I can do both dont worry
Me: have fun tomorrow night boo thang dont worry too much <---she is going to prom and her date wants to bang which I pretty much laughed off and told her to ask him "if he enjoys peeing sitting down and what his fav katy perry song is"
Her: thanks so much ;) I will def let you know how it goes
Seems super basic. Sexual innuendos galore
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
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I should really post the whole convo. I made the hard drive joke earlier on in the day when I invited her over, what she is doing here is blaming me for ONLY texing her for sex! I think I handled it just fine but I feel a shit storm abrewing.
I want to keep her around but if she is going to hold me down I can't be apart of it. I want to know how to keep her around without a relationship. Maybe the answer is to just carry on with what i'm doing?
I don't want to let my emotions or social conditioning get in the way here. There is no reason why we can't enjoy each other outside of an exclusive relationship.