Shaping a Super Hottie's behaviour Over Text
Pulled this girls number of instagram - showed that conversation in another thread.
Oh and just a little update - PB may be settling down. One of the girls I was hooking up with, well she's quite fantastic and being around her feels fucking amazing. Like it feels right. So we're starting to get exclusive lol. Going to be a nice change of pace. Plus it's nice having that deeper connection.
Anyways, here's the gold
Part One
me: I don't care if your real name is Rebecca. I have you as (her ig name) in my phone lol. It's PB, what's up
her: Hahhah I'm good just getting ready to go home for a few days, you?
me: Not a born and raised torontonian eh. Where yah roots? Just making some dinner, gawdd I hate cooking
her: No I am I'm in waterloo right now headed back to Toronto !
me: Yah waterloo would get super boring summertime. Do you go to laurier or kick it with the asian at waterwoooo
This was a bit to try hard gamey so she didn't respond
me: Don't just ignore me.. Say something, loser ;)
her: Sowry!
her: No I'm actualy a college student I go to (x school)
me: Lol I shouldn't have assumed. I only did one year of uni, wasn't really for me
me: what are you taking?
her: Early childhood education going to uni after
Okay so here, she's not giving me enough, not investing. She's putting in the minimum effort and that's fucked up so I need to shape her behavior and bring in more edge
me: Don't tell me you like working with rugrats, pffff
her: what's wrong with that!
me: Kids are evillll! Can't trust ummmmm
her: You can so!
me: They're so fkn wily haha! How's toronto treating yah
me: good good, just been laxin today
Fucker didn't ask me a question or antyhing. She's still be bitch as fuck. Need to put her in a negative box or something
me: I hope laxin is code word for something cool
her: Re laxin
Lol this bitch is on a whole other level
me: Yah don't ask about my day, it's fine
her: Sorry
her: I'm a bad texter ;)
Beautiful. Showing her i'm a high value guy and I expect to be treated better. She responds well
me: Yeah haha you are! Gawd I'm so over this whole traffic thing, soon they'll be building freeways for me
her: Hahahhah so what are ya doing tonight
Bammmmmm!!!!!!! And she's cooked. Turned that fucker around. Read this shit, internalize it and pull from it. I'll share part two when we get some more comments here.
bam, this shit's super sweet, dude! Short and on point with the explanations of why you do what you do. very helpful. Will have to come back here way more.
def getting some amazing value from reading your convos up here.
Quite a lot of your lines are actually appearing randomly in my conversations text and spoken. ha!
calibration is still a bummer for me, but it will come.
Only thing here.I don't really get here is the first line. some context piece missing maybe. she just send you her name or what?
instagram thread was this ? http://manwhore.org/forum/content/instagram-number-close-pb-tinder-tacti...
Wow so that's how you take back control and whip a chicks behavior into shape. I'll have to take notes this is the exact problem I'm having in my one-itis thread
bam, this shit's super sweet, dude! Short and on point with the explanations of why you do what you do. very helpful. Will have to come back here way more.def getting some amazing value from reading your convos up here.
Quite a lot of your lines are actually appearing randomly in my conversations text and spoken. ha!
calibration is still a bummer for me, but it will come.
Only thing here.I don't really get here is the first line. some context piece missing maybe. she just send you her name or what?
instagram thread was this ? http://manwhore.org/forum/content/instagram-number-close-pb-tinder-tactics-revealed
Yes that was the IG thread.
The first text was a joke that I was keeping her IG tag line instead of using her real name. Since her IG tag line was a play on words of her real name
Haha! I've been including those little "shaping" quips in each section but I'm wondering if I should make them their own chapter. I feel like it's not something guys should be focusing on too soon in the game tho.
Jeffy didn't get back to me the other day and I needed a response so I texted him, "Now's not the time to be doing your nails I'm trying to buy this ticket"
THIS. Is amazing:
me: Yah don't ask about my day, it's fine
her: Sorry
her: I'm a bad texter ;)
Beautiful. Showing her i'm a high value guy and I expect to be treated better. She responds well
...So cheeky. I love it. LOL. She was being a little shit and PB called it, so she started making excuses.
Chris wrote:
bam, this shit's super sweet, dude! Short and on point with the explanations of why you do what you do. very helpful. Will have to come back here way more.def getting some amazing value from reading your convos up here.
Quite a lot of your lines are actually appearing randomly in my conversations text and spoken. ha!
calibration is still a bummer for me, but it will come.
Only thing here.I don't really get here is the first line. some context piece missing maybe. she just send you her name or what?
instagram thread was this ? http://manwhore.org/forum/content/instagram-number-close-pb-tinder-tactics-revealed
Yes that was the IG thread.
The first text was a joke that I was keeping her IG tag line instead of using her real name. Since her IG tag line was a play on words of her real name
jup that was it. cool.
this is gold
Like my mind is completely blown from this post
God bless you PB
Any of you guys used this successfully? Regardless, it's worth a bump.
So I had a chick who was enthusiastic about meeting and everything but was not in town or had a big exam. Now we're after the exam and her responses are kinda shitty, never really engaging, so I gave this a try.
so after some banter:
Me: how's your weekend?
Her: great with a friend
Me: yah, don't ask about me, it's fine
He: I don't like when someone is turning rusty easily (hope the translation is good)
So yeah that was the exact reason I've never tried this before. I felt it can be easily misinterpreted as a low-value msg. Most likely I just lost the attraction with that chick over the long time gap, maybe it's a bit cultural diff. too. So if I had more value in her eyes it would've worked out differently.
Not sure how to reframe now...
maybe
Me: Nah, it's just you being a shitty tester - probably after graduation crisis lol ;) (she also mentioned once she's not sure how the next months or so will be)
Bon its cause after repetitive non investment Bateman busted out something like that
Thats not your issue. I’ve used that line and its worked for me. Same date lay :). I push it sometimes by adding in a “:p” to soften the blow but other times not.
OK, thanks!
Actually, it was also a repetitive non-investment in my case, that's why I thought that line would be ideal. Good idea with the ":P" it might have been enough actually, gotta be more careful with these European chicas. She's cute but not super hottie, so self-esteem may come into play as well when interpreting the msg.
Rusty?