Validation seeking pattern/problem - any advice?
I wrote up a decently long response to it and then it got wiped. Lol
Anyone else can share from their experience?
Great post. Thanks.
Which of Tole's book would you recommend?
When I feel needy I just remember that I am here to please myself first. This applies from opener to sex. Like seriously dood at times you will be pretty much conversing with yourself until she bites. Focus on your enjoyment.
Adapting a screening mentality has helped me. Instead of going up to girls and trying to make them like you, you talk to girls for the fun of it, and you're looking for girls that you connect with.
If you adapt that mentality you will probably find yourself prizing yourself more and qualifying girls instead of asking questions, for example.
Making it a habit being awesome with everyone, not only hot girls has also helps with this.
^Having your shit together is important of course, but these are some things you can try while infield.