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Well stay flexible to the

Well stay flexible to the situation. If she backturns you like that, you allow it to be and make remarks on it while still keeping the frame that you're the boss. "Yeah you turn around so you can make me that sandwich girl. I like watching you work." Now you don't have to be a complete dick 'n balls, but if she's playing the game with you, you've got to flex to the situation. 

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Cool, thanks. I texted her

Cool, thanks.

I texted her Saturday:

me: How's ur weekend boo

her: My weekend is cool.. How's yours?

me: Great, a lil tired tho I went hard last night. U like sushi?

her: Lol what did u do and yes

me: xClub I feel like u haven't been there it's more Edm scene

me: And perfect I just found this awesome sushi place;)

her: O okay.. And where?

me: Off xStreet kinda downtown

her: Cool.. What are u doin now?

me: Just reading lovebug you

her: Aww(emoji blush) I'm at the room in San mo

Didn't text yesterday- I'm thinking of texting

me: I heard sushi tastes best on Thursdays

me: When the fish is freshly harpooned

or 

me: When the fish is fresh from Okinawa

I don't think either of my 2nd texts are very good but I feel like I need to say something else to keep it fun and light rather than being so blunt/logical

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Well what's weird is you

Well what's weird is you essentially hit it 'n quit it. 

me: Off xStreet kinda downtown

her: Cool.. What are u doin now?

me: Just reading lovebug you

her: Aww(emoji blush) I'm at the room in San mo

Didn't text yesterday- I'm thinking of texting

This is some of the craziest shit I've ever seen from you. You nailed her. She asked you what YOU were doing NOW. You got her blushing. She told you her logistics. Then you just decided to play Halo 4 instead 

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Well I could have kept

Well I could have kept texting her but I didn't really feel like going to where she was right then, I thought that might've came off needy and/or that she was likely with friends and going back to her/my place wouldn't be as easy. Plus I want to practice my date game

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What the fuck are you talking

What the fuck are you talking about. 

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Are you saying that I should

Are you saying that I should have just told her I was coming to the bar she was at and gone over?

Or are you saying that for me to not text her back on the high point of the convo was dumb

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^^both.  You basically had

^^both. 

You basically had her in your sights with your breath held. And then you decided to be pro-gay.

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This is happening right

She just texted

her: Hi

me: Hey babe what you doing

her: Watchin tv

her: Wyd

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me: O ya is it a cool show. I

me: O ya is it a cool show. I wana come watch

her: It's a movie

me: It better not have any bad language young lady thats not allowed

10 min later

me: Esp. when u start without me

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Those are pretty good but

Those are pretty good but without any kind of fair warning I would discount this as highly improbably of working out. Ask her if she's out for the night or if she's still down to do something. Maybe she just wants to booze and browse netflix 

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her: Lol her: Welp guess I'm

her: Lol
her: Welp guess I'm on trouble
me: Yes muffin, you'll have to make it up to me by inviting me over ad making me a sandwhich in heels now

lmao she hasnt texted back since that

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I'd have invited you over.

I'd have invited you over. Shit I'm already wearing heels 

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today  her: Lol you're

today 

her: Lol you're funny

5 hrs later

me: You're cute

her: Thank u.. So are u

Any ideas of how to get her to invite me over?

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Why are you so stuck in your

Why are you so stuck in your logistics. 

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I'm not, I could have her

I'm not, I could have her come here I just have to clean up

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Lazy fucking bullshit 

Lazy fucking bullshit 

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My apt actually has jacuzzi's

My apt actually has jacuzzi's and pool tables so was thinking bout inviting her for one of those. But I'd rather keep it simpler and "watch a movie"

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Go for shooting pool. You can

Go for shooting pool. You can always segue to movie 

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- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)

- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male

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her: Thank u.. So are u me:

her: Thank u.. So are u

me: What you doing tonight

me: I just got some beer

her: I'm doin some work.. U?

me: How long you working for? Lets hang after

her: Not sure

Should I say something like

"Okay cool finish up that work by Thursday, and prepare to be schooled at pool ; )"

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I dont want to push for

I dont want to push for tonight again and inadvertantly be stacking "no's"

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This is my current problem

G-Money wrote:
^^both. 

You basically had her in your sights with your breath held. And then you decided to be pro-gay.

This is my current problem also Alex... i gotta start pulling the fucking trigger..

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Naw you want to go after her

Naw you want to go after her for a noncommittal text like that.

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- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male

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Ok how bout  "Ok ms.

Ok how bout 

"Ok ms. Noncommittal lose my # then"

or something cryptic like

"Whoops, thought u were cool

Not quite sure how to reprimand without sounding butthurt